Lin Qingkun, played by Wang Yaoqing in the TV series "Perfect Partner", makes people love and hate.
Lin Qingkun's career in the play is very successful, but he is really bad for his wife, and many netizens evaluate him: scumbag! But Lin Qingkun, who seems to lack a string in front of his wife, is very careful and considerate in front of his partner Chen Shan.
So much so that Chen Shan's colleague joked: Lin Zong should not like Sister Shan, right?! And Lin Qingkun's ex-wife Wu Min even tearfully denounced him: It turns out that you are "treating differently".
After Lin Qingkun's divorce, is it really empathetic not to fall in love with Chen Shan? Non also! He just grew and matured, but the price he paid for it was too sadistic.
Treat your wife coldly
At first, the division of labor between Lin Qingkun and his wife Wu Min was very clear, the male lord was outside, and the female was inside. And Lin Qingkun and Wu Min also did a very good job in "their respective fields":
Lin Qingkun's career is very successful, he provides rich and thick material conditions for the life of Wu Min's mother and son, and Wu Min also takes care of the small family very well, and the kitchen is in the hall.
But the good times are not long, and the long-term mode of getting along with 2 people under the fixed system of marriage is destined to end in divorce.
Before the divorce drama of life, Lin Qingkun's performance was really angry.
After marrying Lin Qingkun, Wu Min has always been a full-time wife, and she "sacrificed" herself to complete her husband and children.
Wu Min, who reacted to it, wanted to open a custody class so that she could take care of her children, but also play to her strengths and have her own career.
Busy preparations made her ignore the physical error, so that she accidentally fell off the stairs and accidentally miscarried.
At that time, Lin Qingkun's reaction was very contradictory: he was not in a hurry to look at Wu Min who fell down; he was very angry after knowing that Wu Min had given birth.
In his opinion, How could Wu Min, who had already given birth to 1 child, not know about the existence of the child, and her carelessness was "extremely evil", and he could not forgive.
Under the domination of this anger, Lin Qingkun's behavior is so "scum" that people can't look at it directly:
After Wu Min gave birth, he did not insist on letting Wu Min hospitalize and recuperate, not to mention, 2 people quarreled, so that Wu Min instantly became a homeless person;
Seeing Wu Min sad and crying, he did not come forward to comfort her, but asked her to go to the bathroom to tidy up herself, he did not understand at all, people after childbirth can not touch the taboo of cold water;
When Wu Min's father was sick and hospitalized, Lin Qingkun did not appear from beginning to end because he was busy with work, and he did not feel that what he was doing was wrong.
Lin Qingkun's various behaviors made Wu Minhan feel through.
Wu Min was treated so "coldly" that after recognizing the reality, she decided to divorce.
Does Lin Qingkun not love Wu Min? No! Does Lin Qingkun really not understand? Nor is it!
He is just used to being in front of Wu Min and becoming a "brainless" dependent.
He felt that Wu Min did not have to worry about his life, he could safely hand over the backyard to Wu Min, and the only thing he needed to work hard was his career prospects.
His "cold treatment" of Wu Min is a habit, but also inertia. His "favoritism" toward Chen Shan proved all this.
Favoring Chen Shan
Chen Shan and Lin Qingkun are a kind of people, they both love their work and enjoy the sense of achievement in their work.
The only difference between Chen Shan and Wu Min is that many of Chen Shan's behaviors are under Lin Qingkun's eyes, and the so-called "near the water tower platform first gets the moon" is roughly this truth.
And Lin Qingkun's "favoritism" towards Chen Shan comes partly from Lin Qingkun's polite cultivation, and more from the "stressful growth" after divorcing Wu Min.
Chen Shan rested for a week after giving birth and entered work mode. On the plane with Lin Qingkun on a business trip to the northeast, Chen Shan confessed to the accusation.
Lin Qingkun's reaction was very fierce, he grabbed Chen Shan to let her get off the plane to rest well, at this time he clearly knew that women after the birth needed rest the most.
Chen Shan insisted on working, and Lin Qingkun had no choice but to "protect" Chen Shan more carefully:
At the banquet, he helped Chen Shan block all toasts on the grounds that Chen Shan had just recovered from a serious illness; after getting drunk, he broke the sky in the video, scolding Sun Lei as a dog;
When Chen Shan was allergic to medicine and hung water in the hospital, Lin Qingkun bought her hot water and gave Chen Shan a pillow for one night, and did not dare to move.
Lin Qingkun was really good to Chen Shan, and he used all the thoughtfulness and thoughtfulness he felt in Wu Min on Chen Shan.
Wu Min is sad, Chen Shan is lucky, and Lin Qingkun's growth price is really sadistic:
He and Wu Min have been together for more than 20 years, and he has always wanted a home, but this family has fallen apart because of his "ruthlessness";
He loves Wu Min, he thinks he is doing a good job, but what he gives with all his strength is what Wu Min does not want to give;
And he was blatant about Chen Shan's "favoritism": he could see Chen Shan's strength and weakness in her work; he admired Chen Shan's protection of Chen Shan, and he did not empathize with Wu Min's guilt to Chen Shan.
Lin Qingkun is successful in his career, but in life, he is "blind and blind".
In his relationship with Wu Min, he has always been the one who has been well taken care of, and he has become accustomed to Wu Min's unilateral efforts, and over time, the habit has become natural.
He became only asking and not knowing how to reciprocate. Under the logic of inertia, he appears ruthless and scummy.
Many people say that divorced men know how to hurt people better.
But the price paid behind this "heartache" is even more sadistic:
Many men, indeed, after divorce, only learn how to hurt 1 person, love 1 person, and protect 1 family!
This is probably the root cause of the "very popular" of many divorced men!