2021 is destined to be another extraordinary year, "double reduction" and "three children" various policies have been introduced, children to reduce the burden, parents are "pressurized".
Education is becoming more and more equitable, but it is the parents who are "unfair". Even a while ago, there was an unbelievable hot search, and some parents reflected: "It is recommended that the Education Bureau legislate to prohibit teachers from giving their children make up lessons, which is unfair to education, and strongly appeals." And the Education Bureau also responded solemnly: "Hello, thank you for your advice."
It sounds ridiculous, but the truth is that teachers who are also parents and have more knowledge reserves are indeed closer to the water to tutor their children.
Although many parents will silently recite "no chicken baby, no chicken baby, no chicken baby" three times in their hearts when they see the words "no chicken baby, no chicken baby" in their hearts, but when they see other children's three-year-old literacy, five-year-old poetry, self-expression ability, and reading ability are both online, it is impossible not to envy and not be anxious.
But most parents are actually: no time: not enough time to accompany the baby to enlightenment; no energy: just want to go home and lie flat after work; inability: insufficient knowledge reserves; no money: unable to afford a large amount of education money investment when the child is only 3 years old.
So is early education important?
As the old saying goes: "Three years old looks big, seven years old looks old"! Professor Li Meijin Parenting also said: "3-6 years old is a critical period for children's growth and development!" ”
Many of the children's abilities, thinking, habits and even personalities have been initially fixed as early as the age of 3.
American psychologist Benjamin Bloom has done a follow-up study of nearly a thousand children from birth to adulthood, and the results show that before the age of 5 is the most rapid period of intellectual development, if the intelligence level of 17 years old is regarded as 100%, then the child has obtained 50% of the intelligence before the age of 4, the remaining 30% is obtained between the ages of 4 and 7, and 20% is obtained after the age of 7.
Therefore, early education is not only very important but also not to be missed.
Even if you don't expect your child to have an explosive IQ, at least reach the level of a normal child and don't drag your feet.
Q: So how can ordinary parents not be "chicken babies" and can easily teach early?
A: Be good at using tools to cultivate children's semi-independent learning habits.
It is very important to cultivate children's independent learning habits from an early age, which can not only liberate parents, but also exercise children's ability to think independently.
For young children, it is difficult to have a sense of independent learning, so it is necessary to stimulate his interest in learning in the early stage.
Secondly, in the process of learning, we must make him feel a sense of achievement, timely encouragement and affirmation, so that he can feel the joy of harvesting.