The growth of children, as well as the development of the day after tomorrow, are closely related to the family's parenting style and parents' education guidance. Children grow up to be greatly influenced by their families. If there is no warm atmosphere in the home, their life will be particularly unsatisfactory.
Sometimes, the frustration and depression shown by parents will make children feel, which will affect their minds, may make them unable to concentrate on learning, and affect academic performance. It is difficult for children to achieve great things in the future. Parents need to give patient guidance to their children's growth stages, guide their children to the right path in life, and let their children achieve great achievements in the future.
For children, family is the best place for them to grow up, and mom and dad are the teachers in their lives. Therefore, regarding the future development of children, parents and families play a vital role, but the role of parents is not only to earn more money, but also to provide good material conditions for children. These parents, no matter how rich they are, cannot raise children who have a career. Family atmosphere is important.
First, these parents cannot raise children, especially the third
1. Hit the child and punish the child
Some parents believe that "filial piety is born under a stick", so they strictly control their children from an early age. Moderate strictness is conducive to children's progress, but there are also some parents who are indiscriminate and blindly pressuring to set high standards for their children. Once the child does not meet the standard, the parent will scold the child.
Children who make small mistakes in life are also scolded and punished. Children who have been condemned by their parents for a long time will become inferior and insecure. If Mom and Dad don't correct it, it will also affect the parent-child relationship.
2. Blindly praise the child
In order for their children to learn better, parents often encourage their children with rewards and praise. In fact, parents will generally encourage their children appropriately, which can make children motivated.
However, some parents do not understand this truth. They always blindly praise the child, let the child soak in the honeypot for a long time, and feel that the world is always beautiful. When faced with difficulties and twists and turns, they will be overwhelmed and unable to withstand the shock. Therefore, parents should know what they are doing, properly blame their children's mistakes, and let their children know the dangers of society.
3. Cold children
Many children are born with the expectations of their parents, so they struggle and work hard every day, only looking forward to their parents' approval. However, some parents believe that children should do these things, which is something they must experience at their age. Praising children will only make children proud, so no matter what they do, some parents will turn a blind eye and take a mood of indifference.
However, in fact, children will be more confident when they bear the punctuality of their parents. If parents are always indifferent to their children's best efforts, the children will become more and more depressed and less motivated.
Moms and Dad can't ignore their children's growth, but there are many children who are selfish, rude, and tantrum-throwing. Mom and Dad see these bad habits of their children and can't help but want to strictly control their children. In fact, when the child is 3-6 years old, parents can buy more picture books for the child's emotional management, let the child read more such books, rather than let the child play mobile phone all day, perhaps watch cartoons.
I bought a set of "Children's Emotional Management Picture Book" for my baby. Watch it often with your child. Children have questions, I will give them answers in time, timely guidance, so that they gradually understand the truth, develop good behavior habits.
There are 10 books in this set, each of which has a story that teaches children how to be polite, not to lie, to share, not to be selfish, and to cultivate children to develop good character and qualities. The theme in the book is very typical, and the children will be interested in the pictures of small animals, so that they can learn a lot of knowledge that they need to use in life from small animals with positive energy.
The teaching of parents and mothers can not only strengthen the parent-child relationship, but also effectively educate children, which is much more useful than parents just preaching. Parents can accompany their children for a period of time, but not for a lifetime, but hope that parents can give their children the care and understanding they deserve in limited companionship.
The power of the family cannot be underestimated, and the psychology of children formed from an early age will accompany them for a lifetime. Whether a child can grow up healthy and happy and become a progressive person depends on what kind of family environment they live in from childhood and what kind of parents they have. I hope that every parent can carefully take care of the seedlings and create a good environment for the healthy and happy growth of children.