Regarding marriage, each of us has to put ourselves in the right place. Some girls hope that their mother-in-law can treat themselves as daughters, and there are always some mothers-in-law who hope that their daughter-in-law can treat themselves as mothers, and to be honest, both of these ideas are unrealistic. No matter how good the relationship between the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law is, it is always not a mother and daughter, the daughter can be unscrupulous in front of the mother, and the daughter-in-law may leave a handle in front of the mother-in-law if she is not careful, which is a fact that cannot be changed. For most families, this reality needs to be confronted properly.
When there is no hope, there is no disappointment, but if there is always a high hope, then disappointment will follow. All we can do is make ourselves better for each other, but we can't control each other's behavior.
When Wang Fang first got married, her mother told him that he must treat his mother-in-law well. Speaking of Wang Fang's mother-in-law, this is also a person with a hard life, her husband died early, and her mother-in-law grew up alone with two children. Wang Fang also has a sister-in-law, who has just gotten married.
Because her mother-in-law had to work the night shift at night, Wang Fang got up early to cook. By the time her mother-in-law got up, Wang Fang had already brought breakfast to the table.
Many neighbors next to me envied that the mother-in-law had such a daughter-in-law who knew cold and hot, but the mother-in-law said that young people should get up early, and when we first got married, even the mother-in-law's urinal had to be served.
Whenever it comes to the New Year's Festival, Wang Fang will buy clothes for her mother-in-law, but her mother-in-law always dislikes Wang Fang for spending money indiscriminately. Especially when Wang Fang bought expensive cosmetics, her mother-in-law was even more unaccustomed. He even told Wang Fang several times that money should be saved and it was too difficult to make money, but Wang Fang did not think so. In this regard, the mother-in-law always made various accusations against Wang Fang.
After the sister-in-law got married, she rarely came back. Even if I came back once in a while, I had a hurried meal and left, but when I talked about my daughter, my mother-in-law always danced with her eyebrows. He told others that my daughter bought me nutritional supplements, bought clothes, etc., and always showed her sense of superiority.
Listening to her mother-in-law say this, Wang Fang thought that she bought a lot for her mother-in-law, but why did her mother-in-law always pick her nose and eyes, and she couldn't help but feel uneven in her heart.
On this day, the mother-in-law counted Wang Fang's mistakes again, and also compared Wang Fang with her sister-in-law, so that Wang Fang and her sister-in-law could learn. Wang Fang went to work for a day, was already very tired, and did not want to listen to her mother-in-law's big reasoning, so she said to her mother-in-law with resentment: "Serving every day is always better than the daughter who comes to see her once in a while." ”
After listening to the daughter-in-law's complaints, the mother-in-law said disapprovingly: "That's because I have a good education, so now I want to start educating you." After listening to her mother-in-law say this, Wang Fang couldn't help but laugh. I couldn't help but reply: "Are you going to lie in your hospital bed and educate me?" ”
By implication, your health is getting worse and worse, it is better to learn to go with the flow. Lying in the hospital bed in the future, you still need my service, but you can't go too far, after listening to this sentence, the mother-in-law did not respond again.
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should learn to respect and love each other, not mother and daughter themselves, there is no need to let each other develop in the direction of mother and daughter, encounter problems, take a step back from each other, in order to open the sea and the sky. Especially the mother-in-law, as far as possible to do a good example, do not let the younger generations be wronged, after all, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is harmonious, and life will be happier.