It's not terrible to have no love in a marriage, it's scary to be lonely once love is gone; I've interviewed many women who have cheated on each other in marriage. They are not as natural as men, who are born to run back and forth within and outside the walls of marriage for sex and love.
In fact, for most Chinese women, they initially entered the marriage hall with the expectation of a good love life, and they did not think that they would go out to find other opposite sexes with this man in their own family, and their original intentions for marriage were loyal and focused, which was completely different from men.
Most of women's loss and infidelity of marriage is caused by the collision of marriage and love, and almost all women will feel that there is a world of difference between the days after marriage and the time of love.
There have been too many dreams about happiness and sweetness that have been scarred by the reality of marriage, they also from the ignorance of expectation to the recognition of reality, there is a huge gap in psychology, if the husband does not have enough time to accompany her or lack of positive friends at this time, this situation is a very dangerous signal for women's marriage - "loneliness in the heart" also arises. Loneliness is a marital test that almost all married women must face.
Behind every cheating woman there is a sad emotional experience, they fight for the purity of love, for the fidelity of marriage, but in the end they can not get around the "loneliness" that is more terrible than death.
They finally plucked up the courage to go out one day, not for the sake of being careful, just for someone to listen to someone to chat with you. So, those women who can't stand loneliness chat with strange men on the Internet, drink in bars to dispel their sorrows, go to the gym and dance to use another way to relieve their sorrows.
Chatting with male netizens online is one of the most willing ways for lonely women to take. Because of this state across the screen, there is nothing to guard against is a very relaxed state, the other party will not refuse from the beginning because of their appearance, and the content of the chat is mostly some passwords or words in the heart, without worrying about the embarrassment and shyness when meeting in reality. I admit that this approach satisfies psychological needs in some ways.
But almost none of the men who like to chat with women online are dry eaters, and they may initially be patient to listen to your boring things, most of them are drunk and not drunk, and the people on the other side of the phone are not interested in your things. Over time, if they don't get what they want, they will look for the next goal.
And women who use wine to dispel their sorrows are, by their very nature, a kind of rebellion, not what ordinary traditional women do, and to put it thoroughly, they go to such places with the purpose of hunting or revenge. The unspoken rules of the bar are self-evident, we all understand, the kind of place that magnifies human nature, the place that sends love to the brink of death, the place where we vent the injustice of the world, we should rationally treat buying drunk. For female compatriots, the loneliness brought about by marriage, I express helplessness, because this marriage is not forced by others, it is your own consent, so that you can get married.
The confusion of emotions and marriage, before you think clearly, remember not to easily step into the circle of losing yourself, otherwise your marriage is very dangerous, your love will die, your love will be terminated, and the soul will be hit. If you really want to be liberated in your marriage, I also suggest that you can choose a correct positive and realistic way to vent!
Author: Han Han love life
Disclaimer: Creative inspiration comes from Han Han's life