Psychological causes of children's rebelliousness and inability to communicate

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

Some parents complain that their children are reluctant to communicate with themselves and do not have the opportunity to understand their children's thoughts. Be honest, are you trying to communicate with your child? You just want to convince your child to listen to you and achieve your own "beautiful vision".

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

Communication, not words. If I don't use ×× communication skills, the child's emotions will be gone, the child will no longer cry and talk well, the child will not be attached to buying the toy, the child will be able to consciously write homework...

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

The premise of communication is not to hope that the other party will become another person, but to be willing to understand the needs of the other party, and to honestly state their own needs, to see how to creatively achieve a win-win situation.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

For example, both the mother and the baby need enough sleep and rest, and this real need can coexist. And the method is actually very simple: the mother follows the baby, completely gives up controlling the child's sleep time, breathes with the child, lives in the moment, and the child and the mother can naturally coordinate the sleep rules. At the same time, the family should also fully support the mother and help the mother share.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

But the narcissistic ego regards the baby's refusal to fall asleep as an attack on itself, so it needs the "sleep training" Dafa to fight back against the baby, break the baby's narcissism, and preserve the parents' narcissism. Children who have been sucked out of their parents' vitality are likely to fill the black hole of fear by sucking their own next generation in the future, which is considered to be an ancestral sadness.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

A narcissistic deprived baby develops a false self, which is made up of narcissistic fantasies. When babies grow up to become parents, continue to deprive their children of their narcissism and defend their own narcissism.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Therefore, the child's "do not write homework", "do not sleep on time" and "do not obey", this is not the thing itself, but the parents' narcissistic survival war: the child is not as I wish, the parents feel that they are going to be forced to die, so they hysterically force the child for a little thing, then the child is naturally prone to become hysterical.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Then everyone has reason to jump out and blame the child, because he/she is so wrong! He/she actually beat his own mother! Such a child must be beaten to make him understand that it is wrong to hit someone!

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

This is the eternal drama of chinese families, including parenting experts are also involved, but parenting experts are more powerful than ordinary people, ordinary people are beaten, parenting experts can "hit the child correctly", after the fight can also make the child grateful for their good intentions... Referred to as Psychic PUA.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

By beating children, educating children should not hit people; reprimanding children, educating children should be polite in words and deeds; forcing children to be self-motivated, educating children should strive to move up... These absurd "educations" are the most popular among the mainstream.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

Hungry and trying to steal a neighbor's chicken, it's a bad morals. After stealing, I will make a statement to bring down the landlord to make the neighbors thank me, which is the evil of human nature.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

If you go to PUA children, the child's inner being is distorted, unable to distinguish between love and non-love, and will treat others as violating their boundaries and manipulating themselves as valuing and loving themselves.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

The child says to you: The teacher said that manhood should protect women, and mother and I protect you.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

The child says to you: The teacher said that manhood should protect women, and mother and I protect you.

You can return to children: men and women are the same, they can protect themselves, while respecting the boundaries of others and not violating others. People help each other, but women are not weak and do not need special protection from men. Besides, the mother is an adult, you are a child, and it is the mother who has the responsibility to protect you.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

The child says to you: The teacher said that manhood should protect women, and mother and I protect you.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

The child says to you: The teacher said that manhood should protect women, and mother and I protect you.

Parental Declaration

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

The child says to you: The teacher said that manhood should protect women, and mother and I protect you.

Parental Declaration

Acknowledging the truth and seeing the boundaries is the love and protection of children.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

The child says to you: The teacher said that manhood should protect women, and mother and I protect you.

Parental Declaration

Acknowledging the truth and seeing the boundaries is the love and protection of children.

Parents can be "shock absorbers" when their children are frustrated. When a child encounters an accident, such as being abused by a teacher, a major change in the family such as bankruptcy, etc., how can parents not leave psychological trauma on the child?

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

The child says to you: The teacher said that manhood should protect women, and mother and I protect you.

Parental Declaration

Acknowledging the truth and seeing the boundaries is the love and protection of children.

