A few days ago I attended a book club, a friend shared his teacher retired mother's successful education methods at the book club, let us all feel that we have benefited a lot, the following is my collated his educational experience, in the first person to share with everyone, I hope to help everyone.
My mother is a primary school teacher, in the industry for decades, has been rated as an excellent class teacher many times, retired a few years ago, could have danced square dance with my dad, traveled, and had fun for the rest of her life, but the result coincided with the birth of my boss, the old lady threw herself into the army of "grandma with baby" without hesitation, threatening to give full play to her many years of teaching experience as a class teacher, and build my daughter into a "school bully" persona.
My heart was tight at that time, and a fierce old lady standing behind a little girl with a stick appeared in my mind, watching the tragic scene of the little girl trembling and writing her homework, and suddenly felt her scalp tingle.
However, I am also secretly glad: thanks to a mother who is a teacher, it seems that in the future, I can avoid the family war of "not writing homework father kindness and filial piety, a homework chicken flying dog jumping".
But as the children grew up, my mother's operations were confusing.
Since my daughter was two years old, my mother did not teach her to memorize poems, nor did she take her to do early education, and every day she bought poster books for my daughter in a dozen pieces, and in addition to taking my daughter out to play all day long, she was accompanying my daughter to play with stickers at home. For this matter, my wife was once very dissatisfied, and once tried to let me communicate with the old lady, so as to teach the child a little useful knowledge, so that the child would not be unable to keep up after going to school.
I talked to the old lady, and the old lady shook me back with a word: The child is my own granddaughter, since it is handed over to me to bring, I believe in my judgment and ability, can I still take my own granddaughter? Now you don't want to participate too much, wait until you go to elementary school, and if it doesn't work, the child will be handed over to you to bring it yourself!
Because my wife and I have our own jobs, and I think that since we have given the child to the old lady, we should really believe the old lady, after all, as she said, it is a granddaughter, and can we harm the child?
After doing a lot of work for his wife, his wife had no choice but to go with the flow. But after the child went to elementary school, the child's performance really impressed me and her mother.
First of all, my child was praised by teachers many times shortly after entering elementary school, saying that she was adaptable and focused better than the average child, other children sat for 10 minutes and began to lose their minds, and my daughter sat upright after a class and listened carefully.
Secondly, the child's knowledge is very rich. From what is the role of the atmosphere, how rain and wind are formed, meteorological knowledge, down to the changes in the earth's crust, the growth process of plants, the relationship between roots and leaves, etc. I have not heard of scientific knowledge, she can even tell a thing or two, not to say more, just those terms listen to people feel very deep.
Finally, the child's expression ability is very strong. What you think in your heart, how to analyze things, you can express your views in the right language, the teacher said that the child's expression ability is very strong, and the words are also appropriate.
In the midterm exam, my daughter took the first place in the class, and her usual homework was also very neat and was always displayed in the group by the teacher as a model homework.
Many parents have come to ask my wife and me for advice on the way to teach my children, I don't dare to ask for credit, it is all the credit of my grandmother.
Some time ago, the child held a parent-teacher meeting in the class, and the teacher specially invited the grandmother to go to the class to share the parenting with the parents. Grandma's sharing is roughly as follows, I simply sorted it out and shared it with you for the reference of parents with children.
The old lady said that we must find a way to take a baby that meets the psychological characteristics of the child's age stage, which is a hundred times stronger than spending money on early education!
According to Piaget's theory of child psychological development, preschool children aged 2-6 are in several stages of interaction between sensitive periods: spatial sensitivity, order sensitivity, self-awareness sensitivity, aesthetic sensitivity, and interpersonal relationship sensitivity.
Children at this stage like to feel different spaces and meet their hands-on needs by moving things, so we often see that babies over 2 years old are curious about everything, and the more you don't let him move things, the more he has to touch and try.
And this age is also the best time to cultivate children's good behavior habits, thinking habits and concentration.
