In order to be a mother to have a single child, can this give enough material security and enough love to the child?

Four years ago, in the summer, 29-year-old Li Xueke decided to fulfill her wish to be a mother before the age of 30. At that time, she experienced several periods of emotions that ended in a hurry, and found it difficult to devote herself to her feelings, and she did not want to get married in order to have children, and gradually had the idea of having children.

In the autumn of 2018, after visiting Thailand for three months, Li Xueke selected a medical institution for IVF through an intermediary. Immediately after, she injected ovulation, retrieved eggs, selected a British sperm, implanted three embryos at once, and successfully implanted them all. After that, in order to save the fetus, she gave more than 140 injections of progesterone. After the birth of the child, for a period of time, Li Xueke fell into postpartum depression. She felt like a feeding machine, and every day, three children cried in a mess and scrambled to climb on top of her to feed. Sometimes, she had just hugged her little daughter, and the two brothers were angry again, crying uncontrollably.

Not only is the spirit beyond ordinary people, the economy is also higher than ordinary people, 3 children spend nearly 100,000 a month, of which the cost of 3 aunts is 20,000, next, Li Xueke plans to send the children to a private kindergarten in Hangzhou, spending more than 1 million a year. She believes that she can support the family, "If I can't make money in the future, it should not be a problem to rely on my existing assets to support them until they reach adulthood, so I have the courage to have three children." 」 ”

Seeing such a self-reliant and self-reliant woman, some netizens broke the defense, compared to ruining a family for the bride price of sixty-six thousand, I believe that such a single mother really lived into a model for many women, some netizens commented that they got married in order to have children, and finally became a mother with a tutor and a nanny, single birth is really better than marriage and childbirth.

Ms. Li also believes that as long as you give your children enough love and material protection to make them feel safe enough, you will give your children a complete home. In fact, in the author's opinion, a complete home is not only a material guarantee, enough love requires a great mountain of fatherly love and water-like tender maternal love, single childbirth seems to be self-reliance and self-reliance, a symbol of power. But for children, it is more of a lack of spirit. There are many people in society who are lacking in their personality because of single-parent families, who either give up on themselves, or have a low sense of security, or do not trust anyone, and are full of thorns. And women are born without a kind of courage and vigor in men, and this spirit cannot be taught to children even if they act as fathers. So the author believes that the cultivation of children's personality, as well as the growth of childhood, a sound family is really crucial, what do you think about this?