"Although I didn't meet, I was a good friend for a lifetime"
"Teacher, I'm gone Ha, thank you for your care these days"
"Say goodbye to you and thank you for your company"
"You have the most temperature, remember you"...
Hu Xiaoli
Vice Principal of Fuyang Special Education School
Outstanding mental health education teacher in Fuyang City
Family therapist
Intermediate Sandplay Consultant
The epidemic is coming
'Guardian of the Heart' in the Isolation Point
A call to the battlefield
At two o'clock in the morning of April 6, I received a call from the Legal Propaganda Department of the Education Bureau informing me to enter the isolation point as a psychological counselor, at that time I was worried and afraid, and my son was currently in the most critical moment of the third year of high school, and there was a seventy-year-old mother who needed to be taken care of. So I didn't sleep with my lover all night, and I explained to him about the necessities of the child's daily life, as well as the mother's food, clothing, and living, and entrusted him with all the affairs of the family.
Early the next morning, I followed the Education Bureau's special team to the Mingshi Hotel isolation point, where a total of 73 students, 3 teachers and 3 parents were served, including 39 women. During the period of psychological counseling carried out within the point...
I first met under the epidemic prevention uniform
On the first day of entering the isolation point, I learned that a thirteen-year-old girl in the seventh grade had a lot of emotional fluctuations, because at that time, the isolation point could not meet the equipment support temporarily, could not understand the child's status and worried that the child would have an accident, we overcame the huge psychological pressure, put on the protective clothing under the guidance of the medical staff, and was guided to the door of the child's room. When this little girl was sleepy-eyed and appeared in my sight, perhaps out of maternal instinct, I suddenly felt the helplessness of a child being isolated alone, and I guided and comforted her, and waited for her to stabilize before leaving and returning to the work area. In the days since, I have paid continuous attention to her, coordinated various departments to solve communication difficulties and helped her get in touch with her father, and she was particularly happy to receive calls from her father.
Communicate with security guards
This is a high school sophomore girl, April 8 at about 7:30, we just finished a busy day of work, the second grade homeroom teacher told me that there is a girl in the class to add me WeChat, I passed the child's application in time. She said in WeChat that she was about to break the defense and hoped to end it soon! This was a red flag, and I was so worried that she would have something to do that she couldn't think of, so I asked her permission to make a voice call. From the WeChat end, I learned that it was her birthday that day, and my mother called to ask her what gift she wanted, so she suddenly broke her heart and was particularly sad, so she wanted to seek the help of a psychological counselor. I could feel a seventeen-year-old girl suddenly transported from school to the quarantine point, alone in an isolation room to greet her birthday. So I gently told her that I understand your current mood, but the quarantine is to make you safer, but also to make you more happy birthdays, we insist on insisting on the end of the day! After more than half a little channeling, the child's mood gradually stabilized, she said that she was glad to meet me on this special day, and I was instantly immersed in this happiness of being recognized. After hanging up the phone, I waited until the early hours of the morning and sent her a birthday wish. Since then we have become a special encounter in life, the night before leaving, she gave me these two paintings, I was written this sentence "free and unrestrained joy" divinely moved, fortunately she is still strong after experiencing the special time of the isolation point, and we are even more glad that we have won the epidemic and made this child love his hometown even more!
Mobile phone WeChat bridges
In order to better psychological counseling for the children, I and the teachers in the point regularly carry out psychological censuses to understand the psychological trends of teachers and students, pay attention to the warm details of the bits and pieces, and ask for warmth in the group or private messages every day, passing love to everyone's heart, so that children can rest assured that parents can rest assured. Our two teachers also used sign language and painting skills to guide students to enrich their leisure time after studying. When the children painted beautiful pictures and handicrafts folded, and also expressed in sign language "Big White Brother is hard" and "The teacher is hard", these all touched the staff in the point.
At the isolation point, stories like these constantly take place in our interactions with our children, and we are touched by them every time. They are stronger than we thought, and their parents are more accessible than I thought, feeling like a bridge between them and their parents and the outside world. During this time, we are also in a high-pressure psychological state, although we are haunted by tension, fear and anxiety every day, but our peers help each other to relieve the negative pressure transmitted to us by the service object, and finally accompany them through this haze, hoping that they can grow up healthy and happy in the future life!
Compared to many people,
My work seems mundane and small
But I firmly believe that as long as there is light in the eyes and love in the heart
In ordinary posts can also be the most beautiful "retrograde"
——Hu Xiaoli
April 24, 2022