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What is the most helpless thing about a man in this life?
In my opinion, it is just the inability to give her happiness when she meets true love.
On January 16, 2022, on the streets of Suzhou, a man was photographed by netizens kneeling to a girl in the cold wind. It is reported that the man is from Anhui, the woman is from Jiangxi, and the two people are in a romantic relationship and have been together for three years.
In love for three years, it was supposed to talk about marriage, but the woman had to follow the advice of the family and go home to go on a blind date.
In the face of the girlfriend who wants to go home for a blind date, the man is both painful and aggrieved, so he kneels down and begs the girl, can give him another chance, give him a little more time, he will definitely be able to give the other party happiness.
In the face of the man's pleading, the woman did not have a soft heart, but bluntly said that she knew the man's family conditions, 280,000 dowry, could not be taken out. Since she couldn't get it out, don't delay each other, she couldn't afford to wait.
I don't know whether this matter is true or not, but I also saw it by chance on the Internet. But things like this are not uncommon.
Coincidentally, this kind of thing has happened to me. A friend of mine, Matsumoto, his family conditions are not good, and we all know it.
So, when he led a beautifully dressed girl with exquisite makeup to us and introduced us to him as his girlfriend, we congratulated him and worried about him.
We have all been in love, know that falling in love, including marriage, has requirements for the economy, but according to Matsumoto's conditions, we are very worried that the girl will abandon him after understanding.
Therefore, when there is only Matsumoto alone, we remind Matsumoto inside and outside the words that before everything is determined, don't give your all, and it is you who is hurt by falling too deeply.
Ke Songyuan did not listen, he believed that feelings had nothing to do with economic conditions, as long as he treated his girlfriend well, everything would come naturally.
Things didn't go as Matsumoto had imagined. After Matsumoto led the girl back to his hometown where there was no TV series for the first time, the girl stayed at his house for no more than two hours, then found an excuse to get in the car and leave, and since then, she has never taken Matsumoto's phone.
This incident made Matsumoto feel devastated, and from then on he was afraid when he heard the two words of love. Since falling in love with the girl for a year, matsumoto has seen how good she is.
As long as the girl said a word, no matter what Matsumoto was doing, he would immediately appear in front of her. In order to make the girl's stay better, Matsumoto hardly has weekends, and every time he takes a leave of absence, it is because the girl needs him.
Indeed, Matsumoto is very desperate, and the monthly income is not low, but ordinary people like us, even if they work hard, they still earn hard money, and they cannot make up for the lack of poor family conditions.
For a man, poor family conditions mean that it is possible to afford a house, cannot afford a car, means that there is no high quality of life, means that there is no year-round.
Women must have their own considerations when facing this kind of man. Will you suffer after marrying, will you have to pay off the mortgage together, will you still have a burden on your in-laws, and so on.
Based on these considerations, even if the man in front of her has some ability and is good to her, she will be more realistic, after all, the possibility of expecting such a man to be rich and wealthy is almost zero.
I still remember when the two people just broke up, the girl did not answer Matsumoto's phone, and Matsumoto also collapsed like the man mentioned at the beginning of the article. But no matter how much he sent a pleading text message, it was like a stone sinking into the sea.
After watching more such things, I suddenly thought of a sentence: Don't deceive young people poor.
House prices are often millions, bride price is often hundreds of thousands, which young man who has graduated for a few years can afford to buy and give? Unless the family conditions are really good and can do everything for the son.
For girls, their parents want them to marry a rich family, and they are right. But can't this condition be allowed to override the feelings of two people?
Whether it is the girl who broke up with her boyfriend and went home for the 280,000 bride price, or the girl who abandoned Matsumoto, should you also look at the sincerity of the man in front of you?
When we are looking for the other half, we need to look at each other's economic situation, but we need to see if the other party is sincere and loving to you.
When you abandon this man who is willing to kneel for you and is willing to suffer for you, can you still meet a man who treats you like this?
In addition to feelings, I also want to marry a daughter who wants a dowry of hundreds of thousands of dollars at every turn, and the dowry is not a transaction.
Hundreds of thousands of dowries, I believe can be taken out happily, there are not many families left in hand. I think the bride price when I got married, but it was only thirty thousand yuan, and ordinary families could afford it.
After marriage, the two people work hard to make money together, buy a house and buy a car to repay the loan, although the life is not so rich, but also happy, at least this cent, all earned by their own efforts, not nibbling on the old.
In addition to this, I also want to say to the man that if a woman measures your feelings with money, even regardless of your feelings for several years, bites the bride price and does not let go of the property, then such a woman is not very serious, and will not pay much for you in this relationship.
That being the case, don't let go of your dignity, and let someone who can't keep her free, which is also a way for you to love her.
Of course, whether it is a man or a woman, aside from feelings, the most important thing is to improve yourself, only when you have a certain ability and continue to climb, can you live the life of your dreams.
Even if you are bitter and tired, you must be angry and strong, so that the person who looked down on you at the beginning will regret his original actions.
When you no longer worry about these hundreds of thousands of dollars, your life will rise to a higher level, and you will find that those things are not worth mentioning, all of which are laying the foundation for your success.
Girls, it is important to look at the man's family situation when getting married, but in addition, don't forget to see if the person in front of you is sincere and whether he is a potential stock.
Boys, it doesn't matter if you are poor for a while, you are afraid of being poor for a lifetime. Instead of feeling sorry for yourself and clinging to the pain of the past and not letting go, it is better to be free, and then work hard and make good money.
Maybe the girl who really hurts you is still waiting for you ahead.
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