These bad habits, children are particularly easy to imitate you, parents should pay attention

As the saying goes, children are a mirror for parents! Not to mention the horror of the original family, just from the impact of parents' behavior habits on children, it must be paid enough attention by parents! Because one day you may suddenly be depressed about "how can my children have this bad habit", but find that this habit is "taught" to your child unconsciously. Following these bad habits, children are particularly prone to imitate parents!

1. Lie in front of your child

In the adult world, there are inevitably lies. However, some parents pass on this "skill" to their children when they are still young. For example, if you don't want to attend a party, you call back in front of your child, you say you are working overtime, you are sick... There are also parents who promise their children that things can never be done, which is also a lie for children!

When a child grows up in such an environment, he will feel that lying is not wrong, and he will even begin to learn to lie. At the same time, he will also be puzzled by the parents' approach and have a bias in understanding.

We must cherish the trust of the child, especially do not perfunctory the child, and promise the child that things must be done. In addition, whether the child is present or not, be a person with integrity.

2. It is impolite to get along with people

To better base yourself in society, learning to communicate and communicate is a must. Among them, politeness will add a lot of points to communication. However, some parents do not have such a good habit of getting along with people or getting help when they are polite.

Whether it is interpersonal relationships, or academics and careers, impoliteness will become a stumbling block. Therefore, parents should examine their own words and deeds and be a civilized and polite person.

3, do things procrastination

There are also many parents who are "late in procrastination", usually procrastinating when they do things themselves, and have no concept of time. For example, when you ask a friend to a party, you are half an hour late; you plan to go to work, but you don't go out. Such behavior is easy for children to have no concept of time, and do not have a correct understanding of bad habits such as not being punctual and late, so that they are prone to similar problems in the future and become a person who is not punctual.

Therefore, it is necessary to instill a correct view of time in children from an early age, so that they can understand the meaning and importance of time! Usually do things, the things that are planned must also be carried out according to the plan, and completed in strict accordance with the prescribed time.

In addition to the above bad habits, often take the baby to watch TV series, play computers, vent various dissatisfactions in front of the child, do not abide by traffic rules, often lose temper, do not love sports, etc., children will imitate invisibly.

Parents are the child's first teacher, but also the person who has the most contact with the child, the parents' words and deeds, the impact on the child is far-reaching!

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