Only being a sixty mother, the family is more harmonious

Qiaoqiao's birthday is coming! She has always had a wish in her heart, this birthday, she very much hopes to return to the feeling of love, and spend this different day alone with her husband. Because since having children, Qiaoqiao and her husband usually spend almost all other time in addition to work, so the time when the two are dating together seems to be out of reach.

That day, after coaxing the child to sleep, I happened to come into the room and mentioned the birthday date with my husband: Husband, my birthday is coming, I am thinking! Didn't the two of us go out alone that day to celebrate and then ask our mother to help us see the baby, you say okay?

After listening to Qiaoqiao's suggestion, my husband raised a question: What if my mother asked where we were going? To be honest? After her husband mentioned this, QiaoQiao suddenly felt that it was not a wise move to honestly tell her mother-in-law to go out to celebrate her birthday: or you told your mother that we had an appointment with friends and would go home after eating out.

On the day of Qiaoqiao's birthday, they really went out to eat as desired, in the restaurant with beautiful lights and good atmosphere, they enjoyed a date that they had not had for a long time, and they also talked about some things freely, but strangely, Qiaoqiao's heart did not have the pleasantness of imagination, in addition to the meal time has been worried about the children at home, the most important thing is that she also thinks that the in-laws will not be duty-oriented, not intimate, after work should have taken the children home to take care of, be a good mother, and should also let the in-laws who take care of the children all day rest, Be a good daughter-in-law, but now she eats out with her husband. A good birthday date, just under the battle between the heavens and the people in Qiaoqiao' heart, hurriedly finished the meal, and then went back to the in-laws' house to pick up the child. The next day, Qiaoqiao told his friend Xiaoshi about this matter, and Xiaoshi asked Qiaoqiao after listening to it: Since it is your long-awaited date, why can't you open your heart to play? Why do you have so many concerns in your heart?

Qiao Qiao then said in a serious tone: I think I should be a good mother, so I did not go back to take care of him after work, I feel guilty; and my in-laws have always felt that I am a good daughter-in-law, and I myself hope so, so I will try to move towards this goal. And this birthday outing, although it is a long-awaited thing, but after I really did it, I felt as if I had done something that was not what a good daughter-in-law and a good mother should do, so I was very unhappy!

Hearing Qiaoqiao's words, Xiao Shi suddenly felt that Qiaoqiao was carrying a big burden! So he said: Qiaoqiao, in fact, in my opinion, you play a very good role in any role, and you are a good wife, a good daughter-in-law, and a good mother, but in order to meet the meaning of others, everything is 100 points, how much sacrifice does it take to achieve it? And will it be too hard? Have you ever listened to your own inner voice? And what do you really want? It's just a birthday date once a year, it's not so serious, don't you even have to sacrifice this little wish?

Xiao Shi's words made Qiao Qiao think repeatedly later, what conflict points did she have between her role and her inner self? And when a conflict point occurs, should she let go of her inner self-expectations, or should she put role-playing aside for the time being? When she was a sixty-year-old mother, she told her husband about the conflict points in her heart, only to see him smile and say: In fact, occasionally, harmless things, you should do it according to your own inner expectations! Unless it is really a time when you can't choose between the two, then choose a compromise plan, both sides can take care of it, so don't you get it?

With the support of her husband, QiaoQiao suddenly became enlightened, and she remembered that she had watched a talk show before, a famous woman in the enterprise, and also mentioned in an interview: When I started sprinting at work, I knew that I couldn't do both well at home and work, so I later changed my mentality, at home, I only asked myself to do 60 points. Yes, Qiao Qiao used to be too neglectful of her own needs, so she had a hard time playing a 100-point role, and perhaps, now is the time for her to change!

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