A child's judgment of the severity of an event depends a lot on the parents' attitude. We will all observe that in the face of danger, the child goes to see the parent's face for the first time. If the parents are calm, the child will feel that this matter will be solved and will pass.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

The child says to you: The teacher said that manhood should protect women, and mother and I protect you.

Parental Declaration

Acknowledging the truth and seeing the boundaries is the love and protection of children.

When there is a major accident, parents try to keep the rhythm of life stable, for example, if the child has siblings, still let them go to school normally, parents try not to completely give up their careers because of the crisis, in that case, the child will have the whole life collapsed because of this crisis, full of fear and guilt.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

The child says to you: The teacher said that manhood should protect women, and mother and I protect you.

Parental Declaration

Acknowledging the truth and seeing the boundaries is the love and protection of children.

Parents are open to listening to their children's feelings, discussing crisis events with their children, and understanding their children's concerns. Parents give their children the feeling that no matter what, parents will not be frightened, will not collapse, then the child will have the strength to heal from the wound.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

The child says to you: The teacher said that manhood should protect women, and mother and I protect you.

Parental Declaration

Acknowledging the truth and seeing the boundaries is the love and protection of children.

Parents can act as filters on the stress of life instead of passing the pressure on to their children.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

The child says to you: The teacher said that manhood should protect women, and mother and I protect you.

Parental Declaration

Acknowledging the truth and seeing the boundaries is the love and protection of children.

Parents can act as filters on the stress of life instead of passing the pressure on to their children.

Normal family: parents are the child's safe haven, parents' survival pressure, contradictions between family members, the oppression of children by the education system, etc., these anxiety pressures, through the parents' filtering, try not to pass on to the children, so that the children can grow a stable and strong personality, the inner true and powerful.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

The child says to you: The teacher said that manhood should protect women, and mother and I protect you.

Parental Declaration

Acknowledging the truth and seeing the boundaries is the love and protection of children.

Parents can act as filters on the stress of life instead of passing the pressure on to their children.

Inverted families: Parents endlessly pour pressure into their children, and ask their children to obey and ask their children to complete their ideals to appease their parents. Such a child looks precocious and sensible. But the foundation of personality is very fragile, often in the manic state of omnipotent narcissism to imagine that they are very powerful, can save their parents, encounter setbacks and then fall into self-attack, feel depressed helplessness and fear, the mind is constantly torn and tortured in such two poles.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

The child says to you: The teacher said that manhood should protect women, and mother and I protect you.

Parental Declaration

Acknowledging the truth and seeing the boundaries is the love and protection of children.

Parents can act as filters on the stress of life instead of passing the pressure on to their children.

For children who need to appease their parents at a young age, parents as a force to protect their children are absent. This brings a very frightening result: the child lacks a sense of boundaries inside.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

The child says to you: The teacher said that manhood should protect women, and mother and I protect you.

Parental Declaration

Acknowledging the truth and seeing the boundaries is the love and protection of children.

Parents can act as filters on the stress of life instead of passing the pressure on to their children.

They tend to develop an unbridled sense of control and responsibility over people and things. The slightest loss of control will impact themselves, and they imagine that they should be omniscient and omnipotent.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

The child says to you: The teacher said that manhood should protect women, and mother and I protect you.

Parental Declaration

Acknowledging the truth and seeing the boundaries is the love and protection of children.

Parents can act as filters on the stress of life instead of passing the pressure on to their children.

They live very tired, always in unconscious tension, and have to be busy solving problems. I don't dare to let myself relax for a while, I can't believe that the years can be quiet and uneventful, I always feel that there is a disaster waiting for me behind a moment of relaxation, so I can't stop, I must always be anxious to remember certain things.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

The child says to you: The teacher said that manhood should protect women, and mother and I protect you.

Parental Declaration

Acknowledging the truth and seeing the boundaries is the love and protection of children.

Parents can act as filters on the stress of life instead of passing the pressure on to their children.

- Parents' Proclamation -

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

The child says to you: The teacher said that manhood should protect women, and mother and I protect you.

Parental Declaration

Acknowledging the truth and seeing the boundaries is the love and protection of children.

Parents can act as filters on the stress of life instead of passing the pressure on to their children.

