The son went to elementary school and fell in love early, and the father knew that the method of dealing with it was worth learning

At noon, I was eating, and my mobile phone suddenly remembered that it was my son's class teacher who called, and I felt nervous.

The son goes to a private school, eats and lives in school five days a week, and the son is usually more sensible, not a particularly naughty kind. In addition to the child's physical discomfort usually nothing teacher will not call, today's big noon call, what can be done, even if there is something should not be a big deal, in short, the big noon teacher will not be called to praise the son.... Without much time to think about it, he quickly dropped the food and chopsticks that had just been delivered to the corner of his mouth, and ran to a secluded place where no one was while answering the phone.

The phone was connected, I tried my best to greet the teacher warmly first, and then I listened carefully, and the teacher's crackling voice came from the other end of the microphone: "There is something to tell you, Xiaoyu students like Wenwen, and wrote notes to Wenwen several times, Wenwen rejected him, and then Wenwen sued me about this." I am worried about the impact on learning, I have already talked to the two of them separately, this matter hopes to attract the attention of parents, there is a chance for you to talk to your children alone...", the teacher quickly hung up the phone.

When things came suddenly, I was a little overwhelmed for a moment. I have been worried about my son's early love problem, no wonder my son's midterm results have suddenly fallen out of ten, it seems that he should not be able to hide, and the midterm exam results must have been affected. The teacher said that this Wenwen student had a particularly good academic performance, and what impressed me the most was that when they went out on a study tour in the first grade, the class teacher sent us a photo, and in the photo, my son held the little girl's hand all the way and reminded us to remind the child appropriately. At that time, I thought that the child was still young and did not need to deliberately tell my son, I felt that the teacher was making a little fuss, and I was worried that it would hurt the child's self-esteem, and the time might pass after a long time. Unexpectedly, it was already the sixth grade, and my son really liked this little girl, and once he liked it, it was six years, and now people don't like him... There were all kinds of anxieties in his heart, both worried that his studies would be affected and that his self-esteem would be hurt. I try to keep myself calm, constantly comfort myself, no matter what, the child's early love at this age is also normal, or have to face it correctly, when I receive him at night, I must help him get out of this small setback and let his mentality return to normal.

Soon picked up my son, who usually talked to me about school as soon as he got in the car, but today he was unusually silent. "Son, have you had a good week?" I asked him.

"Hmm," my son replied to me nonchalantly with his nose.

"I heard you wrote a letter to Wenwen?" I said lightly.

"Well, it was the class teacher who sued you," the son replied nervously.

"Yes, the class teacher is also out of concern for you" I still lightly wrote, my son remained silent, but I could see that he was a little nervous, worried that I would "teach" him.

"Your courage can be ah, more powerful than dad was then, dad liked a female classmate, can only have a crush, do not dare to confess" I suddenly talked to him about my childhood, my son's mood suddenly improved.

"I thought you would criticize me," the son said with a relaxed expression on his face.

"It's normal to like female classmates, why should I criticize you?" I'm just curious, what's written on your note, can you tell Dad, I promise not to tell anyone "I started" him.

"Nothing, I wrote: If she doesn't like me in the future, I won't harass her anymore, so she threw it away without looking at it, and told the class teacher." The son obviously has a lot of grievances.

"You're right, but I don't understand, didn't she like you before, and why don't you like it now?" I continued to "routine" him.

My son was a little depressed and silent, and I accompanied him in silence as I drove.

"She thinks I'm doing a little poorly in my class right now, and I'm a little lazy in my studies..." My son finally told the truth.

"Dad understands, she thinks you're not good enough now. If you still don't behave well, she will hate you more and more" I started guiding him.

"Dad, what should I do?" The son's face was full of confusion.

"She used to like you because you were excellent and did well in your studies. You must now make yourself as good as before, raise your academic performance, and wenwen will definitely change her opinion of you. "I keep guiding.

"Dad, really?"

"Son, I promise, because I had the same childhood as you. When I had the same problem as you at that time, I had to solve it on my own. Now Dad can be your backer and help you solve this problem together" I stand with my son.

"With your IQ, if you work hard, the final exam will definitely be in the top ten like before, and then your mother and I will take you and your sister on a trip once" I drew a pie for my son.

"That said okay, Dad, I'm going to be in the top ten, and when the time comes, I'm going to go on a horseback ride on the prairie," the son was very excited.

"A gentleman is difficult to chase a horse with a word", I threw him an idiom by the way.

Soon I arrived home, watching my son come home as happy as ever, it seemed that his mood was completely normal, and I finally breathed a sigh of relief to myself.

In the days that followed, my son's performance was very good, and after the final exam at the end of the year, he entered the top ten as desired. While riding a horse on the prairie, I asked him, "Do you still like Wenwen?" The son said, "We are good friends now, and I'm going to surpass her," he said.

On the vast grassland, autumn is high and refreshing, and I suddenly feel that my son has grown up a lot.