1. How Song Jia's struggle and her choices lead her to a brilliant life
The former Song Jia, according to the established life plan, seems destined to follow in the footsteps of her mentor, grow into an outstanding musician, and live a plain and comfortable life. However, fate opened a whole new door for her at a critical moment in her studies.
That year, Song Jia's senior sister Fan Zhibo, as an outstanding student of the performance department, discovered Song Jia's unique temperament, so she tried her best to persuade and inspire her to devote herself to the palace of performing arts.
Although the future is uncertain, the young and brave Song Jia did not hesitate to choose this acting path full of challenges and opportunities.
So, with full of enthusiasm and a beautiful vision, Song Jia came to the bustling city of Shanghai and was successfully admitted to the Performance Department of the Shanghai Theater Academy. Her brilliance and exceptional talent quickly attracted the attention and praise of the school's professors.
Since then, Song Jia has embarked on a new and brilliant star road in her life journey.
Facing an important turning point in her life, Song Jia unswervingly pursued her innermost desires, and her choice completely changed the original trajectory of her destiny and opened the first door to her dream.
The courage of young people is as hot as fire, and the yearning and pursuit of the future will surely enable her to thrive on this path.
2. The sweetness and confusion of first love
In 2001, Song Jia's wonderful performance in the TV series "I Actually Don't Want to Go" won warm applause from the audience in one fell swoop, and since then she has officially stepped into the stage of the entertainment industry. This work also opened the prelude to a new chapter in the 21-year-old girl's life.
At this critical moment, Song Jia met the first love affair in her life.
That year, when Song Jia was filming the movie "Hibiscus Out of the Water", she met Chen Long, a senior in the same school. Chen Long has already made a name for himself in the entertainment industry, and his handsome and chic appearance and rich acting experience have made the young and young Song Jia fall in love with him.
Soon after, Chen Long was attracted to this cute and innocent schoolgirl and took the initiative to express his love to her.
So, they began a sweet and warm campus romance. As Song Jia's predecessor, Chen Long not only gave her careful guidance in acting, but also gave her meticulous care and care in daily life.
With the full support and encouragement of her love partner, Song Jia has achieved remarkable artistic achievements and quickly rose to become a highly sought-after "new generation Hua Dan" superstar. The two fiery hearts mingled with each other, and they finally met their relatives, and even discussed in depth various plans for a happy life in the future.
However, life isn't always so flawless. In order for Song Jia to end her studies as soon as possible and enter the marriage hall as soon as possible, Chen Long did not hesitate to spend a lot of savings to buy a warm residence in Shanghai.
However, fate likes to joke when people are unexpected - it was in the graduation season when their relationship was the most intense, that the agent Wang Jinghua saw Song Jia's potential and invited her to Beijing to open up a broader world of acting.
Faced with a major opportunity in her career, Song Jia fell into deep confusion. She can choose to spend the rest of her life with her beloved lover and live a plain and happy life; Or bravely pursue your own artistic dreams.
In the end, Song Jia, who was full of endless hopes for the future, firmly chose the latter, she resolutely said goodbye to Chen Long, and followed Wang Jinghua's footsteps to the bustling capital Beijing.
The pain of the breakup undoubtedly left an indelible mark on Song Jia's heart. However, this young and energetic woman has already made up her mind to forge ahead on this path, even if it comes at the cost of tears of her first love.
3. Famous guides lead the way and intervene in other people's marriages
After the breakup, Song Jia did not stop because of this, and the seed of pursuing her artistic dream in her heart had already taken root and sprouted. Under the careful planning of her agent Wang Jinghua, she was able to get acquainted with Zhang Li, a well-known director in the industry.
Although Zhang Li had already experienced five marriages at this time, Song Jia was still full of admiration for his talent and status, and the relationship between the two quickly warmed up and gradually surpassed the moral boundary.
At first, Zhang Li was only attracted by Song Jia's beauty and superb acting skills. However, as time passed, Song Jia also seemed to be gradually lost in his charm and status. She began to ignore the pressure of public opinion and accepted this feeling almost as a matter of course.
The relationship between the two was soon exposed by the media, and Song Jia, who was only 27 years old, and Zhang Li, who was nearly half a hundred years old, openly appeared in hotels and streets, and interacted intimately in public places without concealment, which caused widespread attention and controversy.
The outside world has accused Song Jia of "knowing three things" and "unscrupulous means for the top", giving her an extremely negative evaluation.
In the face of the public's verbal criticism, Song Jia didn't seem to care, as if she had enough confidence to respond forcefully, "What if love comes"! She even dared to ignore the world's eyes and live in Zhang Li's palatial private mansion in a grand manner, publicly admitting that she had become his lover.
And Zhang Li, who is recognized as a dignified and shrewd director, also did not hesitate to give Song Jia all kinds of preferential treatment at work, giving her countless opportunities to increase the weight of drama and recommend acting skills.
In this way, with the help of this deep emotional bond, Song Jia's acting career has soared to 90,000 miles, her works are like blooming flowers, and her popularity is burning like a fire, advancing all the way and winning many heavyweight awards.
However, the price of this relationship is that she bears the notoriety of "starting from chaos and abandoning everything", and has almost become a negative symbol in the entertainment industry.
