«——【· Preface ·】——»
On October 14th, a middle school teacher in Chongqing suddenly went crazy in the parent group, "Get out of Lao Tzu"! , and confronted the parents.
As soon as this incident was posted on the Internet, it aroused heated discussions among everyone, how can such an arrogant person be worthy of being a teacher?
At the same time, some netizens also questioned that there are two sides to everything, the teacher is a human being, not a god, will he be mad for no reason? Sure enough, now the matter has ushered in a reversal.
«——【· Teacher Makes Madness in Parents' Crowd ·】——»
With the development of the times, the social environment is slowly changing, the original parents will be very important to their children's scores, now the concept is slowly changing, many parents believe that the healthy growth of children is the most important.
The important role of the teacher has also become difficult, in addition to coping with her own teaching work, she also has to deal with the problems of the children.
Today's children are the treasures that are held in the palms of their parents, the teacher's education is light and does not listen, and the serious cannot be accepted, and the beating and scolding of students has become a thing of the past forever, and the teacher can only patiently enlighten, otherwise the parents will not be able to pass this level.
On October 14, some netizens broke the news that the teacher told the parents in the WeChat group that he was very angry now, his emotions would explode at any time, and his words were very rude, "Get out of the way, get away." "If you want to sue, go and sue." A lot of words make people can't believe their ears, and as a teacher, this is too much.
In the face of the mad teacher, there are kind parents who remind you, will you be too sorry for being a teacher? What people didn't expect was that the teacher's performance was even more crazy, "You just want to scold, what can you do?" I'm going to make Lao Tzu anxious and fight hard with you. ”
As a parent of a child, I feel very uncomfortable to see this, in the face of such a teacher, will we, as parents, rest assured that we will hand over our children to her? The teacher should be kind and gentle, although sometimes very strict, but can't be like this?
«——[· Reversal ·]——»
As things develop, more truths have been exposed by netizens, the reason why the teacher lost control of his emotions turned out to be the incident that the parents provoked first, and even moved on the teacher, what happened to make the parents and teachers have such a conflict?
According to people familiar with the matter, this female teacher is very good, graduated from a prestigious university, was a proper student in school, and often got scholarships.
He performed very well in school, participated in many competitions and won awards, and was a teacher that many students liked.
Sure enough, some netizens soon revealed that it was because a student's meal card could not be used, and the parents looked for the teacher, but the teacher was busy and didn't see the news, and the parents ran to the school in a fit of anger to make trouble, and they did it.
The young teacher was very angry and vented his dissatisfaction in the class group, which angered the parents and posted the chat video online, causing an uproar. Under the pressure of public opinion, the school immediately said that the matter would be dealt with as soon as possible.
Soon the school responded to the matter, as the teacher was emotionally out of control in the parent group, and the inappropriate speech behavior had a bad impact, and the teacher was suspended from work.
This incident made the school feel very difficult, not only to protect the good reputation of the school, but what should be done to the aggrieved teacher? And the teacher was beaten.
If the school does not handle it properly, will it chill the hearts of many teachers? However, if you are on the teacher's side, parents will say that the school is biased in favor of the teacher, and the matter is handled unfairly.
«——[· support teachers and understand parents·] ——»
Many netizens are very sympathetic to the teacher, thinking that the teacher is not easy, a person has to deal with too many things, everyone should understand the teacher, should not blame too much, now some parents are too doting on their children, and the teacher's work is also difficult to do.
Another netizen said, although it is not easy to be a teacher, which industry is easy? Everything has to pay hard work and hard work, this sentence is very true, but children are all we have, the teacher's education directly affects the future of the motherland's flowers, respect for the teacher is respect for ourselves.
Nowadays, many parents will be very nervous when they encounter children's problems, because there have been black sheep in the teacher team, but these are only a very small part, and it does not negate too many teachers' dedication to education.
A netizen who is a teacher has a deep understanding that he has been teaching for more than ten years, his hair has turned a lot grayer, and his children are fine, but parents with various tempers, magnifying a little thing, looking for a leader at every turn, and the trouble is endless.
This netizen who is a teacher spoke his heart for the profession of teacher, although a teacher is a profession, but she is also a person with joys and sorrows, and also has her own dignity, if you let parents make mistakes and do not deal with them, as a teacher, can you only blindly tolerate it?
As the old saying goes, "respect the teacher", these four words will become an empty word, which will chill the hearts of too many people who are conscientious and stick to their teaching posts.
Parents can talk to the school and teachers if they have problems, but if they are like this parent who abuses the teacher at will, or even hits others, then the relationship between parents and teachers will be more tense or even worse.
There are also many netizens who support parents very much, and feel that it is very important to be a teacher as a teacher, even if you are wronged, other parents have not offended you, and you have said radical things in the class group, is it too undeserved.
For parents, children are the whole of a family, although the problem of meal cards is not a big deal, but it is related to whether the child can eat, in the eyes of the child's parents, this is the top priority. Of course, insulting teachers or even hitting people is a bit excessive.
Now teachers have a lot of tasks in school, and they are under pressure, and they will collapse if they can't control their emotions, because of various school activities and WeChat release tasks, many netizens think that there should not be too much contact between parents and teachers, and it is good to go directly to the school to solve something.
The parent group provides a lot of convenience for communication between teachers and parents, but many issues become the focus here, and irrelevant discussions and inappropriate statements are also very stressful for teachers.
«——[· have problems to communicate in a timely manner·]——»
Teachers themselves have heavy teaching tasks, and teachers have to patiently reply to various questions in the parent group, and their workload has increased invisibly. As a parent, you should communicate with your teachers in an appropriate manner.
Some people think that because of a little thing, parents will not forgive, will there be unsatisfactory places to play on the topic, vent their dissatisfaction on the school teachers, and use their vexatious troubles to attract the attention of the school.
Hitting people is not right in itself, there should be a cooperative relationship between parents and teachers, not antagonism, after all, it is for the good of children, respect teachers to understand their difficulties, and it is very important to establish a good communication relationship.
Teachers are also ordinary people, and when they encounter things, they will explode their dissatisfaction, and they will be unbearable in the face of unprovoked targeting or even being beaten, and they don't need to endure it, if their own family members encounter such a thing, what will happen to us?
«——【· Conclusion ·】——»
Children are our future and hope, parents and teachers hope that children can become the pillars of the motherland, only parents and teachers work closely together, so that children can learn and grow up healthily, after all, everything is for the good of children.
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