Therefore, for children at this stage, it is very important to meet his hands-on needs under the premise of ensuring safety, cultivate his spatial perception ability, and let him have a preliminary understanding of himself.
In view of the age characteristics of the child, my old lady bought a lot of coloring and sticker books for the child, which greatly met the child's hands-on and knowledge needs, in these books, the child especially likes to stick.
The old lady also recommended a set of stickers that my children liked the most, called "Children's Potential Development Game Stickers", saying that this set of stickers comprehensively exercised the abilities of 2-6-year-old children from several aspects such as learning ability, logical thinking development, innovation and creation training, comprehensive quality exercises, and mathematical thinking cultivation.
In addition, the old lady also told everyone about the benefits of stickers for children:
First of all, stickers can cultivate children's hand-brain coordination and cultivate concentration.
Can tear off a small sticker intact, and then paste to the corresponding position, for a two-year-old baby, the initial stage is still difficult, through repeated practice can finally achieve perfect results, so that the baby has a sense of control and a sense of achievement, which is very important for cultivating the child's self-awareness.
In addition, in the process of finding the corresponding sticker, the child can focus on this matter for a long time, and over time, the child's concentration will be effectively improved.
Secondly, children learn knowledge while playing.
As mentioned earlier, 2-6 years old is an important stage in the development of children's space sensitivity. Many friends may not be familiar with the space sensitive period, let's say it in layman's terms! Just like when we look at a house, people with a strong sense of space see not only the appearance of the house, but also the overall framework, internal structure, etc., that is, what we see is a three-dimensional graphic; and the child with a weak sense of space sees a floor plan, no three-dimensional sense.
What good does this do for children? From the perspective of life, children with a strong sense of space are presented in the mind of three-dimensional shapes, a good sense of direction, and will not get lost when going out; from the perspective of learning, children with a strong sense of space have particularly good mathematical thinking and are particularly sensitive to geometric shapes.
Stickers will give you a scene, let you find the corresponding demand map according to the scene, and then find out the demand map and paste it in the corresponding scene, the child in the process of pasting, but also understand the process of a thing construction and formation.
For example, a plant, he will not directly tell you what tree blooms what flowers, what fruit, but a little bit step by step let you feel the life process of the plant, let the child understand the wonder of life, the child in this process both increased knowledge, but also exercised thinking.
Finally, choose informative content rather than purely entertaining content books.
The old lady said that there is also a skill in choosing books for children, and many parents feel that as long as it is a book, it will definitely help their children, but it is not.
Take the sticker book, in order to divert the child's attention from watching TV, many parents buy the same stickers for their children to play with the cartoon characters on the TV, which actually does not help the child's knowledge growth at all, but pure "play".
Take my children's favorite set of "Children's Potential Development Game Stickers", the knowledge is very strong, this set of books from 18 subdivisions of themes, there are nearly 300 children interested in the game scene, 3100 posters, can fully help children develop potential.
This set of books is also relatively targeted, each volume has an independent theme, respectively for the child's observation, judgment, reasoning ability, analysis ability, behavior habits, memory, comprehension ability, creativity, general classification ability, spatial imagination ability, mathematical basic ability, emotional intelligence development ability, etc., set up different game scenarios, let the child operate according to the prompts, enhance the child's comprehension ability.
In addition, there are some daily safety knowledge in the book, which enhances children's understanding of life, allows children to increase their knowledge and cultivate logical ability in the process of playing.
I have to say that people who have been engaged in the education industry for many years are not the same, we ordinary parents only see the short-term achievements of their children's current growth, so they are prone to anxiety and always want to find a quick way, in fact, the child's education is a long-term process, only by finding the right way, can we lay a good foundation for becoming a "school bully" in the future!
Families with 2-6 year old babies, it is highly recommended to try the method said by the old lady, after the child goes to school, maybe it will return you a surprise!
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