However, Song Jia turned a deaf ear to these rumors, and it was not until five years later, when it was rumored that Zhang Li planned to marry her as his sixth wife, that she resolutely chose to leave. In fact, she never thought of marrying the director, who was 23 years older than her, and they just used each other both at work and emotionally.
Although Song Jia still made brilliant achievements in her career after the breakup, her love life began to become turbulent.
4. Indulging in fame and fortune and intervening in other people's marriages
Since saying goodbye to Zhang Li, Song Jia has briefly returned to her musical dreams, eager to set sail again in this field. However, it was at this time that she was once again stuck in a dilemma where old habits were difficult to change.
Once, Song Jia appeared at the book signing meeting of the famous musician Xie Tianxiao without any scruples. The intimacy of the two seems to imply some kind of unusual relationship.
What's even more striking is that Xie Tianxiao was already married at that time.
There have been many discussions about this, and they have speculated whether Song Jia is "plotting against others" again, trying to use Xie Tianxiao's reputation to set up another door in the music industry. This time, Xie Tianxiao's wife finally couldn't bear the anger in her heart, and made some of Song Jia's unsightly "black history" public, and even claimed that her "smell on her body is disgusting" and so on, in order to slander her reputation.
In the face of such a sudden blow, Song Jia, who is known for her "arrogance", chose to remain silent this time and quietly disappeared from public view. However, this did not bring her to her senses, but seemed to temporarily hide her deep ambitions.
As expected, soon there was explosive news about Song Jia and the secret love between the married famous actor Huang Shaofeng! The level of love between these two is simply stunning, and the way they snuggle up to each other makes one wonder if their relationship is anything but ordinary.
According to rumors, Huang Shaofeng had a deep affection for Song Jia when he was filming the TV series "Breaking through the Guandong" with his partner, and now that she is back to being single, it is naturally a great blessing for him.
As this public underground affair surfaced, everyone originally thought that Song Jia had finally found true love, but five years later, she admitted on her personal social platform that "she has no plans to get married".
This is undoubtedly a heavy blow to those who used to cheer her on.
From a brief romance with well-known musician Xie Tianxiao to a five-year cohabitation with Huang Shaofeng, Song Jia seems to have fallen into the endless pursuit of fame and fortune. Her extreme desire for power and status made her unhesitant to intervene in other people's marriages and satisfy her own selfish desires without restraint.
However, Song Jia's persistent pursuit of true love comes precisely from the inability to let go of the shadow of her first love deep in her heart. Giving up that beautiful relationship for the sake of her career brought her great psychological trauma, which is why she is so stubborn in finding a new emotional home.
Fifth, at the age of 42, he is still single, hovering on the edge of love
Song Jia, 42 years old, is in full swing in her career, and many excellent film and television works have thrown olive branches to her. With her superb acting skills and the luck to meet many directors and other industry insiders, she has successfully entered the heart of the entertainment industry.
However, on the emotional road, Song Jia has always been hovering on the edge of marriage and cannot find her own quiet place.
Over the years, Song Jia's love life can be described as magnificent, and the lingering haze has always shrouded her heart. From the initial youthful campus romance to the complex emotional entanglements that later intervened in other people's marriages, she always seemed to be unable to get rid of the shadow that once hurt herself.
The desire and pursuit of love made her sink deeper and deeper, and finally fell into endless emotional struggles. Due to her fear and stubbornness about marriage, she can only wander alone again and again, looking for the next emotional harbor that she can dock temporarily.
The public's evaluation of Song Jia is almost always a clear point of view. Some people praise her courage to pursue her dreams, seeing her as an independent female representative; However, some people fiercely criticized her for pursuing fame and fortune at all costs, and even exceeding the bottom line of morality.
Whenever this happens, Song Jia always responds with silence and calmness, letting public opinion surge like a tide.
In her heart, true fiery love is obviously far better than money and status, and unfortunately, she has never been able to accurately grasp the balance between this. She longs to be loved, but she is full of deep fear and resistance to marriage, and finally can only go through the journey of life alone.
Some people pointed out that the reason why Song Jia can attract the "chase" of many men is precisely because of her kindness and firm belief. However, looking at it from another perspective, perhaps it was the paranoia and fear deep within her that put her in such a difficult situation again and again.
She is just an ordinary woman who also desires happiness and ideals, but somehow, fate pushes her down this thorny path. Despite being single for many years, she still lives unrestrained, as if she has lost all expectations for marriage and allows time to pass inexorably.
Looking back on Song Jia's magnificent emotional journey, it is not difficult for us to see her persistent pursuit of love, as well as her deep fears and doubts about marriage. Everything can be traced back to that unforgettable first love in her youth.
For the sake of her career, she had to reluctantly give up this relationship, and this cruel decision brought her huge psychological trauma and left an indelible shadow on love.
From her romantic relationship with "Five Marriages" director Zhang Li, to her ambiguous relationship with musician Xie Tianxiao, to her public cohabitation with married actor Huang Shaofeng, Song Jia always seems to be using this "expediency" to escape and cover up her inner fears.
Now, at the age of 42, she has a successful career and a worry-free life, but her love life has always been in trouble. The men around her are like clouds, but she finally chose to be alone and remain silent about marriage.
It is true that Song Jia's tortuous experience undoubtedly requires us to deeply reflect and sympathize. However, who can completely get rid of the deep troubles and wounds in their hearts? She is just an ordinary and resilient woman, who also pursues love bravely, but still cannot reach the peak of true happiness.