The gestation period is a full 10 months, which is a kind of torture for many pregnant mothers. But for most pregnant mothers, there is still hope. After all, sooner or later, children will be born, it is only a matter of time. Throughout pregnancy, it is key to maintaining your own good mood, and you can't affect your emotions because of a small thing.
Our office is mostly female, and we all finish eating at noon on this day and get together for a small snack. Xiao Wang is a pregnant woman in our office, she said that she has been looking forward to the birth of the child, but she is afraid, the moment the baby is born, what is her feeling.
Next to the sister Zhou came to interject, what does the mother feel, that is a word cool, hehe, accumulated for several months of and urine have come out together. This description is very graphic, and the sense of picture is too strong.
In fact, this kind of thing is not uncommon in the delivery room. Many people think that the scene of having a child is pain. Or the cry of maternal pain at that time, in fact, the mother was in the operating room, and there were many embarrassing things. Many women urinate and urinate together in the delivery room.
Because in the third trimester, the uterus occupies most of the entire stomach, and the stomach is squeezed together, so most pregnant mothers have constipation. At the same time, pregnant mothers have cases where the pelvic floor muscles are stretched too badly, so that the muscles lose elasticity and cannot hold urine. When giving birth in the delivery room, if the force is too strong, it will be uncontrollable, and there will be a case of and urine.
Many women who have this situation will want to find a seam to drill into. After all, for the average person, these are dirty and difficult to accept. But the doctors and nurses in the delivery room instead comfort the mother, which happens often in the delivery room, don't worry too much. The main thing is to focus on giving birth to the baby, and the mother can continue to give birth to the baby with peace of mind after being comforted.
Thousands of faces, some women usually have a more straightforward personality, in the delivery room by the pain stimulated, will have a personality explosion, for Bao Dad, is to complain and scold. In order to pass on the lineage to his family, he had to suffer such torture, and he scolded his husband directly in pain. However, this is also a family mode of getting along, although there are complaints, but there are also understandings. However, it was embarrassing to be embarrassed by the doctors and nurses next to me, and it was very embarrassing to be next to me.
In addition to the normal birth of the mother, the caesarean section is now also the choice of many pregnant mothers. Although vaginal delivery has more benefits for both the baby and the pregnant mother, some babies are not suitable for vaginal delivery, so they eventually choose caesarean section. There will be much less fun in caesarean section, and the woman has been anesthetized at this time and is completely unconscious.
That is, sometimes some cases are too different, doctors and nurses will discuss a few words, for example, some pregnant mothers do not pay attention to weight control during pregnancy, resulting in a large stomach and a lot of fat. The doctor will sigh that this stomach is troublesome to operate, it is all fat. If the family accidentally hears it, it is also very embarrassing.
When the woman's childbirth is completed, it is found that her previous fantasies will be disappointed. During pregnancy, you cannot wear nice clothes, only loose maternity clothing. I always thought that after giving birth, I could wear beautiful high heels and the previous skirt. In fact, in addition to the smaller belly, the whole person is a circle larger, and the previous clothes are completely unwearable.
The pregnant mother used to think that after giving birth, she could eat hot pot, eat fried chicken, and drink Coke. Just wait until the birth of the child to find that for the sake of breast milk, give the child the best nutrition, these things can only be given up in the short term. Breast milk is generally at least half a year, and it can only continue to endure. This is the difference, I used to live a life of habituation and unrestrained, and now after giving birth to a child, with bondage, I will begin to self-discipline, just for the health of the baby.
Many mothers just can't digest their negative emotions, so they begin to doubt themselves, and they will also suffer from gains and losses. Excessive anxiety can even cause insomnia, which is also a sign of postpartum depression. In addition to not being able to go back to the previous life, I also have to take care of a small baby day and night, holding and coaxing every day. Hungry to feed her, pee pulled him to change his diapers. When he cried inexplicably, worried about whether the baby's health was a problem, all of this made Bao Mom's heart exhausted.
Becoming a mother for the first time is naturally not such an easy thing. Mom for herself, but also for the baby. You have to adjust your mindset. Adjust yourself in life and try to ensure that you have the same work and rest time as your baby, so that you can get more rest time. Newborn babies, most of the time in sleep, you can also take advantage of the baby's sleep, do a little simple exercise, help themselves postpartum repair, you can also adjust their emotions.
Of course, when you are emotionally broken, it is also appropriate to give yourself a short vacation when you recharge yourself. At this time, please ask your teammates to take care of the baby and empty yourself, which is also a good way to decompress.