It's almost the New Year, and I want my Chinese parents to read this little essay

Soon for the New Year, I want to send this little essay to parents all over China:

When a child who has not met for a long time in a year goes home to see his parents or is reunited with his parents, you parents, never say to your children, you see whose children are how, much better than you.

When parents say this, it really hurts the child, and it hurts the child's self-esteem even more than beating the child. If you don't believe me, ask your child!!!

You hurt your children like this, but your children have never compared you to other people's parents, have they?

Instead of hurting you with such words, they gladly accepted the ordinary you, whose hair was gray and gray, which was already a fait accompli!

On the other hand, your children, they are full of style and spirit, the future is full of possibilities, maybe extraordinary, maybe as ordinary as you, who knows?

Ask yourself, are you the better parents yourself? Not necessarily, right? (Generally speaking, better parents often don't hurt their children like this)

The right thing to do is:

Never compare your own children with other people's children, because every child's situation and talent are different, and there is no comparison at all.

Parents should help and encourage their children as much as possible, and always let the children compare themselves with themselves, the past self compared with the present self, and yesterday's self compared with today's self. Work hard in self-comparison and become a better and better person.

Every night, urge the child to ask yourself a question: Is today more knowledgeable than yesterday?