In fact, in saying sweet words or expressing their feelings, men are far less talented than women, may be a sentence of "I love you", women do not hesitate to say it, and men have to hesitate for half a day, and finally they are embarrassed to say it.
Because many feelings need to be spoken out to know, it is easy for women to feel that the other party does not care about themselves.
In fact, some feelings have reached a height that cannot be described in words.
To tell the truth, in the relationship between the sexes, men who love you more than you think will treat you like this.
First, it will tell you right and wrong
The reader's boyfriend is not a person who understands romance, and it can even be said that he does not understand the style, but only the reader himself knows what kind of a treasure boyfriend he is.
At the beginning, the reader's personality is a bit pampered, she always feels that everyone should revolve around herself, even if she makes a mistake, she will not apologize, and the other party bows her head first is the truth.
Later, the boyfriend told her that it was not right to do so, because it was good to fall in love or get married, not always let a person compromise and seek perfection, the first apology was good, if the number of times, the person who has been wronged will definitely have dissatisfaction, and when the time comes, the accumulation of bad emotions will inevitably have a bad impact on feelings.
Therefore, since then, readers have begun to change their own approach, when they make mistakes, they will also try to solve the problem well, recognize their mistakes, until now, the feelings of the two people are still rock solid, even if there are occasional small frictions, they will be solved in a reasonable way.
In "Intimate Relationships", the author said: "Your intimate relationship partner is used to help you know yourself better, heal your wounds, and finally find your true self, so it is a bridge to our souls." ”
People who truly love us will want to go to the end with us, so they will eliminate the factors that may lead to unhappiness in their feelings, and then let our feelings get closer and closer to happiness.
Will give you encouragement and warmth
01), the tv series "A Tree of Peach Blossoms" in the bloom after the divorce feels like her life fell into a trough, due to her own negligence so that a large number of ceramics in the ceramic factory have become defective products, she is facing huge compensation, and she is also divorced, the world is big, she does not know where can be her home.
Later, the man appeared, and he told Shengfeng that she was the best person in the world, that she was not useless, and he encouraged Shengkai to open a ceramic craft hall, and the rent and decoration fees were cushioned by himself, just as Shengkai asked him to borrow.
His appearance made a sudden light appear in Bloom's originally gray world, and he let Bloom know that he was not so bad, and later, the two people finally became dependents, and the man loved Bloom as always.
02), in fact, for women, what they want in a relationship is very simple, nothing more than love and security, if you can have a person in their own world, give themselves encouragement and warmth, then they will get positive psychological hints, and then go full of confidence and strength.
Zhang Xiaoxian once said: "I just hope that there is someone who knows that I am not really okay when we say that I am okay; that there can be someone who, when I force a smile, knows that I am not really happy." ”
Don't let us be alarmed, don't disturb us, don't let us drift away, don't have any branches to rely on, such men may not say anything sweet on their lips, but all their feelings melt in actual action, and they love themselves far more than we think.
Will push you forward
Good love, in fact, is like a teacher, we can experience the beauty of love at the same time, but also can learn a lot of things, such as responsibility, self-motivation and responsibility, so that we can become a better person.
The heroine in the TV series "Empty Alley" has a boyfriend, who says that she loves her, but hides her college admission letter, causing the heroine to lose the opportunity to become more excellent, but the boyfriend faces her questioning, and actually says that he is afraid that the heroine will not be worthy of her after becoming better.
But how can such feelings be love? It's just selfishness, because the man who really loves you, how willing to give up the opportunity to make you better, in his world, as long as you live well, that is the thing that makes her feel the happiest.
In Long Yingtai's "Dear Andrei", she wrote to her son: "The partner you need is preferably someone who can stand side by side with you at the bow of the ship, sing the scenery of both sides of the strait, and at the same time hold your hand tightly in the rough seas." ”
And this is the love given to us by a responsible and responsible man, telling us what is good and what is not good, and such a man is worthy of our life.