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I saw an interview on the Internet, an aunt and uncle sitting in the park playing, and there was a person interviewed next to it!
The interviewer asked the aunt for her opinion on raising children and preventing aging.
Auntie said: Raising children does not prevent old age!
Now a lot of young people are out of town, and if your parents don't feel comfortable making a phone call, it will take you a while even if you fly back!
And now many elderly people have retirement wages, in fact, do not need children to give money to pension!
Auntie said that now raising children is not to prevent old age, children do not eat old are good.
Of course, the aunt also feels that it is not easy for young people now, if the family conditions allow, there is no problem in eating the old, after all, in terms of marriage, buying a house, buying a car, and having children, young people have some jobs and can't make so much money temporarily, and it is no problem for parents to help make up for it.
The aunt mentioned that now her daughter is married abroad, because the work is busy, there is no time to take the child, so decided Dink, at first the aunt also felt that she could let the daughter have a child, the two of them helped the old, but the daughter resolutely rejected her mother, she said you can't take it well.
Aunt remembered that when she was young, her husband often traveled busily, he took the child alone, and there was no old man to help, indeed that period of time was very hard and difficult, and now the daughter has such a thought, she also expressed understanding, and there is no child to bring, her life is also relatively free, from time to time to the park is also good.
The video of the interview received more than 700,000 likes from netizens and nearly 40,000 comments.
And these comments brushed together to express their agreement with this aunt's views, saying that this aunt is sober in the world, and the aunt's three views are very positive.
More netizens said that after their two sons married their wives, they were willing to give birth to him, and they were not willing to be born to pull him down!
It seems that many people's concepts have changed now, no longer like before, they must have children when they get married, and raise children to prevent aging.
No longer think that children will be passed on to the next generation when they get married, but they must consider the children's own views!
And the aunt herself hopes that the daughter can have children, but the daughter does not want to give birth, the aunt does not force, but she figured it out, the child is very annoying, and now there is no child life is also very good.
Most of the Dinks we see now are actually people with high education, strong work ability, and strong self-awareness. Most of them are in small places or rural areas, and they are still more active in having children. Having children is a matter of two couples, and those who are willing to have children can have more children, and those who do not want to have children will not be born.
But if you want to be a dink, you can't go with the flow.
Most of the happy Dink in his later years have "four haves" and should be prepared in advance when he is young
★ There is money
Now in the countryside is still very popular "raising children and preventing the elderly", so the atmosphere of son preference in the countryside will be relatively strong, because the daughter is married, the daughter who marries out spills water, and the son inherits the family property in the family and inherits the field in the family, so he must provide for his parents.
The elderly in the countryside do not have a pension, and when they are old, they have to pay for treatment for their sons when they are sick, and they want their sons to provide food and drink!
So in the countryside, you can hardly find Dink, and some people who can't have children on their own will also raise a child!
In Dink, in the big city, most people have good working ability when they are young, and they make a lot of money, plus they don't have to raise children, they can save a lot of money.
★ Have a good body
Good health is also one of the necessary conditions for Dink's happiness, after all, after retirement, you have a good body to visit relatives and friends, you can also go out to travel, and you can eat well and sleep well, so that you have a sense of happiness.
Especially Dink, if you don't have children, you must keep your own good health, otherwise it is difficult to have relatives to take care of when you are sick, and if the nurse you are looking for is not careful, it will be difficult to survive.
Even if you go to a nursing home, it is easy to be bullied if you don't have a good body.
★ Have a strong belief
There are some Dinks, who do not want to have children when they are young, and when they are old, they see that others have children and want to have children, at this time, the women in the general Dink couple will suffer a lot, because the fertility of women declines relatively quickly, while the fertility of men can last longer.
At this time, if there is a difference in the concept of the two people because of the birth of the child, it is likely that the couple will come to an end, which is very unfair to the female Dink.
So if you want to be a dink, you must have a firm belief, especially the female Dink, you must take precautions, you must consider that in the future, if your husband wants to have children, what if he can't give birth?
★ Have hobbies
Many people retire with grandchildren, although tired but also have time to kill.
And if Dink is happy after retirement, it depends on whether there are hobbies, such as some people like to dance, some people like to draw, some people like to write calligraphy, some people like to pull erhu or like to travel, these are all hobbies.
These hobbies allow Dink to live his daily life to the fullest and happiest, without the need for children and grandchildren to bring him this satisfaction.
Therefore, dinks who do not want to have children must prepare in advance to be happy in their old age.
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