- Parents' Proclamation -

No matter how difficult life is, I know that this is the business of adults, and I will not talk to my children about their suffering, so that children can create their own abundance in the future.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

The child says to you: The teacher said that manhood should protect women, and mother and I protect you.

Parental Declaration

Acknowledging the truth and seeing the boundaries is the love and protection of children.

Parents can act as filters on the stress of life instead of passing the pressure on to their children.

- Parents' Proclamation -

No matter how difficult life is, I know that this is the business of adults, and I will not talk to my children about their suffering, so that children can create their own abundance in the future.

No matter how bad the couple's feelings, I know that it's not the child's fault. I support a child who loves both his father and his mother, and I don't say bad things about my spouse to my child.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

The child says to you: The teacher said that manhood should protect women, and mother and I protect you.

Parental Declaration

Acknowledging the truth and seeing the boundaries is the love and protection of children.

Parents can act as filters on the stress of life instead of passing the pressure on to their children.

- Parents' Proclamation -

No matter how difficult life is, I know that this is the business of adults, and I will not talk to my children about their suffering, so that children can create their own abundance in the future.

No matter how bad the couple's feelings, I know that it's not the child's fault. I support a child who loves both his father and his mother, and I don't say bad things about my spouse to my child.

No matter how much burden and pressure parenting causes me, I know that having children is my own choice, and I will not ask children to thank me, comfort me, and make up for me. In this way, the child knows that love is not a debt, and he can enjoy his life without guilt.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

The child says to you: The teacher said that manhood should protect women, and mother and I protect you.

Parental Declaration

Acknowledging the truth and seeing the boundaries is the love and protection of children.

Parents can act as filters on the stress of life instead of passing the pressure on to their children.

- Parents' Proclamation -

No matter how difficult life is, I know that this is the business of adults, and I will not talk to my children about their suffering, so that children can create their own abundance in the future.

No matter how bad the couple's feelings, I know that it's not the child's fault. I support a child who loves both his father and his mother, and I don't say bad things about my spouse to my child.

No matter how much emotional pain I'm in, I know that's not something a child should bear. I can ask my peers and professionals for help and tell my children: Mom, Dad knows that you care and want to help Mom, Dad. But my pain is the business of our adults, and we adults will learn to deal with it on our own and continue to grow. And you, you just have to be yourself.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

The child says to you: The teacher said that manhood should protect women, and mother and I protect you.

Parental Declaration

Acknowledging the truth and seeing the boundaries is the love and protection of children.

Parents can act as filters on the stress of life instead of passing the pressure on to their children.

- Parents' Proclamation -

No matter how difficult life is, I know that this is the business of adults, and I will not talk to my children about their suffering, so that children can create their own abundance in the future.

No matter how bad the couple's feelings, I know that it's not the child's fault. I support a child who loves both his father and his mother, and I don't say bad things about my spouse to my child.

Human suffering stems from plot fantasies that have no boundaries of reality. The parent declaration is a declaration to stop creating illusions for children, and children can live steadily in the boundaries of reality and create their own infinite possibilities.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

The child says to you: The teacher said that manhood should protect women, and mother and I protect you.

Parental Declaration

Acknowledging the truth and seeing the boundaries is the love and protection of children.

Parents can act as filters on the stress of life instead of passing the pressure on to their children.

- Parents' Proclamation -

No matter how difficult life is, I know that this is the business of adults, and I will not talk to my children about their suffering, so that children can create their own abundance in the future.

No matter how bad the couple's feelings, I know that it's not the child's fault. I support a child who loves both his father and his mother, and I don't say bad things about my spouse to my child.

Author | Li Xue

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

The child says to you: The teacher said that manhood should protect women, and mother and I protect you.

Parental Declaration

Acknowledging the truth and seeing the boundaries is the love and protection of children.

Parents can act as filters on the stress of life instead of passing the pressure on to their children.

- Parents' Proclamation -

No matter how difficult life is, I know that this is the business of adults, and I will not talk to my children about their suffering, so that children can create their own abundance in the future.

