Author: Number One Emotion
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In real life, men and women themselves need to maintain a proper distance, once too close, it is particularly easy to cross the line of feelings, then the pure friendship relationship is bound to be broken.
Although people's minds are becoming more and more open, and the interaction between the opposite sex is not so much constrained, the premise is that there is really no whims in each other's hearts, and do not cross the minimum bottom line, after all, love and friendship are two completely different emotions, once the boundary is crossed, the relationship will undergo substantial changes.
Maybe sometimes you feel nothing, and you know in your heart that each other is just a very ordinary heterosexual friend relationship, but others don't think so, they will feel that the relationship between you is very unusual, and when the time comes to bring trouble to each other's lives, then some gains are not worth the loss.
In general, in the process of heterosexual interaction, each other must grasp the appropriate measure, otherwise it is easy to cause unnecessary trouble. It should be clear that between the opposite sex, the most taboo is to "share" these things, and the relationship is not good!
Share privacy and secrets
Between men and women, the most taboo is to share privacy and secrets, once there is communication in this regard, it means that the relationship between two people has crossed the line.
Under normal circumstances, even if it is a good heterosexual relationship, it will not easily cross the bottom line of privacy and secrecy, after all, there are many very private things here, once leaked out, it will bring a lot of trouble to yourself, and there are some emotional things that will not be told to anyone easily.
Although two people can already be called "confidants of the opposite sex", the secrets that should be hidden in the heart can not be said at will, especially for a girl, sharing privacy and secrets with the opposite sex is a very risky behavior, and once shared, it means that each other's position in each other's hearts is very important.
If you just want to be a good friend, there is really no need to share privacy and secrets, keep a suitable distance to continue to communicate, but if you have to share privacy and secrets, then the relationship deterioration can only be a matter of time.
Share time and companionship
Nowadays, the pace of life is getting faster and faster, even between good confidants of the opposite sex, I am not sure that I can have so much time together, after all, in addition to work, there are many close people around.
If the opposite sex often shares time and companionship, it means that the relationship between two people is already very close, and once this sharing falls into a frequent state, it means that the feelings of two people are definitely not ordinary.
It is normal for friends of the opposite sex to play together, but if this time and companionship become more important than family, it can only mean that the two people have entered a state of hot love, otherwise it is impossible to be so tired of being together all day long.
To be honest, most people simply don't have time to waste on socializing, even if they do, they won't be so frequent, and occasionally meeting each other can be good friends of the opposite sex, and they also have their own lives, and it is impossible to share time and companionship.
But if two people frequently share time and companionship, the relationship between them is certainly not ordinary, if they are not already emotional, they will not consume so much time and energy, and the next development is also doomed, sooner or later will come together.
Share money
As the saying goes, "Money is not omnipotent, but it is impossible without money." ”
Money accounts for a large proportion of life, for everyone is indispensable, even between brothers and sisters to clearly settle accounts, let alone friends between the opposite sex?
But when it comes to money, everyone will think calmly about it, even if the relationship between two people is good, as long as it does not reach the height of love, there will be no possibility of sharing money.
Especially in such a convenient environment at present, it is possible to open intimate payments and so on, and they have been called intimate payments, as long as two people have the behavior of sharing money, the relationship between them is definitely not ordinary.
Sometimes, although money cannot maintain a relationship, it can explain the emotional state between two people, as long as they begin to share money with each other, it means that the relationship between two people has become intimate.
Write at the end
At the end of the day, in the process of getting along with the opposite sex, once there are these shared things between each other, it means that the relationship has crossed the line and is likely to develop into a more intimate relationship.
Of course, if each other is in a single state and also very eager to be together, crossing the line is naturally a very beautiful thing, but if either party already has a lover, or is not emotional, it is easy to share these things, it seems a little bad.
Therefore, the exchanges between the opposite sex must be made according to the actual situation, not that crossing the line is not good, but in the case that everyone does not feel abrupt, so that even if two people come together, life will become more and more beautiful, do not know that you can't be together, you have to take risks, which will only ruin the future of a better life.
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