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In real life, many couples when talking about divorce, the first thing to consider is the problem of children, when two people live separately and find the other half again, the child will undoubtedly have a stepfather or stepmother.
In everyone's impression, when facing children who are not related to themselves, the attitude of stepfathers and stepmothers is relatively cold, and it is very rare to be able to regard children as their own.
But not long ago, a father in Lianyungang, Jiangsu Province, took his stepson like his own son, which triggered many netizens to watch and like.
The stepfather coaxed the sick child not to let go, and the warm scene provoked the crying mother: Few people can do this
In the picture, the man holding the boy back and forth and gently slapping the boy's back is a baby father.
But unlike many families, the boy in his arms was not his own child, but a child brought by the woman after marrying his wife.
It is understood that Bao Mom is married for the second time, and after marrying her current husband, the two do not have their own children, and the husband treats his stepson as his own son, considers everything comprehensively, and is very loving and patient with his children.
In the early morning of this night, the child suddenly had a little fever, and when the mother woke up, she found that her husband was walking back and forth in the room with her son in her arms, and the footsteps were very light and the movements were very gentle.
This scene made Bao Mom very moved, he said that in fact, her son is an ordinary fever, experience told her that this is not serious, but the husband did not sleep soundly, seeing that the child is uncomfortable, he immediately got up and held him in his arms and coaxed.
Seeing that her husband hugged for a long time, Bao Mom said to change her hands and hold the child herself, but at this time, her husband shook her head and said that she could insist, and also let Bao Mom continue to sleep, everything was left to herself.
Her husband's actions made Bao Ma's eyes moist, and she said that there are few fathers and sons who are not related by blood, and few people can do what their husbands do.
From the photos posted by Bao Ma, we can see that the relationship between the stepfather and son is usually very good.
Many netizens were deeply moved after reading it, and originally thought that remarried families were a very big harm to their children, but in fact, if they found the right person, children can get a sense of happiness.
Conversely, some biological fathers or mothers are less patient and loving to their children than their step-parents.
Netizen Comments:
"This stepfather is a very kind person at first glance, and I hope that the couple can continue to be so good to their son after having their own children."
"Many parents are afraid that their divorce will hurt their children, in fact, the second marriage is not as bad as imagined, if you find the right person, it will be more conducive to the growth of the child than the irresponsible biological parents."
It can only be said that Bao Mom is very lucky and met a good husband in the second marriage, but few stepfathers can do this in real life, which is why many couples are reluctant to divorce for the sake of their children."
"In order to let his wife sleep well, the stepfather coaxed the sick child in the early morning, and he could only say that the husband loved his wife very much, and he loved Wu and Wu."
The happy family model is more conducive to the growth of children
In the parent-child relationship, blood occupies a very important factor, and it is precisely because of the blood relationship that parents and children will rely on each other and endure each other.
Although blood relations are important, in the process of children's growth, the happy family mode will have a greater impact on children.
If the child lives in a family environment where his parents often quarrel, he will not only be insecure, but also disgusted with life, full of negative energy and complaints about his parents.
On the contrary, when children live in a family environment where parents love each other, even if they are not related to each other by blood, they will be slowly infected by this harmonious and happy life atmosphere, and then their personalities will become cheerful, and there will be a lot of positive energy in life.
Xuan Dad has something to say
Whether it is a native family or a divorced family, as a parent, we need to have more tolerance and understanding between each other, and husband and wife respect and love each other is the best environment for children to grow.
Would you stick to marriage for the sake of your children? Do you have a stepfather or stepmother who is nice to your child? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area!
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