No matter how bad the couple's feelings, I know that it's not the child's fault. I support a child who loves both his father and his mother, and I don't say bad things about my spouse to my child.

Author | Li Xue

Psychologist, Sina Weibo @ Li Xue Love and Freedom. He is the author of "When I Meet a Man", "Out of the Plot", and "Limited Liability Family". Dangdang, JD.com, Taobao, amazon all platforms are on sale.

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

The child says to you: The teacher said that manhood should protect women, and mother and I protect you.

Parental Declaration

Acknowledging the truth and seeing the boundaries is the love and protection of children.

Parents can act as filters on the stress of life instead of passing the pressure on to their children.

- Parents' Proclamation -

No matter how difficult life is, I know that this is the business of adults, and I will not talk to my children about their suffering, so that children can create their own abundance in the future.

No matter how bad the couple's feelings, I know that it's not the child's fault. I support a child who loves both his father and his mother, and I don't say bad things about my spouse to my child.

Author | Li Xue

Edit | Lin Shiye

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

The child says to you: The teacher said that manhood should protect women, and mother and I protect you.

Parental Declaration

Acknowledging the truth and seeing the boundaries is the love and protection of children.

Parents can act as filters on the stress of life instead of passing the pressure on to their children.

- Parents' Proclamation -

No matter how difficult life is, I know that this is the business of adults, and I will not talk to my children about their suffering, so that children can create their own abundance in the future.

No matter how bad the couple's feelings, I know that it's not the child's fault. I support a child who loves both his father and his mother, and I don't say bad things about my spouse to my child.

Author | Li Xue

Edit | Lin Shiye

Illustration | screenshot of the movie "One Night on Earth"

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

The child says to you: The teacher said that manhood should protect women, and mother and I protect you.

Parental Declaration

Acknowledging the truth and seeing the boundaries is the love and protection of children.

Parents can act as filters on the stress of life instead of passing the pressure on to their children.

- Parents' Proclamation -

No matter how difficult life is, I know that this is the business of adults, and I will not talk to my children about their suffering, so that children can create their own abundance in the future.

No matter how bad the couple's feelings, I know that it's not the child's fault. I support a child who loves both his father and his mother, and I don't say bad things about my spouse to my child.

Author | Li Xue

Edit | Lin Shiye

Illustration | screenshot of the movie "One Night on Earth"

END

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

The child says to you: The teacher said that manhood should protect women, and mother and I protect you.

Parental Declaration

Acknowledging the truth and seeing the boundaries is the love and protection of children.

Parents can act as filters on the stress of life instead of passing the pressure on to their children.

- Parents' Proclamation -

No matter how difficult life is, I know that this is the business of adults, and I will not talk to my children about their suffering, so that children can create their own abundance in the future.

No matter how bad the couple's feelings, I know that it's not the child's fault. I support a child who loves both his father and his mother, and I don't say bad things about my spouse to my child.

Author | Li Xue

Edit | Lin Shiye

Illustration | screenshot of the movie "One Night on Earth"

END

∞ Source: Li Xue'ai and Freedom ∞

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

The child says to you: The teacher said that manhood should protect women, and mother and I protect you.

Parental Declaration

Acknowledging the truth and seeing the boundaries is the love and protection of children.

Parents can act as filters on the stress of life instead of passing the pressure on to their children.

- Parents' Proclamation -

No matter how difficult life is, I know that this is the business of adults, and I will not talk to my children about their suffering, so that children can create their own abundance in the future.

No matter how bad the couple's feelings, I know that it's not the child's fault. I support a child who loves both his father and his mother, and I don't say bad things about my spouse to my child.

Author | Li Xue

Edit | Lin Shiye

Illustration | screenshot of the movie "One Night on Earth"

END

∞ Source: Li Xue'ai and Freedom ∞

∞ the graphics and texts originate from the Internet, if there is infringement, inform the deletion ∞

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

The child says to you: The teacher said that manhood should protect women, and mother and I protect you.

Parental Declaration

Acknowledging the truth and seeing the boundaries is the love and protection of children.

Parents can act as filters on the stress of life instead of passing the pressure on to their children.

