Why are there more and more leftover women? These 3 reasons tell you the truth
preface:
Today's society is changing, and everyone's state of mind is also changing.
When a woman feels that the pressure of being single is far less than the pressure of her family,
At this time, women would rather become older leftover women than enter the marriage hall.
And today's feelings are different from the feelings of the older generation,
The other half of the three views needed must be suitable, the personality is appropriate, and the hobbies are appropriate in order to enter the marriage hall.
However, it is not an easy task to find such a highly matched person.
So many people ask why there are more and more older leftover women? In fact, in the final analysis, it is caused by the following three reasons.
Nowadays, the social and economic development is becoming more and more rapid, and people's material level is constantly improving.
Women are becoming more and more economically independent, and often the number of leftover women in the big cities will gradually increase.
Therefore, all sectors of society have also used their brains to encourage single men and women to participate in outreach activities.
As a result, some new experts say that the older leftover women have stable jobs of their own and are highly educated.
In their hearts, they do not want to be perfect at all, and now the status of society is constantly improving.
So more and more people are starting not to want to seek the other half.
Men of the same age are just starting out in their careers, and if they don't rely on the support of their families,
It is absolutely impossible to meet the requirements of fertility, especially in first-tier cities.
So this has finally become a very real social problem.
Many times it is useless for parents to be anxious about this kind of thing, and most of them still depend on their children's choices and likes.
1. The girl herself is very good, and she does not want to settle until the last moment
We all know that many girls are very good in today's society.
I have my own job and my looks are very pretty, so I don't have to worry about not finding a boyfriend.
At this time, many women are more reluctant to seek perfection and find someone to live in peace.
Often I hope to find a person with the same three views to go down.
However, it is very difficult to meet such men in their social circles very rarely.
This kind of woman can't get rid of some feudal consciousness in her bones, so she doesn't want to find a man who is worse than herself.
So slowly you can only know the above in this large army.
However, those who do not have such capital have long been strong because they can see the reality clearly.
Psychological expectations will not be as high as many win rates, so it is easy to find the other half.
2. Men's conditions are generally not high, but the requirements are high
In fact, when men choose the other half, they will also have high requirements.
Women's looks, family, work, education, etc. will be required.
However, their own conditions are often not high, and many women at this time cannot look up to this kind of man.
Often sell some rich second generation or what we call the phoenix man, they may not necessarily look at the leftover women,
Therefore, when a woman seeks her partner, she should not only look at external and material conditions, but also understand more about the person's inner and inner beings.
Otherwise it is difficult to seek a real partner of your own.
3. If you can't meet the right one, you'd rather be single than settle down
Women's status began to become higher and higher, because the economy was also slowly becoming independent.
You no longer need a group of men to survive as you once did, so you also have the right to choose.
In ancient times, when a woman reached a certain age and was not married, she would definitely be subjected to gossip from the people around her.
But in today's society, many women can live very glamorously even if they are single, without a man.
So a lot of women would rather be single than find someone they don't like to make a living. This view of marriage is actually correct,
Don't be wronged yourself, follow your heart and be a woman who goes to the world.
Such a view of marriage reflects not only a dashing and wanton attitude towards life, but also a cautious and respectful approach to marriage.
So at this time, parents should stop pushing their children.
It's not that they don't want to have their own happiness, it's that they really haven't met the right person.
Conclusion:
Marriage must be cautious, rather than becoming an older leftover woman in other people's populations, rather than allowing yourself to bend over backwards for a lifetime.
In life, we may as well give others more opportunities, so that we will have the right to know you.
After both parties understand and are satisfied, love will naturally come to the side.
In short, women have passed the age suitable for marriage, not terrible or shameful,
The most terrible thing is that you will slowly lose the ability to love others.
Of course, when we meet the right person, we must seize the opportunity not to miss it, after all, love needs to be fought for by ourselves.
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Why are there more and more "leftover women" in today's society? What are the reasons for this?
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