Introduction: Jinan a takeaway worker mother emotional breakdown, in the mall roared greedy children: mother is about to time out!
The child is right, the mother is even more right, and this roar is a cry from a poor family.
On January 3, when the mother of a takeaway worker in Jinan, Shandong Province, delivered food, she had an emotional breakdown on the spot, and she roared at the playful children in the mall, and after the video was uploaded to the Internet, it triggered a hot discussion.
It is reported that in order to take care of the child, the delivery man's mother can only work while carrying the child, but the child is still young, and it is natural to play, so on this day she ran to the mall alone to play.
The mother turned her head and did not see the child, so she began to search anxiously, shouting the child's name while saying that the mother was going to time out.
Finally, the mother found the child, all the worry and anxiety rushed to the chest, her emotions instantly exploded, yelling at the child: Because of you, the mother is about to time out!
For the child, he probably can't understand why the mother is suddenly so angry; for the mother, the countless grievances in her heart are still unable to tell the child.
No one under the heavens could understand this mother's pain, and the only thing she could do was roar in anger and continue to chase the time to deliver breakfast to the customer on time.
A sentence of "almost timeout", the roar is not the child's greed, the roar is not the harsh rules of the platform, but how helpless his life is.
The children of poor families have long been in charge, and the mothers of poor families have to bear the work of two people.
Caring for children is an extremely tiring job, and without understanding the family situation of this mother, she is probably a single mother, who has to take on the family's financial resources on the one hand, and a mother on the other hand.
The husband and wife's work is all done by her alone, and the collapse is sooner or later. To paraphrase a netizen' sentence: "Lifting a brick can't hold you, and putting down a brick can't feed you." ”
No one can do better; if you change to an ordinary person, I am afraid that you will have already retreated from the difficulties. As a mother, how much can it really do?
The mother is innocent, but the child is the real victim.
Countless examples have proved that there is no winner in a failed marriage, but there is a permanent loser, that is, children.
Poverty deprives people of their dignity, and when a child grows up in such an environment, he will lose the innocence of a child early. If the child is talented enough, he can also grow into a talent, but most of the children are ordinary people, and it is difficult to avoid the iron law of "cold door is difficult to get a noble son".
It is foreseeable that when the child is a teenager, he can fully understand the helplessness of the original family, and affect the growth route, and does not rule out the possibility of dropping out of school prematurely, entering the society to work, and sharing the pressure for the family.
For a mother, raising a child is an obligation; for an adult child, it is a moral requirement to share the burden of the mother early.
That is to say, whether this child grows into a good person or a bad person in the future, if the family conditions do not change, it will be difficult to escape the fate of sadness.
Their fate was predestined at the moment when the "father" left, and their fate was decided at an early age when they got married and had children.
The question is not when to marry and who to marry, but whether you are fully prepared before you get married. What kind of preparation? I think the most important preparation for a woman is to have independent financial resources and the ability to live alone.