- Parents' Proclamation -

No matter how difficult life is, I know that this is the business of adults, and I will not talk to my children about their suffering, so that children can create their own abundance in the future.

No matter how bad the couple's feelings, I know that it's not the child's fault. I support a child who loves both his father and his mother, and I don't say bad things about my spouse to my child.

Author | Li Xue

Edit | Lin Shiye

Illustration | screenshot of the movie "One Night on Earth"

END

∞ Source: Li Xue'ai and Freedom ∞

∞ the graphics and texts originate from the Internet, if there is infringement, inform the deletion ∞

∞ Executive Editor: Zhang Bobo Producer: Winter Sunshine ∞

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

The child says to you: The teacher said that manhood should protect women, and mother and I protect you.

Parental Declaration

Acknowledging the truth and seeing the boundaries is the love and protection of children.

Parents can act as filters on the stress of life instead of passing the pressure on to their children.

- Parents' Proclamation -

No matter how difficult life is, I know that this is the business of adults, and I will not talk to my children about their suffering, so that children can create their own abundance in the future.

No matter how bad the couple's feelings, I know that it's not the child's fault. I support a child who loves both his father and his mother, and I don't say bad things about my spouse to my child.

Author | Li Xue

Edit | Lin Shiye

Illustration | screenshot of the movie "One Night on Earth"

END

∞ Source: Li Xue'ai and Freedom ∞

∞ the graphics and texts originate from the Internet, if there is infringement, inform the deletion ∞

∞ Executive Editor: Zhang Bobo Producer: Winter Sunshine ∞

Wen | Li Xue

First of all, what does communication mean

No child doesn't like communication, they just don't like the hypocrisy of their parents.

"You live and die' education"

The real needs of people can coexist and win-win. But the narcissism of the ego can only live one.

Once the child becomes hysterical, such as hitting the mother, he/she becomes the wrong child, and the mother becomes the poor victim who gives everything to be treated like this by the child.

Taste this logic: use a beating of the child, let the child understand that you can not hit people.

Honest, not traumatic

Parents don't need to be perfect, honest. Honest parents do not leave psychological trauma on their children.

I scolded my child in narcissism, no problem, no one can guarantee that I will not lose control for the rest of my life unless I am enlightened.

The question is only, after scolding the child, do I honestly face my own violent behavior, or do I go to the PSA and let the child understand my "good intentions"?

The child will not be hurt by the imperfection of the parents, the child will see: this is the real person, are imperfect, sincere people, the relationship is strong.

Honesty, first of all, honesty about oneself, is the self-responsibility of adults, and here are a few examples.

The child tells you: The teacher said that my parents raised me very hard!

You can return to the child: parents choose to give birth to you, raising you is both our responsibility and our love, and it is a feeling of happiness to be involved in it.

The child says to you: Are you unhappy?

Can return to the child: I have emotions because of my own things, and I will deal with them myself.

The child says to you: Mom and Dad, are you arguing?

You can go back to the child: parents have conflicts, we will deal with them ourselves, and our feelings for you will not change.

The child says to you: Mom, I will try to make you live a happy life in the future.

You can return to the child: the happiness of adults is the business of adults, and we will be responsible for ourselves, not your responsibility.

The child says to you: The teacher said that manhood should protect women, and mother and I protect you.

Parental Declaration

Acknowledging the truth and seeing the boundaries is the love and protection of children.

Parents can act as filters on the stress of life instead of passing the pressure on to their children.

- Parents' Proclamation -

No matter how difficult life is, I know that this is the business of adults, and I will not talk to my children about their suffering, so that children can create their own abundance in the future.

No matter how bad the couple's feelings, I know that it's not the child's fault. I support a child who loves both his father and his mother, and I don't say bad things about my spouse to my child.

Author | Li Xue

Edit | Lin Shiye

Illustration | screenshot of the movie "One Night on Earth"

END

∞ Source: Li Xue'ai and Freedom ∞

∞ the graphics and texts originate from the Internet, if there is infringement, inform the deletion ∞

∞ Executive Editor: Zhang Bobo Producer: Winter Sunshine ∞

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