In 2015, Yan Boya, the wife of world champion Wang Hao, hugged her male partner in the face while dancing. Wang Hao left the scene angrily with a dark face, and before leaving, he glanced at his wife, and then took the microphone and scolded his wife angrily: "Women should be husbands and children at home." After speaking, he ignored the dissuasion and left the scene angrily!
(Information source: Olympic champion Wang Haolu was angry and left his wife angrily - CCTV)
Love is the meeting of two people and the fit of their hearts.
But the long river of marriage is often full of twists and turns and challenges, which require the husband and wife to constantly run in and compromise.
The marriage process of Wang Hao and Yan Boya is a vivid portrayal.
At the beginning, Wang Hao was deeply attracted by Yan Boya's sweet smile and elegant temperament.
Although Yan Boya came from an ordinary background and once rejected Wang Hao's love on the grounds of identity gap, Wang Hao proved his sincerity with his actions.
He took the initiative to introduce the parents of both sides to recognize each other, and asked Yan Boya to take care of his mother, showing Yan Boya's virtuous and kind side.
In this way, a sweet love sprouts and takes root in each other's care.
After marriage, Yan Boya wanted to share her husband's worries, she knew the pressure and hardships her husband Wang Hao was under as an athlete, so she was determined to become the most solid pillar behind him.
But as the life of the two deepened, Wang Hao began to devote himself to his career, and he took less and less care of his family.
During Yan Boya's pregnancy, she should have received more care and companionship, but she had to complete the tedious prenatal procedures alone, and after the birth of the child, she took on the heavy responsibility of taking care of the child's daily life alone, from breastfeeding, changing diapers to sleeping, every job made her tired.
Despite such a difficult life, Yan Boya never complained to her husband, she silently played the role of a virtuous helper and supported her husband's career.
As time passed, Yan Boya's love for dance and desire for the stage became stronger and stronger.
Finally, one day, she decided to return to the stage and participated in a high-profile dance show recording.
On the stage, Yan Boya won warm applause and bursts of applause from the audience with her graceful posture and exquisite dance skills.
At this moment, she seemed to have regained her former self and felt the confidence and pride that she had not seen for a long time.
But at this highlight moment that belonged to Yan Boya, her husband Wang Hao ruined all this beauty.
He angrily scolded his wife in public that she should not show her face, believing that she should abide by the traditional role and be honest in her husband and children.
Faced with her husband's doubts, Yan Boya could not hide the anger in her heart.
She asked Wang Hao rhetorically, will she also give up her career for the sake of her family?
Of course, this question was answered in the negative, and in the end, Wang Hao left the scene angrily, leaving Yan Boya alone to face the criticism of the outside world.
Afterwards, the broadcast of the program caused a lot of heated discussions. Many people condemned Wang Hao's "machismo", believing that he denied his wife's dreams and pursuits.
But perhaps deep in Wang Hao's heart, the deep-rooted traditional values are also quietly changing.
A few years later, Mr. Wang said in an article that he thanked his wife, Yan Boya, for giving them their second child.
It is not difficult to see that the former Wang Hao has begun to realize his responsibilities in the family and began to take the initiative to share the responsibility of taking care of the children.
After all, marriage is not achieved overnight, and both parties need to find a balance between career and family, and they need to continue to learn and grow.
Marriage has its ups and downs, but it is these stumbles that make the lives of two people more closely linked.
There is no one-size-fits-all rule in marriage, and it is necessary for both husband and wife to reach a consensus on the division of roles and gender equality, resolve differences with understanding and tolerance, and care for each other's dreams with tolerance and love, so that this fate can go all the way.
