It's not hard to live the life you want

The best life is to spend this life in the way you want.

In this way, we often hear that from the bottom of our hearts, we actually hope that our days can really be like this.

It's just that in real life, although many people have such a desire, they don't really live their lives like this.

Compared with living the kind of years you want, you just have a very muddy life, there are too many unsatisfactory, you are lost early, you forget your dreams, and you have not engaged in what you like.

Some people may say that it is not easy to live an ideal life, but it is just difficult.

In fact, it may not be so simple, but it is not as difficult to achieve as imagined.

Because the life we want may not be a great desire, it may just be very ordinary.

Settle down and find what you want.

Regarding the life they want, many people do not have an answer in their hearts.

Forced to make a living every day, busy with survival, I don't have the heart to think too much, and I don't dare to expect anything at all.

If we are busy every day, all kinds of blind busyness, and we have not thought about what we want, then of course we cannot live the way we want, but will only keep running around.

Before we want to get something, before we want to live our lives, at the very least, we should have our own goals, to understand our inner thoughts, to find a direction for ourselves.

So, at the very least, we have to give ourselves a little time to let ourselves be in a quiet place, to be able to quiet down our hearts, and then to think about what we can think and how we can think according to our own situation.

Without a goal, we will just be wandering all the time, unable to reach a definite place, and only if we find out what kind of life we really want to live, we will really start to have motivation and know where we want to go.

Our goal, whether we want to achieve great success, whether we just want to have a stable job, whether we want a family to be plain and stable, or whether we want to have a vigorous time, there is nothing wrong with that.

The key is to think clearly, to really find the right one, what the heart desires, and it is also practical.

Have the courage to make trade-offs, and can really act.

Some people have not lived the way they want, they don't know what they really want, and some people have dreams in their hearts and know what kind of life they want, but they just stay at the level of thinking.

I always think, I don't have any action, and I don't reject what I don't want.

Just thinking, without any action, in the face of what you don't want, you don't dare to refuse, you can't give up, then of course we will only stay in the same place all the time, and will not really be close to the heat of our hearts.

Whether it's the road to the dream, or the kind of years we long for, all of it, that requires us to be brave.

Be able to bravely say no to what others have arranged and don't want to do, be able to have the courage to give up some things, bear some costs, and just slowly start to the place you want to go, step by step closer to the other shore you want to reach.

When we pursue bravely, we may still not succeed, but when we can do so, we must not just live a difficult time, always just live a very bad life.

Either we quickly achieve what we want, or although it is slower, it is still a little closer, and one day when we suddenly look up and find that what we want is just right in front of our eyes.

Keep working hard to make yourself more powerful.

Of course, any ideal, any poetry and a distant place, that can appear out of thin air, but it is not possible to get it casually.

If you want to be able to do this, you have the strength and ability, and it is also very important.

Without strength, even if we know what we want, even if we are brave enough, it will only become a lonely courage, it will only make our situation more difficult, it will not make us respected, and we can do whatever we want.

The kind of life we want, no matter what we want, it is never inseparable from money, inseparable from our own confidence.

We must not only dare to stay in one place, but even if we reject what we don't want, we will not be greatly affected, we can still live well, we will dare to refuse, and we will not appear stupid if we refuse.

If you are not tough, the momentum will really only appear very weak, and when making a decision, you will not be able to be bold at all, and you will only be very forward-looking, afraid of this and that.

A good life, that not only requires a good mentality, but also needs good ability, and needs a lot of materials as support.

Therefore, for money, for ourselves, we really don't have to appear too Buddhist, we must improve ourselves as much as possible, as much as possible to make ourselves able to have more money, we don't have to be subject to people, we don't have to be subject to any kind of life.

Living the life you want, it can be very difficult, it can be just quite simple.

Set a workable goal, then work on it silently, get a little closer, and that's it.

Along the way, you don't always have to look at others, you don't always have to compare yourself to anyone, just focus on yourself.

Be brave enough to be the self you want, don't have to care too much about the eyes of others, don't always listen to what to say, and constantly improve your own strength, so that you can always have a place in this ever-changing world.

In this life, how others are, it never matters, they like themselves, that is the most important thing.

As long as you like it, don't delay others, and don't break the law, then everything is worth it.

Otherwise, even if others think it is good, but we don't feel it ourselves, it still doesn't make any sense.

Text/Tan Meng

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