In 2015, Yan Boya, the wife of wang Hao, the world's "table tennis champion", wore a red slip dress and danced with her male partner when she participated in a dance competition.
Wang Hao in the audience was angry and directly blackened his face.
He angrily rebuked his wife in public: "As a woman, you should return to the family, teach your husband and children at home, cook and wash clothes, and don't go out to show your face."
After saying that, despite the persuasion of the people around him, he left the scene in anger.
Leaving Yan Boya embarrassed on the stage, he was overwhelmed.
After the program was broadcast, it caused a lot of controversy.
Some people think that Wang Hao is too macho and does not support his wife's dream.
Some people say that Yan Boya only cares about his dance career and does not take care of his family and children.
Each makes its own case.
But in a word, about marriage, as a spectator, outsiders look at the hilarity, they live a life.
Yan Boya was born in 1987 in Shenyang, Liaoning Province, to an art family, and her mother studied dance.
Perhaps inheriting her mother's artistic cells, Yan Boya is particularly talented in dance.
When she went to learn dance, the teacher would also open a small stove for her.
When Yan Boya was 12 years old, her parents sent her to the Beijing Dance Academy and became a dancer in the Zongzheng Song and Dance Troupe.
During her time at the Beijing Dance Academy, Yan Boya trained hard, as her dancing level grew higher and higher.
Various literary and art performances have begun to appear Yan Boya's figure.
In 2011, when Wang Hao attended a gathering of friends in Beijing,
Met Yan Boya.
Yan Boya, who was young and beautiful, with a sweet smile and a graceful figure, made Wang Hao's eyes light up.
And the handsome and handsome Wang Hao also left a deep impression on Yan Boya.
Although both are developing in Beijing,
But because of their respective jobs, they didn't have many opportunities to meet.
The phone call has become an emotional bridge between the two!
The longest time, Wang Hao called Yan Boya for an hour and a half.
One year, Wang Hao returned from a foreign competition and brought back a beautiful pair of dance shoes for Yan Boya.
But Yan Boya declined.
It turned out that Yan Boya felt that Wang Hao was an Olympic champion in the sports world, but he was just a particularly ordinary dancer.
The gap between the two made Yan Boya dare not fall in love.
After Wang Hao learned of Yan Boya's concerns, he earnestly said to her, "No amount of sea oath mountain alliance is useless, you can see my performance later."
Soon, Wang Hao gave Yan Boya a "reassuring pill".
When he attended a charity event, he specially asked Yan Boya to accompany him.
After the event, Wang Hao invited the parents of both sides to meet together.
Everyone gathered together, and the scene was very warm.
Yan Boya's parents saw that Wang Hao was low-key and stable, and there was no shelf at all, and they were very supportive of their daughter's interaction with him.
Wang Hao's parents felt that Yan Boya was well-behaved and sensible, and that people were beautiful and beautiful, and they also praised her.
In this case.
Wang Hao seized the opportunity to express his position to Yan Boya's parents: "Uncle and aunt, I am serious about Boya and will hurt her for the rest of my life."
Seeing that Wang Hao was so sincere, Yan Boya felt solid in his heart.
Love is proud, wang hao is more motivated in his career.
However, while he was actively preparing for the London Olympics, his mother had a kidney attack, and the situation was very dangerous!
With national honor on one side and his mother lying on a hospital bed on the other, Wang Hao was caught in a dilemma and hesitated.
At this time, Yan Boya took the initiative to stand up.
She said to Wang Hao, "You can train with peace of mind, everything has me."
Before she was married, her girlfriend did filial piety for herself,
Wang Hao had more respect for Yan Boya in his heart.
In order to take care of Wang Hao's mother, Yan Boya
He specially dropped off his work and rushed to Changchun to bring his mother-in-law to Beijing.
During the entire treatment period, Yan Boya was attentive and thoughtful, rushing to the hospital after work and staying with the bed in the ward at night.
Wang Hao's mother slept less, and Yan Boya pulled a family routine with her, massaging her swollen legs and feeding her medicine with water, just like kissing her daughter.
Not only that, Yan Boya also brought the socks and clothes that Wang's mother had changed back to the dormitory to clean.
Mother Wang was extremely grateful.
Every time I saw Wang Hao, I praised Yan Boya: "Boya is a good girl, if you dare to fail her, I will absolutely not agree."
His mother and girlfriend got along so well, Wang Hao was happy at the same time, but his heart was also a little "jealous".
He said to Yan Boya, "Before you passed the door, your status in your mother's heart is already higher than mine!"
Yan Boya listened, and his heart was sweet!
In 2013, Yan Boya unexpectedly found out that she was pregnant.
She and Wang Hao discussed, we are not small, hurry up and get married and give birth to the baby!
But Wang Hao hesitated.
He felt that he was still an athlete and not fit to get married.
After Wang Hao's parents learned about it, they were not happy.
They rushed from their hometown to Beijing and said to Wang Hao in a clear manner: "You are all 30 years old, this marriage must be married, and we will take care of the children in the future, and it will not affect your playing."
Wang Hao considered it again and again and submitted an application to the team.
In June of the same year, Wang Hao and Yan Boya entered the marriage hall, and Zhang Jike and two members of the Bayi team became groomsmen.
In October, Yan Boya gave birth to a son.
Although the two are married, Wang Hao is still single in his heart, he eats and lives in the table tennis team, and only returns home on weekends.
