In our lifetime, we will meet all kinds of people. Not all people deserve your kindness to him, and not everyone is worthy of your efforts.
Thousands of worlds, people come and go, and everyone appears with his mission. However, not all of the people we meet deserve our true treatment, and not all of them deserve our true feelings.
Between people, only after getting along, can they see each other's true face.
Therefore, the world is cold, human feelings are cold and warm, and you must learn to see others, who is worthy of deep friendship, who is worth staying away from, and do not be used by others.
Between people, no matter how good the relationship is, it also needs distance, help should be appropriate, the relationship should be appropriate, too much help, not necessarily a good thing, the relationship is too close, but there will be more contradictions.
After all, people who have to make insufficiency are greedy enough, you will not remember the grace if you help a hundred times, but if you don't help once, you will remember the hatred in your heart, and the past feelings will be written off.
Blindly being good to those who are not worthy will only make us tired in this relationship, and if we are enthusiastic about giving to the wrong person, we will appear humble, and the truth will be given to the wrong person, in exchange for only a cold heart again and again.
Being a person is really difficult, and being a good person is even more difficult! So your kindness must be a little sharp, otherwise your kindness will inevitably seem a little cheap.
Therefore, in the face of those who do not know how to be grateful, those who have to make progress, you need to put away your kindness and kindness in time.
People who are hypocritical and hypocritical often always want to get what they want in others, putting benefits in the most important position, but they have not really paid, or even put this friendship in their hearts.
For such people, friends are not friends who support each other, but tools that are directly abandoned after use.
A friendship, the most valuable thing is that each other know how to pay and cherish, any unilateral maintenance, often will not be too long, because that person will always feel tired in this relationship.
For such a person, your sincerity is destined to be a failure, so it is still as far away as possible!
The human heart can not look directly, nor can it see through, how much of the heart has been right, and later there is no heart to wait.
Only when a person encounters difficulties can he know who is a true friend, who is willing to wish you a helping hand, and who pretends not to care about himself.
When you are in trouble, those who stand by and are indifferent do not need to be gentle anymore.
The more people are in times of danger, the more they can see human nature and see through people's hearts.
Only after experiencing all kinds of human feelings and sophistication, the world is cold and warm, you will find out what people are worthy of our sincere treatment, who deserves our true feelings, and who needs to be kicked away.
For those who don't pay attention to you in life's difficulties, there is no need to contact you anymore, they are not worthy of your kindness.
Don't overestimate your relationship with anyone, and don't underestimate your ability to go it alone. The rest of your life is expensive, don't get tangled up in people and things that aren't worth it.
On the road of life, the more you experience, you will find that those who really care about you, when you are proud of the spring breeze, will not get too close, will not flatter, but when you encounter trouble, they will solve your worries and difficulties, and willingly help each other.
Life and people to interact, should first look at the character, and then look at the ability, the character is not good, the ability of the strong people, do not use, because the character is a person's life pass.
For the rest of your life, no longer be good to these people, it is not worth it, no matter how deep the friendship was, how good the feelings were.