Reporter Li Xiangwen / Comprehensive Report
Li Lianglei, the wife of artist Wang Lihong, issued a statement again on the 23rd in response to the doubts received during this period. She openly confronted the "child's father", which was considered too cruel and did not care about the child by some netizens, and today explained in the statement that "the child needs not a perfect parent, the child needs an honest and trustworthy parent who can bravely face and correct the problem", which explains the reason for this.
Li Lianglei sent a text in response to the question. (Photo/ Reproduced from Weibo/Li Lianglei Jinglei)
Li Lianglei pointed out that in fact, she has tried all the ways she can get, hoping to solve this matter privately, but "even today, whether publicly or privately, I still have not received a sincere apology, and all the problems are still regrettably still blamed on my problems." She stressed that she does think this apology is very important, because people who do wrong must repent and correct, "Everything I do is to make our children have physical and mental health fathers and a sound environment for growth." 」
Li Lianglei believes that what children need is not perfect parents, but honest and trustworthy parents who can bravely face corrections when encountering problems, "If parents pretend to be perfect, children will also think that their imperfections are a defect." She pointed out that many children can grow up soundly and maintain closeness with their parents even if they know that their parents are not perfect, so there is no need to create an illusion in front of them, "Children grow up slowly, they will hear and see, and growing up in such a family will bring the greatest harm to their children." 」
Li Lianglei believes that for the sake of children, we should not be patient. (Photo/ Reproduced from Weibo/Li Lianglei Jinglei)
Li Lianglei stressed that if she continues to be patient and let her children grow up in a family that pretends to be harmonious, it will only cause two results in the future, one is that the child believes in the slander of relatives and friends and resents the mother, and the other is for the mother to oppose the father and relatives and friends, "These two results are not happy." I don't want to make everything now a child because of my weakness and have to live in a "harmonious" family instead of me or therefore have to live in a "harmonious" family in disguise, but in fact I have to suffer or witness a long period of family relationships full of contradictions, bullying, and cold violence."