Whether to be together or not, points to consider

In feelings, once some people love, they will ignore it and say that they want to be with each other.

I don't care what kind of person the other party is, what kind of family situation he has, how he is to himself, whether his personality is in tune, anyway, he will appear particularly blind, and he only wants to grasp the other party, regardless of what will happen in the future.

A look of love first, no matter what kind of ending will be after that, he is willing to eat like a look.

Being able to be so blind to love seems like a good thing to say, but if the other party is not a good person at all, this will of course only make us very passive, and then we need to bear a lot of price for our own actions.

For love, we are willing to be brave, which is a good thing, but we don't have to be only brave, not a little bit of sanity.

Marriage is a lifelong thing, no matter what, make a good judgment and think carefully, there is nothing wrong with that.

On the question of whether to be with a person or not, we must consider our own feelings, and we should also consider the other party's personality and the other party's family status.

See if you like it and accept it.

It seems that there will always be some time when we meet a person, the other party's various conditions, we all feel very good, but also know that if you choose each other, the future days, will be relatively stress-free.

However, the conditions are very good, and we know that we can choose, but we may just feel that we don't like it.

Can't say why, vaguely there will always be some dissatisfaction, feel that there is no way to accept each other, live with each other, and even very reluctant to have some physical contact with each other, just want to be far away.

If for a person, we really don't like it, the body is very repelled, the heart is full of disgust, we really don't have to force ourselves to choose, barely together, even if the material security, there will be no happiness at all.

People's feelings, like it or not, many times, we simply have no way to control it.

Once you really don't like it, you feel that you can't accept it, no matter how long time has passed, everything will not get better, and you will only regret it.

Therefore, it is still necessary to try to find a person that you feel like more, at least to be able to accept the original other party, willing to have some skin kisses with each other, and will not feel uncomfortable because of this.

Be able to accept, just be together, live well with each other, if not, it is best to forget it, do not delay yourself, do not delay each other, that really will only make each other become particularly unfortunate.

The other party's character is good or not, and it is unreliable.

Living with a person, just liking, that's not enough.

Like it again, over time, everything will only become very light, no matter how much you like, when the other person is not good, like to lie, do not take feelings seriously, have some bad habits, gradually, we will only be intolerable at all.

Even if we are willing to tolerate it, the unreliability of the other party will only make our lives very unbearable, make us pay a heavy price, and never see the future again, never see any future again.

At any time, in love, we should maintain a vigilance and a sobriety.

You can love with your heart, but the premise must be that the other party is really worthy and is a reliable choice.

That is to say, the integrity and goodness of people, the unity of words and deeds, and the ability to treat us sincerely are also worthy of our belief.

Only if a person has a good nature and a sense of responsibility, then in the years to come, our days will be more secure, no matter what, the other party will not be too radical, do something very hurtful to us.

Because a person with a reliable character is more principled and has a more bottom line, his education and the upbringing in his bones do not allow him to become extreme, nor will he become terrible, so that it will have a very bad impact on us.

How the original family is, can it be integrated.

When talking about love, there are always people who feel that love is a matter of two people, as long as they love each other, everything is not a problem.

After really entering the marriage, many people regret it because of their own cognition.

Marriage, it is true that two people to form each other, but once married to a person, inevitably, we always need to deal with his family, need to have a special intersection.

Especially after having children, this intersection will be very close, and it is difficult to really exclude it.

Therefore, the important thing to choose the future other half is to look at each other, in addition to that, we must also look at his growth environment, whether his family is more sensible, or always likes to find fault, whether it is more accepting of us, or simply looking down on us.

Of course, we must also look at the people we choose, how to get along with our families, it is very foolish, always like to stand on the side of the family, or know how to take care of our feelings, reluctant to let us be wronged.

There are really some abnormal, too complicated families, do not know how to respect us at all, will only treat us as outsiders of the family, we better still forget, internal contradictions, sooner or later will make us unable to persist.

Obviously very welcome to us, and even on our side, bent on the hope that we can live a good life after marriage, but also give support to the family, of course, we do not have to think so much, can be directly chosen.

Marriage is something like that, it looks like it's just being with someone, but in fact, it's really about choosing a lifestyle.

Choosing different people and becoming our life partners will really be very different for the rest of our lives.

It is precisely because of this that we must be willing to do so, we must find a person with a relatively good character, we must find a relatively harmonious family relationship, and we must be able to tolerate us well.

Choose such a person, after marriage, even if it is not too rich, life will not be bad.

The other party is the best guarantee, and he will give us the best fulfillment.

On the contrary, if you hesitate, the other person is not ok, the family is very complicated, it is best to consider more.

The days after marriage, that need to be our own to go, the results of everything, that often also needs to be borne by ourselves.

Text/Tan Meng

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