When you get home, don't talk about helping your wife share some housework.
He couldn't even take care of himself, and he couldn't even wash a fruit and wash it clean.
Her husband was so careless, Yan Boya couldn't help but feel aggrieved in her heart, but she never complained for half a sentence.
Yan Boya knows that Wang Hao has been playing since he was a child and has not yet adapted psychologically to the role of his father.
To make him mature, it takes a process.
Guide slowly.
During Yan Boya's confinement, Wang Hao's mother transformed into a personal nurse.
Changing the pattern to cook a variety of nutritious soups for the daughter-in-law, changing the grandson's diapers, and coaxing the grandson to sleep.
Sometimes you can only sleep for a few hours a night.
Looking at her mother-in-law's tired face, Yan Boya's heart was not a taste.
She said to Wang Hao, "As a husband and father, you should take care of the family, and then your mother will be a little more relaxed."
Listening to his wife's words, Wang Hao tried to enter the role of father, and slowly learned to milk and burp his son, and also learned to iron clothes.
Although it still looks clumsy,
Always willing to change, this is also a big step forward.
Yan Boya also praised her husband from time to time: "Not only are you handsome and play well, but now you have labeled a good husband and a good father, which is so perfect."
Receiving praise from his wife, Wang Hao felt that he was not mature enough before.
He sincerely said to his wife, "I'm sorry, I used to be a lack of responsibility, but I will definitely stand up to the sky for you and your son in the future."
In 2014, Wang Hao announced his retirement, ending his 16-year national table tennis career and choosing to go to the Bayi team as a coach.
Since Yan Boya married Wang Hao, she has added to giving birth to children and taking care of children.
So she never got to pursue her favorite dance career anymore, and in 2015, she signed up for a variety show.
Most of the people participating in the show are some celebrity children and celebrity families.
When introducing his family, Yan Boya said: "He is my honor, he has won two Olympic championships and 18 world championships."
In this episode, Wang Hao accompanied his wife to participate.
However, he has his own attitude, and he does not agree with his wife to dance on stage again, outside his own lord and his wife inside.
But Yan Boya was resolute.
She asked Wang Hao, "Are you willing to give up your table tennis career?" Raising children at home is no easier than being an athlete. ”
In fact, Wang Hao did not want to go to the scene of the show,
However, under the hard pull of his friend Sun Tao, Wang Hao only agreed to watch in the backstage studio and did not appear on stage.
Watching his wife "hot dance" with her dance partner on stage,
Wang Hao's brow furrowed, and his face gradually darkened.
The audience enjoyed watching it, but Wang Hao sat still,
A look of wanting to talk and stopping.
After the performance, the host invited Wang Hao to the stage.
Let him cheer up his wife.
Wang Hao once again made clear his attitude: "I think that as a woman, I should not show my face outside, or I should return to my family."
After saying that, he left the scene angrily.
However, in the next episode, Wang Hao still took the child to cheer his wife and sent 11 roses to show his love.
Perhaps after some ideological struggle, Wang Hao expressed his understanding and support for his wife's choice.
The couple's conflict was finally resolved.
In 2017, the second son of the two was born, and Wang Hao specially posted an article on social platforms.
I also thanked my wife for her dedication to the family.
However, with the addition of small members in the family, both parties need to work and pay more time.
Yan Boya also gave up the idea of wanting to make a comeback again,
Concentrate on teaching your husband and children at home, and stabilize the rear area for Wang Hao.
Becoming a father of two children, Wang Hao also has a greater sense of responsibility for her husband and father.
In addition to training in the team, even if it is only half a day off,
Wang Hao also had to rush home to accompany his wife and two sons.
Yan Boya hurt her husband, let him try not to run back and forth, relax and relax after returning home, pay attention to rest!
Wang Hao said, "I am willing to take care of you."
Yan Boya's figure rebounded, and she was distressed by the dancer background.
Wang Hao specially bought a weight loss disc for his wife, accompanied his wife to do weight loss exercises, and after insisting on it for several months, Yan Boya successfully lost more than a dozen pounds.
In order to reward his wife, Wang Hao also gave her a gift.
He also spent more and more time on his son.
Wang Hao would squeeze his throat to sing to his son, hold his son's small hand, and teach him to learn to walk.
In order to exercise his son's vision, he also bought some colorful balloons.
The role of a good husband and a good father is gradually getting better.
Later, it can be seen on Yan Boya's social account,
She is either sunbathing or related to Wang Hao.
It really did what Wang Hao expected, focusing on the family.
However, Yan Boya also said that the two children are in the most need of mothers, and they want to do a good job in the role of mothers first.
When the child is a little older, he will pick up the dream of dancing again.
Wang Hao also expressed support for his wife.
He said: "Dreams are also the foundation of family happiness, and dreams and families do not conflict."
In fact, as long as husband and wife can understand each other and understand each other,
Then the only thing added to the family life is full of happiness.
In 2021, Yan Boya and Wang Hao once again appeared on the variety show, and the love of the husband and wife was reflected in the details in the show.
Don't forget to share the food with each other, and at the same time, you will unconsciously hold hands.
Every little bit of everyone eats "dog food".
Today, Yan Boya and Wang Hao have been married for 9 years.
After the run-in of marriage, the two understand each other more and more, the feelings are getting better and better, and they support each other, which is enviable!