There is a big sister in my hometown, Aunt Zhang, who gave birth to a male and a female dragon and phoenix fetus when she was young, which made people around her very envious. However, Aunt Zhang has a problem with this person, that is, she does not respect the elderly. At home, he scolded his father and mother every day, which made his grandparents feel very uncomfortable. Later, her sons and daughters grew up and didn't pay much attention to her. I rarely come back to see her during the New Year's Festival, and every time I meet, I talk coldly. The surrounding neighbors all said that this was self-inflicted, who called Aunt Zhang who was not filial to her grandparents before? That's really retribution!
In reality, there are many parents, although there are also sons and daughters, but because they did not do a good job, they ended up unhappy in their old age. According to the experience of people who have come here, there are mainly the following situations.
First, do not filial piety to the parents of the elderly.
Many people have heard this saying now: parents are originals, children are copies. Therefore, every word and deed of parents, children see in the eyes, will follow suit in the future. Some parents, like Aunt Zhang above, are not filial to the elderly in the family, have a bad attitude, and even use their hands to scold, so that the elderly in the family are very wronged. Then when children see it, they will agree with this pattern of treating the elderly, and they will also treat their parents in the future, or they will not agree with their parents' behavior in their hearts, and naturally they will not be filial to them.
Parents who do not educate their children.
Zhang Hong is a typical rural woman, although she gave birth to a man and a woman to her husband, she still only manages to give birth, regardless of teaching. Play mahjong every day when you come home, or chat with your neighbors, rarely spend time with your children, let alone educate them specifically. Later, the children grew up, but their feelings with her were very cold, and they even looked down on her mother a little, so they were not filial piety. In reality, this kind of mother who does not educate her children may not eventually get the filial piety of her children and will not be happy in her old age.
3. Grumpy parents.
Some parents, because they have suffered a lot of grievances in work and life, are under great pressure, so they often lose their temper at home, especially venting their dissatisfaction with their children, and some often beat and scold their children. Children who grow up in this family environment have very weak feelings for their parents, and they have no sense of security for the family in their hearts, and some even hold grudges in their hearts. When they grow up, these children will not be filial to their parents, and their parents will not be happy in their old age. (The content of this article comes from the network, if there is any infringement, please contact to delete)
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