Babies' resistance to sweets has always been weak.
Because the baby's taste buds are very sensitive, they can't enjoy too salty and spicy food. Among the many flavors, you can only choose sweets, cakes, candies, biscuits and so on.
Although these foods are not harmful to the baby's body, the price is mostly high. Even if it is a humble dessert sold in a supermarket, the price is often hundreds of dollars.
In order to save money, Bao Mom bought "cake scraps" for the baby
Linlin's daughter is 3 years old, and after going to kindergarten, she always clamors to eat cake every day when she comes home. Because when the kindergarten children celebrate their birthdays, they will bring cakes to school and share them with other children.
But the cake is limited, and Linlin's daughter always eats sweetly and does not eat enough at all. After all, children have no resistance to cream cake.
But linlin, as a supermarket employee, earns only 3,000 yuan a month, in addition to bearing the daily expenses of the family, she also has to support her elderly mother.
In this way, Linlin could not often buy snacks for her daughter to eat. If you eat snacks, other aspects of your life will be affected. But every time I look at my daughter's longing look, I really can't bear it!
When she was distressed, she suddenly thought of a good way, that is, to discuss with colleagues at the dessert stall and buy some cake scraps at a low price. Although it is scraps, it is all good materials, which are both cheap and satisfying.
In this way, every day when Linlin left work, she would buy some cake scraps for her daughter to go home, and finally let her daughter achieve "cake freedom". However, my daughter didn't seem to be happy, and even said to her mother one day that I didn't like cakes anymore and wouldn't have to buy them for me in the future.
When Lin Lin heard this, she did not have any doubts at first, thinking that it was too normal for children to like the new and tired of the old, perhaps it was enough to eat every day. But from that time on, the daughter became more timid and less lively.
Alpaca mom has something to say:
In our adult eyes, we think that the cake scraps and cake are made of the same raw materials, there is no difference in essence, anyway, the final to the stomach is the same, why not choose the latter? You can also save a lot of money.
However, these two things are completely unnecessary in the eyes of 3-year-olds. They will only admit that a complete cream cake is a cake, and the cake scraps are not cakes.
This is because they are in a stage of thinking. The logic of thinking about problems in children around 3 years old is intuitive image thinking, that is, seeing is believing. They don't think yet, they don't know what the nature of things is.
Therefore, Linlin's approach is to constantly hurt the child and overdraft the child's trust in herself. In the end, the child's rebellion is also an inevitable result.
Bao Ma's behavior in this way has attracted netizens to complain
Why impose the poverty of parents on children?
The birth of the baby can not be chosen, what family they are born into, is the arrangement of heaven, poor or rich, but it is an external thing, as long as the parents love them, the child's personality will not have any impact.
However, there are too many families like Linlin, parents do not have much ability, can not meet the wishes of their children indefinitely, although they will not be hungry, but the baby's spiritual world will always be wronged.
It's like wanting to eat a cake, but you can only get the scraps of the cake, which will make the baby feel that he is unfortunate, that he cannot eat the cake like everyone else, and that he must be coaxed by his parents.
This is the pain that a 3-year-old child should endure! And why should parents instill such thoughts in their children? No matter how bitter you can't be bitter about the child's truth, doesn't Lin Lin understand?
Over time, the baby will continue to live in this kind of self-blame, thinking that his own desires worry the parents. But it contradicts itself because of desire.
People are not short-lived, and parents simply cannot lead by example
As the saying goes, people are not short of ambition. Despite the difficulties of life, but the spiritual level is a rich person, must not desire the charity and poor life of others, then what is the difference between that and parasites?
Obviously, Linlin did not do a good job of this role model, and when she bought the cake scraps for the child, she put her dignity on the ground and rubbed it. Seemingly ordinary behavior, but let the child fall into a deep inferiority complex.
Children who grow up in such an environment will be more likely to have a comparison behavior in the future. From childhood to adulthood, his own wishes have never been realized, always suppressing his emotions, but also being morally kidnapped by his parents, once there is a gap in venting, it will be out of control.
But fortunately, this baby is only 3 years old, and it is still too late for parents to adjust their educational behavior in time!
Today's Topic:
Have you ever eaten cake scraps for your child? Do you think this is that serious?