Pro-Bei Network Xiaobian learned that many parents always do not understand why children always like to use crying to solve problems, obviously simple communication can solve the problem, these bear children have to be the whole earth-shattering, the family chicken flying dog jump, in the end can only be a lose-lose situation. Although crying is a way for children to express their emotions, children are always like this, and parents must find reasons and deal with them correctly.
Teach your baby to manage emotions
When children can clearly express their thoughts, if they still use crying to satisfy themselves and get the compromise of their parents, parents should be vigilant. At this time, what parents have to do is to teach the baby to manage their emotions, so that the child understands that crying cannot solve any problem, and only by speaking well can communication solve it.
At the same time, in the face of the baby's crying, parents should also try to control their emotions, communicate well with the child, help the child recall what happened, and guide the child to find a better solution. Slowly, the child will find that there are better ways to solve the problem than to cry.
Know why your child is crying
Knowing why the child cries can make the child not cry, and understand the reason why the child cries, parents can need full patience. Sometimes adults feel that the smallest thing may be a big thing for children, and parents should not be dismissive. Understand the child, not only stay until eating, wearing and living, but also pay attention to the child's heart, so that parents can approach the child and communicate effectively with the child, then why the child is crying, parents can easily know the reason.
Don't blindly rebuke your child
In the face of crying children, parents do not ask questions, just reprimand, so that the child will only become more intense, at the same time the child will be frightened and refuse to communicate. Parents' such a way of handling will only make children slowly not like to express themselves and dare not express their needs. Therefore, at this time, parents should calm down and seek the reason, so as to solve the problem.
There are no children who do not cry, but in the face of children's endless crying, parents still have to find the reason, so that they can easily cope.