【Recommended Reading】The Five Laws of Family Education: Parents love their children, and they have far-reaching plans for it

The wise man is the cause, the fool is the effect!

The wise man worries about the cause, while the stupid man worries only about the result.

This means that you should focus on the cause of things, not just the results.

For example, fire prevention is far more important than fire fighting.

Parents who can often pay attention to family education, you are all wise, an excellent child is the future of a family, the future of a country, and the hope of a nation.

This also proves a sentence of Mencius: "The foundation of the world is in the country, the foundation of the country is at home, and the foundation of the family is in the body." ”

Children's development is influenced by aspects of the family, society, and school.

Let me introduce you to the specific content of the Five Dao Fa.

time

That is, timely education refers to the age of the child and the law of the child's growth and development.

We must understand the growth rules of children, grasp the sensitive and critical periods of children's cognitive development and personality formation, and the role that parents should play in different ages of children.

Understand the rules is not anxious, let education become simple, let us respect the growth of children, abide by the rules, let the children grow up healthy and happy, become talents, according to the characteristics of children's psychology and physiology, do a good job of scientific arrangement management.

sex

That is, to raise adults and cultivate children's values, that is, the cultivation of being a human being.

Specifically, it is to cultivate children's humanistic qualities and noble morals; to shape a good character and eventually form a complete personality; to cultivate comprehensively according to children's interests and hobbies.

We parents must first understand the child, and then understand the teaching, you have to understand their children's personality characteristics, intelligence advantages, learning types and learning styles, etc., each child is unique.

We know the characteristics of the child, we know how to get along with him, know the child's talent, and know how to teach him.

As the saying goes, "Character determines destiny, and talent makes for success." ”

Cultivating children's good character, respecting children's nature, and letting children grow into the way he should grow up is the education that our parents should give their children.

border

That is, good times, the establishment of harmonious family relations.

Establish a good parent-child relationship, and the family truly becomes a haven from the wind.

We parents to create a harmonious growth environment full of love and respect for our children, this environment includes a material, humanistic spiritual environment, as parents, we also have to learn, how to deal with the relationship between husband and wife, parent-child relationship, family relationship.

Because this is an important factor in our family environment, we also have to learn to deal with home-school relationships, social relationships, and our environmental relationships with the natural universe, and of course, the most important one is the relationship with our ego.

Through the harmony of these relationships, we create a warm environment full of love for children.

We must create a good family style, formulate family rules and family training.

Our family environment is an environment full of learning atmosphere, but also should be a beautiful environment, so that children live in an environment full of integrity, an artistic environment, an environment of knowledge and action, etc., which can give our children a great impact, but also let all the good memories in the growth, often live in the hearts of children, become the eternal source of energy in children's lives.

The environment also includes the child's relationship with classmates and teachers at school, and the learning environment.

law

That is, the law is clear according to law, and the law refers to the method rules of family education.

We often say that the godson should be square, we know family education, it has rules to follow, family education has a law but no fixed law.

Different children, different families, different situations, the educational methods adopted by parents should also be different, we must find a way to suit our children, is the right method, which requires wisdom.

Therefore, parents should systematically learn family education to help children establish an independent personality, have self-discipline ability, abide by discipline and law, plan scientific learning methods and future life planning.

feeling

That is, empathy, cultivate children's correct interpersonal skills, have a grateful heart, the sooner the child's grateful heart is cultivated, the easier it is to develop.

Now in many of our places, gratitude education has not really landed, we shout all day in school to love the motherland, love society, love teachers, but children do not know how true love is done.

In the family, we also teach children to love their parents and love their parents, but they only talk about it verbally, and they do not really land.

At home, we let our children do housework, wash the feet of their elders, and do what they can, which is actually a manifestation of love.

We parents do this, and love is the real landing.

The management of children's emotions is different for all ages.

Home is a place to talk about love, is a harbor of love, not a place where we reason with our children, nor a place where we reprimand children and educate children, let alone a garbage dump for our emotions, we parents must learn wisdom to love.

We parents should take our children to participate in more activities, so that children understand the importance of cooperation in activities and cultivate children's correct communication skills.

"Parents love their children, and they have far-reaching plans."

The times are changing, and educating children should be scientific and keep pace with the times, otherwise the education we pay is futile.

Before 1999, in the era of the planned economy, diplomas were absolutely competitive.

Since 1999, it is the era of market economy in which independent career choice is required, which not only requires diploma factors, but also pays attention to the cultivation of personality.

The future is the era of artificial intelligence, not only diploma factors, personality cultivation is important, but also to let children have a human temperature.

A parent who truly loves his children must face the future and plan for the long term for his children.

And we can't just look at the present – just focus on the grades, which is something that both parents and teachers should be aware of.

To educate children, we must respect the growth rules of children.

From the aspects of time, sex, situation, law, and emotion, it is particularly important to educate children from multiple angles and in many aspects, and to cultivate children's ability to resist setbacks and adapt to society.

If we truly love our children, then we will plan for them in the long run and cultivate them scientifically, so as not to lag behind the times.

Parents should scientifically educate their children according to the characteristics of staged development, and plug in the happiness wings of career ability and family ability for them.

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