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Time flies, and the years pass in a hurry. When Song Jia, who is now in her old age, sits on her rocking chair, closes her eyes slightly, lets her mind fly, and looks back on her long journey of ups and downs, an indescribable joy and comfort swells up in her heart.
Since she was a child, Da Song Jia has had a dream about the bright stage. What's even more amazing is that in the arduous course of studying in the eighties of the twentieth century, she successfully admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy, which is renowned at home and abroad.
During her time at the school, she won praise from her mentors and classmates for her outstanding academic performance and outstanding acting talent. What's even more rare is that before she successfully completed her studies, Da Song Jia has already had the precious opportunity to participate in many film and television works, like a spark, which quickly burned all over the country and became famous.
As a result, Da Song Jia seized the opportunity and starred in a number of widely acclaimed film and television dramas. With her superb acting skills and unique personality charm, she quickly rose to the top of her career as a well-known actress who became a household name.
During that time, no matter where she was, there were always a large number of fans surrounding her and shouting her name, and the atmosphere was so warm that it was uncontrollable.
Looking back on the past, Da Song Jia's face showed a proud and emotional expression. With unwavering perseverance and perfect acting skills, she bravely climbed the peak on the road of art and created touching artistic poems.
Although she also encountered several low points in her career in later years, she was always able to return to the peak of her life with her strong strength.
Today's Da Song Jia has entered old age, and her children have also started their own families and careers. However, whenever she talks about her brilliant acting career, Da Song Jia's eyes are still flashing with confidence and pride, and she feels extremely pleased and lucky to be able to devote herself to the career she loves.
Dating back to the early 80s of the last century, when Song Jia was in her youth, her energetic eyes and childish face made her favored by the famous master Zhang Xuejin when she just stepped into the Beijing Film Studio for internship.
Mr. Zhang Xuejin, an artist full of passion and pursuit, was immediately fascinated by the young, beautiful and talented girl after seeing her, and his active pursuit led to a passionate and complex emotional entanglement between the two parties.
Miss Song Jia, although she is only in her youth, she already has great expectations and yearning for career and love in the depths of her heart. She was soon attracted by Mr. Zhang Xuejin's profound artistic attainments and mature and stable personality, and the two began a passionate and challenging relationship.
Although there is a huge age gap between them, that doesn't stop them from having a genuine love for each other. After some careful consideration, Da Song Jia finally bravely opened her heart and happily accepted Zhang Xuejin's marriage proposal.
So, in the private doubts and ridicule of some relatives and friends, they only held a simple and low-key wedding.
In the sweet moment of the newlywed, Da Song Jia is often awakened by the warm sunshine in the early morning, and she will listen to her husband's steady breathing with joy, silently praying that this marriage will be eternal.
She would get up to prepare breakfast, take care of the housework, and live the life of a virtuous wife.
In this quiet and beautiful time, a lively and cute little princess unexpectedly descends into their lives, injecting more warmth and laughter into the family.
However, no one expected that this brief time of happiness turned out to be just a calm before a storm.
While the youngest daughter was playing and playing, she accidentally spilled hot water on Zhang Xuejin's feet, causing him to suffer severe burns. At that time, Zhang Xuejin was engrossed in preparing for a crucial performance, and the accident undoubtedly brought him a heavy physical and mental blow.
As the minutes ticked by, he had no choice but to resort to emergency treatment with plasma transfusions to ease his injuries.
However, fate always plays tricks on people. Due to the limited medical conditions at that time, Zhang Xuejin was unfortunately infected with a rare and deadly virus during the blood transfusion, which caused his physical condition to deteriorate day by day, and even had a frightening seizure.
This sudden disaster undoubtedly threw a heavy cold water on this originally happy family.
In the years that followed, the days of mother and daughter relying on each other became more and more arduous and heavy, as if the whole family was wrapped in a thick shadow.
With Zhang Xuejin's deteriorating physical condition and long-term mental trauma, the once loving couple finally had to choose to part ways. After a painful ideological struggle, Da Song Jia could only watch her daughter gradually grow up, take on the heavy responsibility of raising her alone, and embark on a new and unknown life journey.
