A mother-in-law said, what should I do to make my daughter-in-law happy

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Today, a big sister who watched the children in our community said that she would return to her hometown in a few days. This big sister is almost 60 years old this year, came to her son's house to take her grandson for 5 years, and now the child is in kindergarten, the big sister said that she originally thought of her grandson going to primary school, so she went back to her hometown. Why do you suddenly want to go back now?

This eldest sister is from a rural area in Henan, since the son has a child, she came to her son's house to help bring the grandson, and before she came to the son's house, the sister of this big sister told her to talk less, work more, and don't be nosy. Because the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not easy to get along, don't contradict your son because of trivial matters in life, so that your son is caught in the middle.

The eldest sister came to her son's house for more than 5 years, watching the children cook and do housework every day, it can be said that the housework is all covered, and she has never complained.

Every time we went downstairs to see the children together, at about 10:30 p.m., the eldest sister was ready to go upstairs to cook, because the daughter-in-law had to come home for dinner at noon. Every time, I made a meal and waited for my daughter-in-law to come back from work to eat. Dinner is also, when the son and daughter-in-law come back from work, dinner is ready. The children were ready to eat immediately when they got home. After the family finished eating, the eldest sister brushed the pots and bowls again, and all the liso was packed, and she went back to the house to sleep.

The eldest sister said that every day I feel busier than working for others in the countryside, although it is not hard work, but I am also tired and have back pain. The wife is alone in the countryside, has not been back in all these years, wants to be a wife, and occasionally the old two call each other to comfort each other. There was no way, for the sake of my son, I had to insist.

She hoped that her grandson would go to elementary school and be liberated. This big sister said that it is nothing to be tired in the past few years, and she has no retirement salary, and she also helps her children financially. However, this life is sullen and can't stand it.

Her daughter-in-law has a face every day, and as soon as you talk, your daughter-in-law doesn't like to listen, and the eldest sister says that you have to treat yourself as a mute every day. Since the daughter-in-law got married, she has not called out to her mother a few times. I have to look at my daughter-in-law's face every day to live a life, and I feel too tired.

Over the years, cooking is to cater to the taste of the daughter-in-law, sometimes the meal is not in line with the daughter-in-law's appetite, the daughter-in-law will not eat, just sit on the sofa to eat snacks...

Sometimes before the son comes home, he will call and ask what he is doing, and if he wants to eat, the two of them will come back to eat, and if they don't want to eat, they will eat outside.

The little grandson's meal must be cooked according to the recipe written by the daughter-in-law... Do you say that your heart can be happy?

Usually the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law rarely communicate, when the daughter-in-law is at home rest, in addition to playing mobile phones in the bedroom is watching TV in the living room, housework is never done, it is a hand-shaking treasurer. The eldest sister said that she was used to it.

A few days ago, the child's grandfather called to say that he was hospitalized, and the eldest sister said that her husband's health was not too good, and he had been hospitalized for physical reasons before. This time it may have recurred again, and now I am alone in the hospital, saying that I am a little worried and want to go back to see. But I was afraid that the child would not be seen, and my heart was always entangled.

This is not yesterday to go to the kindergarten to pick up the grandson from school, the little grandson inadvertently said a sentence, so that she did not want to stay at her son's house at all.

Because every day to pick up the little grandson after school, the children have to play in the community for a while before going home, yesterday the wind was particularly strong, the eldest sister said, today do not play, hurry home, the wind is too big.

Children, every time after school, like to stay in the community, do not want to go home, the eldest sister said several times the little grandson did not listen. Finally the little grandson said, you don't talk anymore, I don't want to listen, it's all nonsense. This eldest sister looked at the little grandson in surprise and said, how do you talk to grandma like this? The little grandson said that my mother often said that what you said was nonsense, and she did not want to listen to you.

Fairy tales are unscrupulous, this big sister listened to the words of the little grandson, really, the tears flowed down at once, the grievance in her heart, every day busy doing housework with the children, and finally the daughter-in-law not only did not know gratitude, but also so disgusted with her. It's so mixed that I can't even be as good as a nanny. Nannies do these jobs and people still have a return, but what about me? Do a thankless task. So the eldest sister had a showdown with her son and went home to take care of the old man.

The son understood her quite well, said, Mom, I also know that you have suffered a lot of grievances over the years, I see it in my eyes, but Xiaomei (daughter-in-law) is that temper, I can't always quarrel with you and me all day, so I turn a blind eye.

It just so happens that Dad is not in good health and is hospitalized again, you go quickly, I can't hold on if you don't leave again. He asked his son, did I do something wrong? The son said, it is not your problem, or his daughter-in-law has too many things to do, and she picks bones in eggs all day long. In the past few years that you have been here, I am afraid that you two will have an awkward quarrel every day. Now that your child is in kindergarten, you can go back. The province is angry here. After listening to her son's words, the eldest sister's heart is also particularly uncomfortable, after all, the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law are estranged after all, you are good to her with your heart and lungs, and people do not appreciate it. Forget it, pack up your things and go home these days.

In fact, after I listened, I was very happy for the eldest sister, the children's home is never their own home, and they can't count on the children in the future, or go home to serve their wives well, how good it is for the old two to live a safe and stable life, the children are willing to go home, and they are not reluctant to go home.

The eldest sister even wanted to open, and she also understood. But often people of our age, some things are involuntary.

Or go back to your own home, you can do what you like to do, you don't have to look at other people's faces every day, want to eat what you want to do, how good! Friends, what do you think?

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