The ancients became clouds, Qiandao became males, Kundao became females; Yang was rooted in yin, yin was rooted in yang; lonely yin was not born, and single yang was not long.
Women make men, men nourish women, and men and women themselves are a combination of contradictions.
Modern society advocates equality between men and women, which is about social status, but after all, there is a difference between men and women, otherwise the toilets in the world would have been unified long ago. Men have the cultivation of men, and women have the temperament of women. Men and women have their own place, so that the yin and yang can be harmonious, and the world can be alive.
First, the most accomplished man
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Calm man
As the saying goes, the depth of the water is silent, and the person is steady. Calm men tend to be more mature and understand the society better. A calm man who does not casually reveal his emotions. Think for yourself before asking for advice, but don't talk about it first. Important decisions are discussed as much as possible, preferably every other day. There will be no panic in speaking, and so will walking. People are not high or low, do not look dragging, to people and things, do not forget to be polite. You are no better than anyone else.
Thick branches and large leaves, so-so is a common disease of men. And the more calm a man is, the more careful he is. The Tao Te Ching says that the difficult things under the world must be done easily, and the great things under the world must be done in detail. To achieve something, carefulness is an essential quality. Attentive men often think about the causal relationship between what is happening around them. For the habitual way of doing things, there should be suggestions for improvement or optimization. Do everything in an orderly and orderly habit.
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A man of courage
In the "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", Zhuge Liang staged the "Empty City Plan", creating a miracle that Sima Yi, who commanded hundreds of thousands of troops, fled in front of the empty city.
It is not difficult to analyze these miracles and find that courage is the main cause of miracles. A person, especially a man, if he does not have the courage to stand at the head of the tide and turn the tide, he is doomed to not withstand the wind and waves, and he will not achieve much of a career.
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Atmospheric man
Su Shi of the Song Dynasty said in the "Treatise on The Marquis of Liuhou": "There are great brave people in the world, who come suddenly without being alarmed, and who are not angry without reason." "An atmospheric man, in the face of unexpected events and groundless accusations, can control his own panic and anger, which is the embodiment of great wisdom and courage." Atmosphere is the most important quality of men, the atmosphere is to have a big pattern, a big ambition, a big goal, will not be blinded; at the same time, it will not be calculated, generous and tolerant. The big man has a big heart and does not deliberately turn people who may be partners into opponents.
Atmospheric men have the courage to admit their mistakes, know how to find the cause of the problem from themselves, and will not shirk responsibility. Atmospheric men should advance when they enter, retreat when they retreat, steady and calm, tenacious, Tarzan collapsed in front of him and did not dare to color. The person who is atmospheric is calm and calm, calm and decisive in the face of things, but in the experience, he attaches great importance to the good, the victory is not arrogant, and the defeat is not discouraged.
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Loyal men
In the Analects, it is recorded that Zeng Zi said: "You can support the lonely of six feet, you can send the life of a hundred miles, and you cannot take it away from the great festival." Gentleman man with? Gentleman also. "Loyalty is an indispensable quality for a gentleman. Good men are loyal to their parents, loyal to their wives, loyal to their friends, and loyal to their careers. He may rarely promise, but he will do what he says, and his deeds will bear fruit.
Loyalty is a man's sense of responsibility. A man without a sense of responsibility, no matter how capable he is, will not be happy. If a man lacks the quality of loyalty and no sense of responsibility, he will be disobedient to his parents, half-hearted to his spouse, two-faced and three-sided to his friends, and coped with career work, such a man is doomed to achieve nothing.
Second, the most prosperous woman
A flexible woman
Lao Tzu's Tao Te Ching says, "Know its males and keep their females." Lao Tzu advocates "keeping the soft and noble female", the female is the female, and in the human person is the female.
Women are weak, but tough. A woman's weakness is not negative, but a stoic force, and Lao Tzu saw this soft power, so he said that "weakness is better than strength."
In "Dream of the Red Chamber", Jia Baoyu said that his daughter was made of water. Women are like water, and women like water have the spirituality of water, and know how to merge hundreds of rivers into the sea; women are like water, with the weak and tenacious strength of water, able to be worn by water drops and stones.
Quiet woman
Static braking is a woman's innate skill, and women's wisdom also comes from quietness.
"Sun Tzu's Art of War" on the clouds: quiet like a virgin, moving like a rabbit. It means that the army is as calm as an unmarried girl when it is not in action, and as agile as a running rabbit when it moves. Jing is the great wisdom admired in ancient times, and it is also the innate quality of women.
In "Zhou Yi", Qian represents men and Kun represents women. Kun is "the most quiet and German side", quiet and upright, the great virtue of a woman.
Quiet women are the most beautiful women. Quiet woman, with an elegant temperament from the inside out, she may be happy and cheerful on the outside, however, her eyes are calm, her steps are calm, and she is plain as a chrysanthemum. She is a lotus flower standing in the water, and she is a cup of clear afternoon tea.
A truly quiet woman, soft, tolerant, tolerant, understanding, true feelings, always makes people feel like a spring breeze.
Atmospheric woman
In fact, not only men need the atmosphere, women need the atmosphere. "Atmosphere" is the atmosphere of generosity. Not trivial, not nagging, not calculating; not complaining, not complaining, not complaining; not scratching at the eyebrows and beards, cutting them continuously, and straightening out the chaos; not facing a set of faces behind a set; not forgetting the shape when you are proud, and not being discouraged when you are frustrated. No matter the length of life, let life be like a song, tactfully transformed into a unique tune, or majestic, eye-catching; or a small bridge flowing water, quiet and elegant.
The atmospheric woman is empathetic, must be the most virtuous and lovely, and in the family she knows how to think from the perspective of her husband.
The best relationship between husband and wife is "I understand your not easy".