Throughout the ages, people with great achievements will always be set as an example for future generations, and those who mix well can always be admired by tens of thousands of people.
People who live well always get better and better, and similarly, people who have a bad life get worse and worse. This situation is not providential and lucky, but depends more on the person's attitude towards life and the definition of life.
A person's state of mind often determines its state of life, and the state of life can naturally affect the person's performance in the world.
Strong and thoughtful inside
People with strong hearts will face misfortune bravely, they have firm beliefs, so even if the storm is coming, the dark clouds are still able to be fearless and calm.
In many cases, the reason why failure is a foregone conclusion is not that there is something wrong with the thing itself, but that there is a problem with the mentality of the person who handles the matter.
You have to understand that your life is never for others to see, stick to the original dream and stick to the heart to achieve something, we may not have the ability to change the reality, but we can always determine our own attitude.
Mr. Lin Yutang said: "Life is, sometimes laughing at others, sometimes laughing at others, if you live completely according to other people's standards, you will find that you don't know how to live, because no matter what you do, there are always people who are not satisfied." ”
People live, the most important thing is to manage oneself well, this road will inevitably encounter ups and downs and twists and turns, maintain a good attitude in order to easily overcome obstacles.
Huang Bo once said in an interview: "In the past, in the crew, I could always meet all kinds of people and all kinds of caution, but now (I have become famous), I am surrounded by good people, and every one of them is full of smiling faces." ”
When you are strong, the whole world will be kind to you.
He is low-key and self-contained
Guiguzi thinks: "An Xu Zhengjing, it is the first meat." Good and not quiet, humble and calm to be dumped. "It is said that only tranquility can a person go far, and only by maintaining stability can he not be swayed by the outside world.
Since ancient times, there has been a saying that "the gun shoots the first bird", if a person wants to succeed, he must know how to be a low-key person, the real strong man is always unfathomable, and he does not show anything in front of everyone but does not leak anything, which is the wisest low-key.
Low-key is not blindly forbearing, but a strategic and planned Taoguang to cultivate obscurity, people must know how to hide their clumsy when they are not strong enough or are not sure about something, and find the right time to strike before they can hit with one blow.
As the saying goes, there is a way of the way, and there are rules for the line. Being a human being is even more so, many things in the world cannot only look at the appearance, and the person who can see the essence through the appearance is the real capable person.
As the saying goes, people cannot be disguised, and the sea water cannot be measured. People who seem ordinary are not necessarily ordinary, they are likely to be just low-key.
The point of great wisdom and foolishness is not "wisdom" nor "foolishness" but a "if" word, not all disguises are hypocrisy, there is also a disguise that is wisdom.
The road of life is always not easy, honesty is just, and there is nothing wrong with putting on a protective color for yourself in order to live well.
No quarrel, no complaint, no entanglement
In fact, there is not much difference between humans and animals from a certain point of view, but the communication between animals is not civilized as a shell, and interpersonal relationships will always pay attention to face and politeness. Even though there are huge differences on the surface, we have to admit that everyone's inner direction is very similar.
We all know that when you encounter a vicious dog, you can't show fear and you can't run away, in fact, the same is true for dealing with a wicked person, many times the more you are afraid of something, the more things will develop in that bad direction. This contains not only luck, but also unconsciously hints and guidance.
Life is a huge mirror, and when you frown at it, it won't smile at you.
Those who can live better and better, always have an inevitable indifference on their faces, no matter what kind of injustice they encounter, they do not quarrel, complain or entangle, and after seeing the ugliness of the world, they are still calm and enthusiastic without diminishing, this is the "secret weapon" of those who can get out of the quagmire.
Nietzsche said, "If you fight with a dragon for too long, you will become a dragon yourself." Stare into the abyss for too long, and the abyss will stare back. ”
You must know that not all unfair things in this world can eventually get justice, and you must stay sober when encountering injustice, some things are meaningless to fight around, in addition to spending time and energy, you will also fall into a deeper abyss.
One thought of heaven and one thought of hell, some things are meaningless, and it is rare wisdom not to fight, not to complain, not to entangle.