There is such a son, he is a successful person in his career, his mother because of a bad heart, was diagnosed with heart stent surgery. The son drove to the hospital with his mother, and the doctor advised them to use a better stent, while the mother insisted on using the most basic and general kind.
While introducing the benefits of high-end stents, the doctor looked at the old man's son and hoped that he could choose a better stent for his mother. However, this son, ignoring him at all, continued to fiddle with his mobile phone and handle work.
In the end, the doctor wasted his words and could not change the attention of the elderly. At the payment office, the old man took out a cloth bag with some cash in it, paid the deposit, and prepared to start treatment.
After the mother and son left, everyone was accusing the son of looking like a dog, but he was not good to his mother. Such an important operation on the heart, I am reluctant to give my mother a good product.
Just as the others were scolding, the son came back and said to the doctor, "Doctor, please give my mother the best bracket." Don't tell my mother that she thinks she's using a cheap stand she paid for. ”
The doctor asked why. The son said: "I don't want my mother to be unhappy, I gave her money, she was reluctant to spend, all saved for me." So, I can only secretly be nice to her. ”
Xiaoli is a young man who is "floating" outside, and in order to have a better future, she went to work in a big city after graduating from college.
That day, Xiaoli finished the day's work, and when she lay down, it was already twelve o'clock, and the north wind was howling outside, and there were still snowflakes falling. Xiao Li went to the alarm clock, because the next morning, she had to go out with the leader to run errands, and she must not be late.
She was afraid that she would not be woken up by the alarm clock, so she called her mother.
"Mom, I'm going to get up early tomorrow, you call me." Be sure to wake me up, at six o'clock in the morning. ”
The mother had already slept, answered her daughter's call, and said weakly, "Good, rest assured." ”
When her mother's phone rang, Xiaoli was dreaming, and when she was woken up in the dream, Xiaoli felt very uncomfortable. Listening to my mother's hurried up rush to get up, and then look at the watch, it was only half past five. Xiao Li was anxious and shouted on the other end of the phone: There is still half an hour! Don't tell you six o'clock! Before her mother could explain, Xiaoli pressed the hang-up button breathlessly.
Wash up and go out. It was snowing and it was still dark. At the entrance of the community, Xiao li saw a pair of elderly parents, stomping their feet in the snow, looking into the distance, as if they were waiting for someone.
Xiao Li walked forward with self-care, and ran past a young man carrying a green military backpack, waving his hand while shouting: Dad, Mom...
Xiao Li stopped, watched, listened. She suddenly cried, it turned out that the parents had not slept all night in order to pick up their son, and had come out early to wait.
At this time, Xiaoli's mobile phone message rang, it was a short message from her father: "Daughter, your mother said that she called you too early, she did not sleep much after answering your phone, worried that you would be late in bed, so she called you in advance." ”
After reading the first story, I suddenly remembered a sentence:
When the parent gives the child something, the child laughs.
When the child gives something to the parents, the parents cry.
When we were young, when we were noisy and noisy to take care of our parents' requests for things, we never considered their feelings, and even if it was difficult, our parents would try their best to fulfill our wishes.
Growing up, when we want to repay our parents, our parents are not willing to let us give a penny, Chinese-style parents, rather than live their own hardships, rather than add burden to their children. Some people say that parents are so "pampering" their children, it is a failure of education, but I think this may be the strong family affection that Chinese has!
I wonder what you thought after reading these two little stories. In any case, please remember to be a filial child, do not always think that your parents owe you, in this life, in fact, children owe their parents. For us, the only people who don't demand anything in return are our parents.
They may be very nagging, they may continue to "manage you" after you start a family, please don't be impatient. Because, in a few years, we will all experience the kind of pain that we want to have parents to manage, but we can never achieve it.
The enlightened person said: Even if we put our parents on the left and right shoulders and support them all the time, we will not be able to complete the kindness of our parents to us.
May the children of the world have a better attitude towards their parents, often go home to see, maybe at this moment, your parents are missing you...