There is such a paragraph about a northeastern woman on the Internet - she is from the northeast without drinking, and she is hers when she drinks alcohol.
Although this sentence is a joke, it is not completely unreasonable.
Not long ago, the actress Xiao Songjia from the northeast confessed to the actresses after drinking. This operation also made netizens more aware that the character of Little Song Jia is actually very real and bold.
And such a beautiful and lovely woman, to the age of 41 now, is still in the middle of the word.
This can't help but make people wonder, what kind of love concept xiao Songjia has in her heart, and what kind of emotional experience does she have?
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It is said that the original family will affect a person's life, which is not false at all, at least for Little Song Jia.
In 1980, Little Song Jia was born in An ordinary and happy family in Harbin.
She has been lively and active since she was a child, as mischievous as a boy. When she was 8 years old, Little Song Jia met the teacher Feng Shaoxian, a yueqin player, by chance.
Unexpectedly, this teacher was particularly fond of Little Song Jia, and because Song Mother had the experience of learning musical instruments, under her instruction, Little Song Jia began her career of learning the national musical instrument Liuqin.
When she first came into contact with Liuqin, Xiao Songjia was very resistant in her heart. The reason is also very simple, practicing is very boring, and it will delay the time to play.
So the ghost spirit she thought of a thousand ways to escape this drudgery, and finally the mother and daughter were angry and broke the piano, and Little Song Jia looked forward to it.
But God did not let her wish, Song Mother saw that the piano was broken and did not say a word, the next day bought a new one back, little Song Jia completely lost her rut, had to continue to practice.
Fortunately, this resistance ended after Little Song Jia played the complete song for the first time.
After that, she practiced Liuqin and spent the entire student era, and when she was in high school, Little Song Jia had left home and came to Shenyang Conservatory of Music High School alone to study.
For a girl who grew up under the care of her parents, the taste of leaving home is difficult. Once, the 3 girls in their dormitory complained of homesickness to each other, and the last few people actually cried.
To make a phone call home, they climbed over the wall. When Little Song Jia said a few words about me wanting to go home on the phone, the father on the other side of the phone did not persuade his daughter to be patient, but directly told her how to buy tickets.
That time, Little Song Jia went home for two or three days without hesitation, and when she returned to school again, she was like a resurrection full of blood.
In 1999, Xiao Songjia went to a vocal teacher to go to class, but she did not expect the appearance of a person, which completely changed her life.
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The person who changed the fate of Little Song Jia was the actor Fan Zhibo, who was also in the vocal teacher's house at the time.
The two girls chatted idly, and Fan Zhibo looked at the young and beautiful little Song Jia and said casually, I think you can go to the Shanghai Theater Academy.
At that time, Xiao Songjia didn't know anything about this college, and she even thought it was a place to learn to sing, and under Fan Zhibo's explanation, Xiao Songjia figured out the situation.
However, it was such a casual dialogue that made Little Song Jia's heart become restless.
When she learned that there was an examination center in the Harbin area, she went to take the exam with great wind and fire, and that time Little Song Jia used eighteen skills, poetry recitation, pop songs, and radio gymnastics were all lit up.
But to tell the truth, despite the hard work of the test, Xiao Songjia has no bottom in her heart, until she tried three times to perform a skit with music and moved herself to cry, and she felt that the performance was a bit interesting.
And Xiao Songjia's performance not only touched herself, but also impressed the teacher, and she was successfully admitted to the play.
During the four years of college, Little Song Jia took classes seriously and occasionally filmed. For a girl of double decades, love seems to be an indispensable part.
Although Little Song Jia rarely talks about her love experience, in some early reports, some clues can also be found.
Some media said that Xiao Songjia's first boyfriend in college was a classmate of the directing department, and the two met and fell in love because they moved props and tables.
Although the love of youth is beautiful, it is also full of variables. It is said that after a few months of falling in love, Little Song Jia broke up because of some gossip about her boyfriend.
In the blink of an eye, a few years passed in a hurry, and Little Song Jia also graduated from acting and became a real actor, and when her classmates rushed to Beijing to develop, she chose to stay in Shanghai.
Because of this, she also met another love. And this time her love object is also an insider.
He is the actor who played Wu Song in the new version of "Water Margin", Chen Long.
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Born in 1976, Chen Long is a native of Shanghai, and he is 4 years older than Song Jia.
In 1996, Chen Long had already been exposed to TV drama shooting, and officially entered the industry the following year by participating in "Vacuum Love Record".
Some media broke the news that Chen Long and Xiao Songjia met at a friend's party, but whether this is really the case, I am afraid that only the parties concerned know.
However, these two people seem to be really compatible, in appearance they are handsome men and beautiful women, and mentally they have common topics, so it is not surprising that they have feelings.
However, this relationship did not last long, and after two years of development in Shanghai, Xiao Songjia got an opportunity to cooperate with Liu Jialing, Hu Jun, and Liao Fan.
As a result, she also moved to Beijing and filmed the movie "Curiosity Kills the Cat", which was nominated for best supporting actress at the 26th Golden Rooster Awards and became a new star in the film and television circle.
Perhaps because of the busyness of work and the long distance, so that Xiao Songjia and Chen Long no longer have time to maintain this relationship, in 2006, they broke up in a low-key manner.
In 2007, there were still fans who cared about them posting in Chen Long Bar asking, are Chen Long and Xiao Song Jia still together?
