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Recently, Qiu Ze was actually married!
When this news jumped out, it was once thought to be false, and let the assistants confirm it repeatedly. It doesn't matter if you don't know, I'm not so familiar with it.
After all, they didn't see much love information, and suddenly the official announcement was marriage.
Carefully flip through their love timeline, there are really traces to follow.
First I was photographed having a meal, and then when I presented the award this year, I said bluntly, "Thank you to my heroine Xu Weining."
When I saw that some netizens combed the love timeline of two people, there were many familiar male and female stars.
And I still think that the girl who rejected Qiu Ze before is the most sassy!
02
This interview was dug up again because of the news of the official announcement of the marriage.
The content is what Zhang Junning said in response to Qiu Ze's pursuit.
She said thank you for raising love.
Asked again about Qiu Ze, Zhang Junning said that he and Qiu Ze met at work, and he was still very happy to hear him say that he was pursuing, believing that any girl was happy when she was pursued, and said that she did not have many people to pursue.
It's just that the two people don't have any more exchanges and developments now.
She responds with a very high emotional intelligence and generously takes care of everyone's feelings. There was no negative evaluation of Qiu Ze because netizens shouted away from the scumbag in unison, giving enough male aspects, and when they said their current situation, they were also low posture.
I think it's very happy to be pursued by "scumbags".
Not all girls have the courage to say such a thing, and not all girls can respond with such a decent and graceful response with extreme emotional intelligence.
I think Zhang Junning lives very freely.
I think her response, her statement, is not to stay away from the "scumbag", did not reject people thousands of miles away, not so indignant as netizens,
To tell the truth, she would not be with Tang Yan for such a simple reason.
Zhang Junning's response was calm and determined.
To tell the truth, I think she can choose Qiu Ze, or not, just because she is a goddess, in fact, she is not as indignant as the melon-eating masses, black and white.
The advantage of the goddess is that even if she can explicitly reject a big handsome guy, even if she actually has the courage to love a so-called "scumbag".
Because the goddess has a complete and independent world of the goddess herself.
I think that's real confidence and freedom.
03
The world is actually very interesting.
Remember ali's annual salary of 1.7 million men before the marriage sticker.
Because it seems that no matter what you say, you will be labeled with either worshiping gold, or feminism, or selfishness, or too sour, and it seems to be wrong to say anything anyway, as long as you don't want to marry this 1.7 million Ali man, you have to be labeled with these labels.
This public opinion war is quite interesting.
There are girls less than 25 years old, secretly comparing the marriage conditions of Ali men with an annual salary of 1.7 million, comparing them one by one, to see which aspects of themselves are still insufficient, one by one, so that they can successfully marry at the best age and the so-called most "bargaining power".
There are also 30+ girls who look at the conditions of Ali men, do not praise or step on, but do not feel that they are the ideal marriage partner.
In fact, Ali boy conditions are good, although the annual salary is not known in the future, but at least in the good years of the Internet is very favorable, his request may not be so unacceptable.
At least he considered everything about real life very practically, from who raised the family and who took care of the children, how to support the elderly and how to distribute the property.
How to say it, for some people life is about the material, about everything about chai rice oil and salt, and for Ali Nan hopes to find, a large part of the only daughters of Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai with good family backgrounds, everything in real life is fine, there is no need to face such a bitter vendetta, then his clear division of labor and distribution, it seems a little blunt and boring.
I can especially understand that some girls have commented that they do not think that Ali Man is a high-quality marriage partner, not because he is a phoenix man, but the material and practical things he provides in marriage, he already has it, and what he wants in marriage is something else.
04
Some people think that the top match of the marriage partner seems to others to be insignificant, while some people dismiss what they think is ordinary, and others seem to be hard to buy.
Zhang Junning can laugh and say to the indignant "scumbag" of all netizens, it is very happy to be pursued by you. Being photographed swimming in the river late at night actually shows that they do have a personal relationship. She can choose Qiu Ze, of course, or not.
Many jiangsu, Zhejiang, and Shanghai only daughters looked at ali male marriage stickers and said, I don't care about the annual salary and the house, but you don't write what hobbies you have, whether you love sports, whether you are sunny and healthy, whether you can still talk about international economic politics, and whether you can listen to a symphony together.
As for the annual salary, you can also get 1.7 million, 200,000 or 300,000. That's not my focus.
So, finally, it's time.
I found that many of the excellent girls around me were calm.
They do not need to marry the recognized affordable male of the seven aunts and eight aunts, do not need to deliberate on the age of the most "bargaining power" to negotiate a "good deal", and do not need to feel that ali men with an annual salary of 1.7 million are rare high-quality marriage partners.
Even in their mouths, they can't hear the "scumbag".
There is no "scumbag" who must be kept away, there is no rich and handsome who has to be approached, this is a very precious freedom.
05
In the seven aunts and eight aunts bitterly give you the advantages of counting the blind dates one by one, or the female elders tell you that there is no good man in everything, you want to marry a bully, they must be dull, you want to marry a rich person, they must spend their hearts, you want to marry an artist, they are definitely not grounded,
I read didi's book, she said,
"One afternoon in the summer, I was taking a nap in the lounge of Columbia University, and a Chinese student who seemed to have just finished playing football and had knee pads strapped to his legs sat at the piano and thought about it, and played a song called "Kikujiro's Summer" with his hands.
They also have talking eyes, and pretty biceps. ”
You see, there's something on the wedding post that's not mentioned at all.
I think this era is really good, whether it is Zhang Junning said to be pursued by you, I am very happy or good, Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai only daughter said that ali men with an annual salary of 1.7 million yuan are not the ideal marriage partner, or 25 years old want to marry early, think that there is the best "bargaining power" is good,
Girls' values are becoming more and more diverse, and they are living more and more freely.
And this premise is that you have to believe that there is your ideal life in this world, and then you have to have the right and ability to choose to live such a life.
With you guys.
Author: Sun Qingyue: Best-selling author. Public number: big world and small people
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Xiao Yu said:
I'm really tired this week... Tomorrow will be sent the original, very busy very busy double twelve is over!
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