For the matter of who takes their children to sleep at night, it is the most troublesome problem for many parents. Because many parents are busy at work now, sometimes they will work overtime, and there is no way to sleep with their children. Therefore, many families will let their children sleep with the elderly, but in fact, the elderly are not suitable for sleeping with their children, and many parents are not clear about the reason.
Xiaoxue and her husband have been busy at work recently, and there is no way to sleep with the child, and the child cannot leave the person when he sleeps at night, so he can only let the elderly at home sleep with the child. Originally, I thought that everyone who slept with the child was the same, but Xiaoxue found that this was not the case at all. Because recently she found that children will be sleepy every day, especially when they are in kindergarten, teachers often reflect that children often doze off in kindergartens.
Xiaoxue felt that the child was too tired of playing in the recent period, so he told the elderly at home to let the child go to bed early every day. But even if the child goes to bed earlier, he will still start dozing during the day, and in the kindergarten, even if he will take a nap, he will still start to get sleepy in the afternoon. For this situation, Xiaoxue has never found the cause, but she knows that once when she was resting at home, she finally found the reason for the child's sleepiness.
Day and night the child insisted on sleeping with the old man, Xiaoxue had to agree, but at night, the old man felt less, and often got up at night to go to the toilet, every time he got up at night, Xiaoxue would hear the sound of the child turning over. It turns out that the elderly get up at night is louder and more frequent, resulting in children being disturbed every night, so there will be lack of sleep.
After realizing the problem, Xiaoxue immediately prepared a room for the child alone, and no longer let the old man sleep with the child. In this way, the child's sleep is gradually adjusted, and there will be no more drowsiness during the day.
Many parents think that the elderly sleep with their children is a way to help themselves with their babies, so that children will feel more secure at night, and they do not have to worry about themselves. But in fact, it is not scientific for the elderly to sleep with their children, and it is not recommended that parents do so.
Why can't the old man sleep with his baby?
I have to admit that today's young parents are very busy, they can only put all their energy into work, they simply have no way to spend time with their children. If there is time for them, it is only after they leave work.
Therefore, young parents should be encouraged to invest their time in their children after work, which means that they can sleep with their children. If it is said that the elderly sleep with their children every night, then it is likely to cause the distance between parents and children to become more and more distant, and the children cannot feel the love of their parents, so the relationship between them will become bad.
It should be known that after children reach the age of five or six, they will sleep in separate beds with their parents, so when they have not been separated before the age of five or six, sleeping with their parents can enhance their feelings. In this way, there will be no estrangement between the child and the parents, and the child is willing to tell the parents if there is anything.
At the same time, when children are young, their physical fitness is relatively poor, so their immunity will be very weak. If the elderly are always allowed to take the child, then the child will more or less appear some diseases, after all, the old man's body is with more germs, which will lead to the child's situation become very passive.
At the same time, the elderly are not so delicate when taking care of children, so they simply do not have the means to understand the needs of children. Children are also likely to become unstable while sleeping, so the risk factor will increase linearly.
What are the other reasons? In fact, in addition to the above two reasons, there are other reasons for existence. That is, the sleep time of children is not the same as that of the elderly, and children are often sleepy around 9 pm, so they want to go to sleep faster.
The elderly are different, once people are old, their sleep quality will be greatly reduced, so by about 11 o'clock in the evening, they are not willing to sleep, and they get up relatively early, so it is easy to affect the quality of the child's sleep, and even break the child's sleep law.
This is also the reason why children should not sleep with the elderly, after all, children need enough sleep to be able to make their bodies healthier.
Another point is that the elderly may spoil their children excessively, if the children can not sleep, then the elderly will tell the children stories or intimately accompany the children. This is definitely not a good thing for children, because if children can always find a sense of security in the elderly, it is not conducive to them sleeping independently in the future. So try not to let the elderly sleep with children as much as possible, which is of great help to children. The elderly should sometimes take a back seat, they just need to protect the child silently, there is no need to do it themselves.