Make rules for your child and start at any time it's never too late

As a parent, in the process of parenting, the following life scenes are staged almost every day.

For example: say that you will sleep after five minutes of play, and when the time comes, the little guy will start to play, "Play for five minutes."

The toys in one place refused to be cleaned up by themselves, and after being confiscated, the children began to cry again.

Going out to the mall, seeing everything you want, not buying it, the bear child will cry and lie on the ground and roll.

Raising children is the most wonderful thing in life, but these "disobedient" moments can immediately ignite the anger of mothers.

But every time you yell and scream, you can't get the cooperation of the child. In addition to more self-blame, parents have also fallen into a mess where parent-child contradictions have intensified again and again...

Can such a cycle stop? What other way out do we have?

In Mommy's "Your Parent-Child Relationship Is Worth Tens of Millions", MomMyo shares with us how to let her children cooperate with parents.

Before we talk about the method, let's first understand why your child doesn't listen to you.

Once took the baby to the playground to play, a little girl was playing at home, when the little girl's father came to her and said, little friend, we are ready to go home.

The little girl begged: I'll play a little longer!

After waiting for a while, the little girl's father began to urge again, hurry up, let's go home!

The little girl said: I will play for another minute!

The little girl's father had to sit and play with the mobile phone again.

This picture is like my children watching TV at home, every time they say that they will only watch one episode, after watching one episode, he said to watch another episode.

If parents agree to their children's requirements at this time, they are committing the taboo of parenting: there is no principle, and they do not do what they say.

Mom Rice Cake said in "Your Parent-Child Relationship Is Worth Tens of Millions" that it is precisely because of repeated compromises on the agreement that the child will become more and more unruly.

In the face of this scenario, what should be the correct approach for parents?

If you agree with the child to watch only one episode of TV, the time is up, the child begs to watch another episode, then the parents should resolutely refuse, tell the child, talk to count, abide by the agreement, otherwise the things that the parents promised you in the future will not be done.

The attitude of parents is resolute, so that after rejecting the child more times, the child can slowly abide by the agreement, and say as long as it can be.

Therefore, it is important to adhere to the principle, can not compromise, once there is a compromise, the child will not abide by the rules next time.

When many parents, especially the elderly, complain that their children "don't listen to what they say", they should really reflect on it: Is it their repeated concessions that have brought their children's inches forward?

Don't think that letting children be just small things, children who were not constrained when they were young will be difficult to become a person who can restrain themselves in the future.

Setting rules for children, whether for parents or children, is a very important thing.

So, how can parents still exchange their children's cooperation without yelling or shouting?

First, take the time to train your child so that he understands the rules

For example, when children challenge dangerous actions, parents should use language that children can understand, simply and clearly tell children the consequences of challenging dangerous actions and demonstrate correct practices.

Abiding by the rules sometimes violates the child's lively and active nature, such as public places can not be touched and moved, sleep and eat on time, etc., at this time, parents need to be patient, spend their minds on ways, repeatedly emphasize, so that children are familiar with and master the rules.

Second, teach children to be responsible for their own actions and let children know how to follow the rules

For example, if the child is naughty and litters, parents can ask the child to pick up the littered things to the trash can.

There is a way to raise children, and using the right method can naturally do more with less.

Teach your child to follow the rules, the most incompetent parents will use the method of tantrums and scolding their children, and the kind and determined parents will achieve their goals by making their children responsible for their actions.

For example, if he does dangerous things, he will be restricted from playing freely; if he throws things, he will pick them up and throw them in the trash.

To develop a good habit, adults still need to be constantly mentioned, practiced, and repeated, let alone children. The child forgets the rules, the parent can remind, the more times it is repeated, he will naturally remember.

Make rules for your child, let your child follow the rules, it is not too late to start at any time, and it is not too much to repeat it as many times as possible.

As a parent, the duty is to help children grow into a better look!