Everyone's highest ideal in life is to make a lot of money, to marry a beautiful daughter-in-law, which is what many people want to do the most, because in the eyes of many people, this is their ultimate goal in life, but it is very difficult for many people to earn a lot of money and marry a beautiful daughter-in-law.
Because there is a first element in earning money, that is, to be able to talk, because in today's society, people who can talk always have an advantage over those who can't talk, if the children of the family can talk, then the family will feel very happy, it is really lucky.
The most important factor in whether a person can succeed is that his emotional intelligence must be strong, this is a sentence said by Ma Yun, Ma Yun once said that if a person wants to succeed, his emotional intelligence must be strong, which is a sentence that Ma Yun once said. Ma Yun said something like this at a meeting, in today's society, if a person wants to succeed, his emotional intelligence must be high, he must be able to speak, if he can't do these points, then he can't succeed, which is a necessary element of success.
In life everywhere show the emotional intelligence of children, once I remembered that there was a child in a family, the child was 7 years old, one day he went to his uncle and aunt's house to play, but he found his uncle and aunt arguing at home, two people are blackface, aunt said I want to divorce you, he found that there is also a divorce agreement on the table.
At this time they were signing, and their family and children were also locked in the house by their uncles and aunts, not letting them see this scene, and the two children were scared and crying, seeing this scene, the children of this family did not hurry to say to their aunts, the necklace that uncle bought for you is really beautiful. Then he said to his uncle: Uncle, I am hungry, I want to eat the food made by my aunt. So after eating, the child said thank you uncle and aunt, your home is so warm, I never want to go back to my house, I want to be your child.
These few words of this child pull the relationship between the two sides very close, let both parties know that their home is very good, so that they will not easily divorce, these two sentences let the uncle think that there is a wife in the family who can cook, really have face, usually when they come back, they can better let the child eat hot meals.
And to make the wife feel that there is a husband in the family, although it often makes him angry, but it is also very good. This child ended a family divorce war just because of this small few words, the child's IQ is very high, and the emotional intelligence is also very high.
If a child wants his emotional intelligence to become very high, he must always do these things
First, in life, often praise others
If a person wants to have high emotional intelligence, then he is often praising others in life, if a person often loses others in life, then others will not like him, he will not have high emotional intelligence, a person has high emotional intelligence, he is often praising others in life.
When he praises others, others will feel that this person really can do things and will come. In this way, others will like this child very much, if a person always hurts others and says bad things about this person, then this person does not like him, and others will think that this child always says bad things about others, is it not good for others in his heart? This will make others not want to play with this child for a long time.
Second, let the child not get angry easily
There are many children who are very angry during puberty, but children must have very strong emotional control skills. Children should not always be angry when they are young, and if they are always angry when they are young, it will not be of any benefit to the child.
Children must pay attention to one point when they are young, that is, not to get angry, because once the child is angry, it will make others feel that the child is always angry and does not have his own emotional control, which is very bad.
Third, can talk
Now this society can talk is to do things, just like some people they will only stuffy things, but if they can't talk, they will not get the weight of leadership, but some people will talk, can not do things, will also get the weight of leadership, in the local era in addition to being a face-watching society, or a talking time, if you can talk, you will get the weight of others.
summary
In this era, only people with high emotional intelligence can get the trust of others, if his emotional intelligence is not high, he will not get the weight of others, if you want to get the weight of others, you must be high, otherwise it is not OK.
Emotional intelligence in today's society is an important factor that determines a person's achievements, if a person wants to have a very large achievement, her emotional intelligence must be high, otherwise he will have a great distance from this society, and will not have great achievements. High emotional intelligence means that you can go further in the future, and your future achievements are higher.