Home is a safe haven for everyone, especially in Chinese history, there are countless cultures and histories about home, and since ancient times, people have taken "self-cultivation, governance, and peace in the world" as a person's living standard. "He who will teach the whole world will surely be his home and his body will be straightened out."
The prosperity and decline of the family are related to the fate and future of the country, as the saying goes: "Home and everything is prosperous." ”
But the prosperity and development of the family need to be carefully managed, and the old saying: "There are four things in the family, not rich and prosperous" are worth learning from.
So which four are they? Don't worry, let's talk slowly.
First of all, we need to understand that these four things are not concrete objects, they are abstract, referring to the unique atmosphere of the family.
The first atmosphere: mulch
The most important thing for the family to get along with each other is harmony, and a harmonious family atmosphere is the foundation of all family atmospheres.
In a family, the intimate and friendly relationship between relatives is the foundation of the family, the long-term kindness and filial piety, the brotherhood of brothers and brothers, and the obedience of husbands and wives. Bumps and bumps in the family are inevitable, but healthy families will turn these bumps into nourishment for a friendly family atmosphere.
After the loss of her husband by Zhuo Wenjun, a talented woman in the Western Han Dynasty, she saw that she had nothing but the talented Sima Xiangru, zhuo Wenjun, who did not get the consent of Zhuo Wenjun's father, eloped with Sima Xiangru, and the husband and wife worked together to open a liquor store, and their lives were barely enough, but they were talked about, Zhuo Father saw that his daughter's family was ridiculed, and had to accept the marriage between the two, and to help Zhuo Wenjun's family, only then did Sima Xiangru become famous in the world.
Therefore, a harmonious family atmosphere can save us from worries and concentrate on the work ahead.
The second atmosphere: diligence
Lu You is a famous great poet in china, who has studied diligently all his life and has been working hard all his life, and such a great poet attaches great importance to his family education problems, and has written one or two hundred poems for his children alone, of which he has written a hundred poems for his youngest son to persuade him to study, and admonished his son to study hard.
Whether the family is poor or rich, if all the members of this family are industrious and capable, then the poor family will become richer and richer, and the rich family will be richer for three generations. Otherwise, no matter how much money you have, you will sit on the mountain and eat the sky because of laziness, and scatter your family wealth.
The third atmosphere: frugality
"Throughout the history of the former virtuous country and home, it is made by frugality and luxury" If a family wants to prosper, open source and throttling must be necessary. All Sima Guang, in admonishing his descendants, said, "Those who have virtue come from thrift. Frugality to establish a name, extravagance to self-defeat"
Therefore, Sima Guang's descendants have become talents.
The family wealth we have is obtained because of the hard work of our elders, so cherish our hard-won wealth, avoid extravagance and waste, and start from a grain of rice and a drop of water.
The fourth atmosphere: goodness
In the Wenyan, it is said that "the house of accumulation of goodness will have a remnant of celebration; and the house of the accumulation of unwholesomeness will have a remnant of disaster." ”
In a family, if there is an evil person, then the family must be disharmonious, such as cheating, domestic violence of the father, so that how many people's childhood misfortune becomes a shadow of a lifetime, and even teach by example, pass on these bad customs to future generations. If this family is full of evil people, then every day the family thinks of you fighting with each other and burying pits with each other, then sooner or later this family will be scattered because of uneven distribution.
The protagonist of the movie Green Head Fly was abused by the family from childhood, and over time, the protagonist was influenced by his father and became a little who fought and fought all day, thus going to prison, and after being released from prison, he did not correct it, and he beat his father all day long.
So a good family atmosphere, then must be composed of good family members.
epilogue
Home is the harbor of our soul, the bond of family affection, the wandering dependence, there is a small family to have everyone, a healthy family must have a harmonious, industrious, thrifty, kind atmosphere, so these family atmospheres do you have in your family?