Male and female love is what you and I will experience most of the way in life. Although commonplace, the two simple words of love always exude a magical and different magic, attracting people closer, but when you get closer, it will swallow you up, fall into it, unable to extricate yourself, and often end up with sadness and regret.
Love should be pure, should not be mixed with impurities, but love in life is often related to monetary interests, for example, when men have no money, they are willing to live with you, but when they have money, they often change their hearts and fall in love with other women.
What kind of women do rich men like? Jia Pingwa replied in "Temporary Sitting", and his words were broken.
The book "Temporary Sitting" is not complicated, but it tells a story between a man and twelve women, and the main place where the story takes place is in the tea house, the tea house opened by the heroine Hai Ruo. During this period, there was love and hate, greed and selfishness, open strife and secret struggle, and the desires of ordinary people, all of which were written by Jia Pingwa.
But for the topic of this article, Jia Pingwo gave a sober but unique answer.
It turns out that the women that rich men like are often of this type.
In "Temporary Sitting", Jia Pingwo portrayed a unique woman who was different from those sisters, named Xin Qi.
Those women, almost all have a good family background, born rich, and only Xin Qi is from the countryside, the family is cold, she is afraid of being disliked and despised by the people around her, and she hates this identity, and does not dare to tell others; she spends most of her salary on her own dress, and must let outsiders see that she is a city person.
Xin Qi wanted to succeed, but she didn't have the capital, and perhaps, the body was her only capital.
For a long time, she tried to dress not to please herself, but to please others and live for others to see.
She craves success, she craves money. So she met her current husband.
The husband is an authentic city man, although this satisfies Xin Qi's beautiful fantasy of the city people, but this fantasy is fleeting. The husband is a civil servant, the salary is pitifully small, and the desire for money and worldliness is quietly born after marriage. In her opinion, only money can satisfy anything.
So, Xin Qi met another man.
The man was a wealthy businessman with a troubled family.
At this time, Xin Qi has been occupied by a strong vanity in the brain, knowing that the rich merchant already has a family, but he also wants to divorce quickly, and immediately rushes to the rich businessman.
Does the Rich Chamber like her? After the divorce, can the hard rise get the wish?
The answer, of course, is no. Rich people often don't like such women. It's okay to like it, but it won't be deeply loved.
Based on a momentary sense of freshness, the rich merchants bought many brand-name clothes and bags and shoes for Xin Qi, and when the passion faded, the rich merchants quickly disappeared into the world of Xin Qi. There was a lonely Xin Qi left, and his face was dazed.
Xin Qi is undoubtedly a vain and sad woman in Jia Ping's pen.
She is mistaken in trying to use her beauty to conquer the rich merchants, but she underestimates reality and human nature, and eventually can only be abandoned.
For a woman like Xin Qi, in real life, there are too many. They think that beauty can be exchanged for the true love of rich people, but they do not know that rich people are really smart, they know that such love is just a play, exchanging benefits, taking what they need, when the passion fades, naturally and quickly leaves, and they will leave a sum of money that they think is deeply loved by such women.
After the joy, they returned to their original wives, with no family discord and no loss of too much money.
Really rich men, they are often very sober, covetous of the appearance of beautiful women, but also know that this woman is useless in addition to beauty, and will not bring any other help to themselves; really rich men, often like a little posture but the right woman, appreciate the talented professional women, so that they can not only meet the fantasy of love, but also give help in the reality of life. If the door is not right, even if you marry into her family, when your posture is tired, you will eventually be snubbed and excluded by his family.
Thinking and three views are not at one level, how can we talk about love?
The beautiful woman, but only brought them a moment of pleasure, and after a moment, it was gone.
For this point, Jia Pingwa's insight is very sober and unique, and he speaks through human nature. He created such a female character, just to warn women in real life, do not have unrealistic fantasies, do not try to use beauty to conquer men, the true love of rich people is often weighed against the pros and cons, they have money but not stupid, if you believe, you will lose. They tend to like women who are both talented and good-looking, have independent personalities, and have the ability to work as officers.
Female friends, if you want to succeed, you have to rely on yourself, if you don't have the ability, you can only win for a while by relying on beauty, you can't win a lifetime, and it is precisely the love of that moment, can it be true love? You know, love with only money and interests is doomed to last.
Although Jia Pingwo is a male writer, he has written through the women of the world, this "Temporary Sitting", as his last novel before the age of 70, has a flavor and true meaning, in which twelve women, clearly living together, are sisters, but have a completely different life! It will also bring inspiration to everyone of different ages and different circumstances.
"Everyone comes into the world, in fact, it is only a temporary sitting", since they will all die, why don't we broaden the breadth and depth of our lives in a limited life?
Rich men often like such women, Jia Pingwa's insights are sober and unique, and they are broken