Soon someone answered, and it had already been divided. In 2009, someone replied that Xiao Songjia is now with Zhang Li, right?
Who is Zhang Li? He is 23 years older than Little Song Jia and is a director with many works and an open style.
He has filmed a series of classic dramas such as "Towards the Republic", "Daming Dynasty 1566", "The Right Way in the World is Vicissitudes", "The Young Marshal" and so on.
At the same time, it is also rumored on the Internet that he has been married 5 times, and each wife is an actor, and when he met Xiao Song Jiayin, his wife was still an actor Liu Bei.
However, in October 2007, the media exposed the news that Zhang Li and Liu Bei had divorced. With the filming of "Once Upon a Time in China", the scandals of Zhang Li and Xiao Songjia have also been continuously reported.
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Regarding the relationship between Xiao Songjia and Zhang Li, it actually seems to be very confusing.
While the gossip spread all over the world, the parties strenuously denied it.
But perhaps Zhang Li and Liu Bei fell in love a few years ago because of the filming of "Military Secrets", so the public will think that similar scenes here in Little Song Jia will be staged again.
And there are indeed some so-called insiders on the Internet, according to the whistleblower said that when the "Once Upon a Time in China" crew, the progress of Xiao Songjia's play will slow down as soon as it is filmed, which is the director's preparation to praise her and is carefully crafting her to cut the scene.
In addition, it is also common for the director to add drama to Xiao Songjia during filming, for example, Zhang Li knows the Liuqin she has studied for many years, and adds a playing scene to the play to show Xiao Songjia's talent.
In the breaking news, there was also a staff member who was believed to be with them day and night, who said that their affairs were no secret in the company for a long time, and Zhang Li also divorced for this.
Although this exposé describes the relationship between Xiao Songjia and Zhang Li very vividly, Xiao Songjia still completely denies it.
She even responded that it was a very boring and disgusting thing, and said that she had been acting well and did not need to use improper means to fight for herself.
Later, when talking about feelings in the interview, Xiao Songjia said that my ideal object is a talented and low-key opposite sex, the concept of love is dare to love and dare to hate, if love is love, I will not think about the consequences.
However, such remarks were said at the time, but they were even more reverie.
Seeing that the scandal intensified, the head of the production side also denied the whistleblower's statement in an interview, saying that the selection of actors and shooting are a very standardized creative process.
As for adding drama to actors, it can happen in any group, which is also the result of joint discussions between the director, the producer and the investor, and it is not something that one person can decide.
And just when the parties and the whistleblowers were arguing, the media took a photo of Xiao Songjia and Zhang Li returning to the residence together after shopping, and the two seemed to be in a good mood and did not seem to be affected by the scandal.
The public also has its own judgment on the relationship between them.
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In fact, no matter what kind of relationship Xiao Songjia and Zhang Li have had, it must be admitted that her acting skills have indeed been improving, and her attitude towards performance is also very serious.
The TV series "Breaking into Kanto" was filmed in an extremely cold place, and the xian'er played by Xiao Songjia became a female bandit, following a group of men to live in the ice and snow, in order to play this role well, Xiao Songjia also did not suffer less.
After the episode was broadcast, Xian Er became the most distressing role, and the actor Xiao Song Jia was indispensable.
Since then, in the spy drama "Cliff", Gu Qiuyan, played by her, has made the audience shine again, and Xiao Songjia has also won the Magnolia Award for Best Actress and the Golden Eagle Award for the audience's favorite actress.
Actors such as Hu Jun and Zhang Jiayi, who have worked with Xiao Songjia, have also praised her dedication and open-mindedness. In fact, she is indeed a very assertive person in life.
In the case of continuous scandals with Zhang Li, they have cooperated many times, and after being rumored to have broken up with Zhang Li, they are still cooperating, and Xiao Songjia used a sentence in the interview that the fate of cooperation is also very clever.
After the scandal with the famous director came to an end, Xiao Songjia's love life was still being paid attention to.
Soon after, the media reported that she and rock singer Xie Tianxiao cooperated in recording songs, and the rumors of Xie Tianxiao's wife breaking the news were also searched on the Internet.
But none of this has been proven, and there is no guarantee of authenticity.
In January 2017, 37-year-old Song Jia was exposed to a suspected new relationship because she was photographed traveling with a man in Thailand.
It is understood that this man is a well-known person in the music circle, Huang Shaofeng.
Huang Shaofeng is 7 years older than Song Jia, has worked with hundreds of artists, and has his own place in the industry.
After being exposed this time, Xiao Songjia still did not respond, but only after a long time she released a dynamic saying that there are people she likes and likes things, and quietly walks through her life.
This passage seems to reveal the state of the relationship, but in fact it is like not saying anything.
Until recently, the media took a photo of her walking with Huang Shaofeng, in which Song Jia took good care of Huang Shaofeng and looked very close.
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From 2017 to 2022, the relationship between Xiao Songjia and Huang Shaofeng has been passed on for 5 years, and as for why not to get married, Xiao Songjia also has her own ideas.
She confessed in an interview that I don't think marriage is the only way to prove love.
In fact, at present, many people have the same idea as Little Song Jia, they think that as long as both parties have the same cognition, they do not have to go into marriage to prove anything.
Everyone has the right to choose how to live their lives, and only falling in love and not getting married is also a different attitude to life.
Whether or not you go to the city, it is a kind of happiness to have someone by your side when you need it.