As a single mother, Da Song Jia unreservedly devoted all her energy and time, and went all out to cultivate the growth and education of her daughter Zhang Chuchu. She looks forward to using her rich life experience to establish a correct outlook on life and values for her daughter.
Da Song Jia understands that for an artist, inner independence and freedom and spiritual pursuit are very important. Therefore, she never tried to force her daughter to live according to her own expectations, but always listened patiently to her daughter's inner world and gave valuable advice.
At the same time, as a senior who has experienced the peaks and troughs of the art palace, she also strives to teach her daughter how to make steady progress in the fiercely competitive entertainment industry.
Da Song Jia often said to her daughter: "The road of art is not achieved overnight, it requires you to pay hardships and efforts that ordinary people can't imagine." Only with a firm belief in dreams can we move more steadily and calmly on this road.
She also dissected the various difficulties that her daughter may encounter in stage life in detail, and shared her own unique coping strategies.
Under the careful care and wisdom guidance of his mother, Zhang Chuchu gradually grew into an elegant and talented young actor. After she was admitted to her alma mater, Shanghai Theater Academy, with excellent results, she was like a fish in water, swaying in the new world of her career.
Whether it is script analysis or character building, whether it is line expression or emotional rendering, Zhang Chuchu has shown outstanding talent beyond his peers. Each of the works she starred in won unanimous praise from the audience and the jury.
When she witnessed her daughter Zhang Chuchu's career entering a good situation, and her heart swelled with great pride and relief, Da Song Jia gradually began to feel deep worries about her daughter's future lifelong events.
She often said affectionately to her daughter: "Now that you have the career you love, the next step is to find a good partner who you can rely on and truly love."
In the daily life full of warmth and harmony between their mother and daughter, Da Song Jia unabashedly shared her various worries and doubts about her daughter's marriage with Zhang Chuchu.
And Zhang Chuchu seemed to have seen through her mother's heart a long time ago, she responded gently and decisively: "Mother, I will choose a fate that belongs to me at the right time, but I will never step into the marriage hall hastily because I am afraid of loneliness, I will wait patiently for that sincere love, waiting for the soul mate who can go hand in hand with me and rely on each other."
Hearing her daughter's shocking remarks, Da Song Jia seemed to see the indomitable spirit of her youth, and her eyes showed a light of pride and comfort.
The mother and daughter looked at each other and smiled, reading the tacit understanding and sympathy of the soul in each other's eyes, Zhang Chuchu immediately turned his head to comfort his mother: "Mother, you should be the one who has the courage to pursue love!" You have paid countless hardships for our mother and daughter, if you meet the person who is worthy of entrusting your life again, please be brave enough to pursue your own happiness! ”。
After decades of ups and downs in life, Da Song Jia has a unique and deep understanding of love and marriage. She is convinced that marriage is an important chapter in life, but it is not the whole of life, and marriage cannot be regarded as the only value of life.
She said with emotion: "Looking back on my marriage with Zhang Xuejin, although the ending is embarrassing, I have never regretted my original choice. Every emotional journey is like a grinding and embellishment of my life, making me face the world more calmly and generously.
Da Song Jia has always firmly believed that only a marriage relationship that is built on the cornerstone of mutual respect and mutual appreciation, and can promote the common progress and improvement of both parties, is worth cherishing for a lifetime.
On the other hand, if you easily step out of the threshold of marriage based on only short-term passion or external oppression, then this relationship will be difficult to maintain for a long time. Therefore, I hope that you can devote yourself to realizing the greatest value of your person, and when the true destiny that is truly suitable for you comes, you can naturally understand what kind of emotions can share a good time with him and go on a sweet journey of life together.
Song Dajia looks forward to her daughter being like her and having an independent attitude towards life.
At the same time, she also confessed to her daughter her ardent expectations for relationships: "As a woman over half a hundred years old, it is inevitable that there will be some loneliness and anxiety in my heart. However, I am not impatient, nor will I blindly plunge into a new marriage in order to fill the void in my life.
Only when the person who is in touch with my heart appears, I will have the courage to pursue my own happiness" Song Dajia was deeply intoxicated by his unique understanding of marital emotions, and whispered: "Love and marriage are both noble and sacred things, and their foundation should be built on the foundation of mutual respect and appreciation, rather than relying only on financial interests and superficial appearances.