Jia Pingwa's "Temporary Sitting" is too fierce, look at this golden sentence: "Don't say I love you, you love me, we are just hungry." In a word, the relationship between the sexes is the relationship between all sentient beings.
Isn't this sentence heart-burning? Or grounded. A very raw sentence, but very realistic, a look is the person who came over.
In fact, for marriage and love, sometimes men and women live very realistically, and many times they just take what they need. After the love landed, the more intense, between each other, enthusiastically interpreted the chapter of love and desire.
After the husband and wife worked hard in the besieged city for many years, the love was weak, the affection was strong, and the enthusiasm and passion that had once been corroded in chai rice oil and salt were almost corroded. If it weren't for the responsibility, I don't know how many men and women would go out for a walk. Besides, this society is too noisy, too impetuous, and there are too many temptations in all aspects.
When the marriage is tired, the love affair Microsoft, the room, the thing Microsoft, the outside scenery is more dazzling. Fools, horses and sheep, out of the city, lying on the wall waiting for red apricots, looking for lovers, playing ambiguous.
Emotional beings, all kinds of things, random flowers gradually want to charm the eyes, asakusa can also have no horseshoe.
Adult men and women, there is some kind of lack in marriage before they take the train of derailment. Or the lack of emotion, or the lack of physicality, marriage has a hole, generally do not check the leaks, but go out of the bowl to find food to fill the hole.
There are too many times, infatuated women, always drunk by men's sweet words, lost eyes, lost minds. Women who are lovers to others are mostly stupid and stupid, always think that they have found true love outside of marriage, and always fall with all their hearts and minds, unable to extricate themselves. For the sake of the lover outside the marriage, he did not hesitate to snub his own man and child, or the moth put out the fire, and there was no remorse.
When the woman sinks deeper and deeper, constantly controlling possession and entanglement, when the woman fantasizes about playing a long-lasting dream with her lover. At this time the man felt the pressure, and he began to slowly withdraw. So, women will have emotional lovers changed, not as active and enthusiastic as at the beginning.
When passion is exhausted day by day, lovers, as between husband and wife, will turn into a new kind of flatness.
And this kind of blandness is vulnerable. Why is the relationship between lovers generally not long-lasting? There is no suitable landing platform for one party, nor a name, and it has been hiding behind the sun as a stowaway.
Love is sometimes worthless in the face of interests.
In Jia Pingwa's new book "Temporary Sitting", this point of view is described vividly. The book describes the twelve great beauties who can be called the Twelve Nobles of Jinling. Led by Hai Ruo, they gathered in the "temporary seat" tea house. These women come from all walks of life, the only thing in common is that they are single, although there are divorced, there are foreigners, and there are homosexuals, but they are all here for their own interests, get together, and discuss the topic of interest relations.
Everyone looks bright and bright and lives a delicate life. They use their connections to sit in "temporary seats" in tea houses for their own benefit. The only male protagonist in the temporary seat is a writer and calligrapher, and some people say that Jia Pingwa has substituted himself into the book, and his identity and knowledge are almost the same.
He has ambiguous feelings with every woman, but he only possesses foreign beauties, but he is still ambiguous with other beauties. This also corresponds to Jia Pingwa's words, all are eating men and women, no one should laugh at anyone, we are all hungry.
Jia Pingwa said: "Beautiful women's exquisite handbags, stuffed with toilet paper, do not dare to enter the bathhouse, gorgeous coats may be cheap underwear, high heels do not dare to take off, inside the socks may be punctured by the toes a few holes." The more people who are not artists, the more they act like artists, just like the people who have no money, the more they have to be like rich lords. Money really doesn't represent everything, but it's still a proof of value. The reason why these seemingly exquisite women live so tired is that they are still afraid of being looked down upon by others. ”
These women not only live in the work "Temporary Sitting", in fact, in real life, such women are also everywhere. They dressed themselves up as bright-looking, tasteful, and delicate women. However, deep inside them, there is something missing. The more they pretend, the less they look like. Because they are eager, so they have to pretend.
Women who can pretend want to have a happy life, but the delicacy of pretending cannot hide the emptiness and loneliness in their hearts. In order to get the life you want, you will not hesitate to sell your body and personality in exchange for profit. Life is never superficial, only superficial people can't understand human nature.
Life is like a temporary sitting, whether you are brilliant or humble, life is just a journey. Where are you when the song finally breaks up? Where am I again?
Jia Pingwo understands women and can also write women, and this "Temporary Sitting", he prepared for two years, handwritten 320,000 words, revised 4 times, sharp and bold, compared to the controversial "Waste Capital".
If you want to see the psychology of women clearly, want to understand the world's cold state, the world's life, it is really a pity not to watch "Temporary Sitting".
This book directly hits human nature, undisguised is Jia Pingwa's consistent style, this book was a hot seller as soon as it came out, I am afraid it is inseparable from his sharp style.
In fact, everyone's life is a temporary seat, are the passers-by of the river of human growth, want to live not confused, look at "Temporary Sitting", let you find a harbor where you can shelter from the wind, or look at the uncut version of "Waste Capital", experience the tricks of the love field master.
When you read "Temporary Sitting", don't be blinded by the superficial phenomena of materialism in the book, and you can't just look at the unsightly carnal desires and rebellions described in the book. This is a microcosm of society: single rich women, small white-collar workers, operators, and small people in the city seem to be immersed in a sea of wandering desires, which are mixed with countless trading transactions, male and female delusions, and they are all written by Jia Pingwo's pen.
As soon as "Temporary Sitting" was released, in just three months, it won the annual sales championship of novels, and also won the "Monthly Good Book List" for many consecutive times, and also won the title of "Best Novel of the Year".
People's life is very short, and the things that seem to be very concerned are actually not important, the so-called life does not bring death and does not bring.
I have watched "Temporary Sitting" many times, and every time I watch it, I will have a different feeling. When I first watched it, my heart did beat faster; when I looked at it again, I saw the depths of the women's hearts; after reading it a few more times, I felt as if I was in the book.
If you think about it, life is only a few decades, it is just a "temporary sitting", when you are confused, you can follow the original intention.