May the hearts of one man be won, and the white head not be separated.
Du Yuan did this sentence, he is not only a good actor, but also a good husband and father.
He and his wife met at the age of 4, and they have been married for 40 years and have never had any scandals.
They had a daughter after marriage, and now it is their greatest pride.
Looking back on Du Yuan's life, the appearance of his wife is his salvation, and the birth of his daughter has given him hope.
Ill-fated childhood
Du Yuan was born in a village in Harbin in the northeast, and in addition to his family, he had several older brothers and sisters.
His father supported the extended family with money earned from odd jobs, which was the family's only source of income.
Although the days are hard, the family is happy and harmonious.
But when he was born 4 months later, his mother died of a sudden illness.
During that time, everyone in the family was immersed in a stressful environment, and without a mother, the home was extremely deserted.
His father also became more and more depressed during that time, and even began to numb himself with alcohol.
Whenever he was drunk, his father would break the contents of the house, making the family, which had no fireworks, even more deserted.
After Du Yuan's aunt learned of the situation, she returned to take the young Du Yuan and take him back to her home to raise.
She didn't want such a young child to become pitiful and helpless, and from then on she took on the responsibility of taking care of Du Yuan.
She and her husband, who have not yet had children after marriage, have the time and energy to raise the child.
Du Yuan moved to his aunt's house from then on, and it was here that he met the most important person in his life.
When he was 4 years old, he was playing in front of his aunt's house as usual, when he suddenly saw a little girl standing in front of the neighbor's house.
He shyly stepped forward to say hello and invited her to be friends.
Later, he learned that the girl's name was Fan Xiaochun and she was a neighbor's child.
Du Yuan's personality is more extroverted, watching the introverted girl silent, he decided to take the girl to try new things.
They often meet at the doorstep of their homes and then go on an "adventure" together by the surrounding small river or in the crop fields.
Over time, the two of them became very good friends, and it seemed that they had to stick together every day.
One day he picked some bright flowers on the side of the road, tied them with ropes, and sent them to Fan Xiaochun's hands.
"You have received my flowers, and you will be my man from now on."
At this time, none of them thought that what they had said at that time had become a reality.
At that time, they agreed to go with each other all the time, and even met with their parents.
The fate of the two began to unfold from the age of 4, and neither of them knew that this fate was about to accompany them for a lifetime.
After playing with Fan Xiaochun for a few years, in the blink of an eye, he has reached the age of elementary school.
The day before the start of school, they were still upset that they would spend less time together in the future, and they were surprised the next day.
It turned out that they went to the same elementary school, or even the same class.
When the teacher arranged the seats, he and Fan Xiaochun were inadvertently arranged to sit together and became the same table.
Maybe sometimes fate is such a strange thing.
Fan Xiaochun has an introverted personality and is often bullied in the class, and he will stand up for him.
Even if he was hurt sometimes, he still protected Fan Xiaochun without hesitation.
At that time, both of them were still young and did not understand what love was.
But perhaps in this overnight relationship, the feelings of the two have reached an inseparable point.
Youth in each other's company
The two were not only at the same table in elementary school, but also at the same table after junior high school.
The two of them often went home together after school, and he rode her on a bicycle through the pyrotechnic streets.
The class often said that the two of them were "early love", and sometimes they were even called to talk by the teacher.
It was not until the parents of both sides came that they explained clearly that the two were green plum bamboo horses.
In the blink of an eye, after 3 years of secondary school careers, the two were admitted to the same high school.
They were still at the same table in high school, and both had reached puberty by this time.
They finally understand how it feels to treat each other for so many years, but none of them are willing to bring up the idea of being in love.
The two of them spent each day in such a clear and confused manner, until one day Fan Xiaochun received a love letter.
They went to school normally that day, and suddenly a person from the next class called Fan Xiaochun to the door and handed her a letter.
She returned to her seat to look at it, it turned out to be a love letter, and in an instant the little face turned red shyly.
After Du Yuan next to him saw it, his face also became very red.
However, he did not blush because of shyness, but he was very angry, and at the same time he felt his sense of crisis.
In order not to let the people he likes fall into the arms of others, he decided to start first.
On a trip home from school, he pretended to talk to Fan Xiaochun casually.
"You can be my girlfriend."
When he said these words, he could already feel his heart accelerating, and his whole body was nervous, afraid of being rejected by the other party.
But with that affirmative answer, all the uneasiness and tension in his heart vanished in an instant.
The two came together until they graduated from high school.
The two men who are about to be assigned to work can no longer see each other every day, as they used to.
They can only see each other when the unit is on vacation.
Du Yuan was assigned to the local post office, and every day's work was sorting and loading and unloading.
Although he has to do high-intensity work every day, the salary he gets every month is a drop in the bucket for him.
He had thought about a question more than once, the salary was too low, how should he marry Fan Xiaochun home in the future?
After a long time, an idea began to appear in his mind, that is, to go outside and take a break.
Even if the future is uncertain, it is better than doing such tiring physical work here every day with such a small amount of dead wages.
In 1978, he accidentally heard from a colleague that he could make a lot of money as an actor, and he just caught up with the enrollment of Chinese opera, so he went to the scene to register.
But he didn't have much talent, and how to stand out from a group of artistic elites.
In a hurry, he took a newspaper and read it directly at the scene of the audition.
People around him are whispering that he must have come here to "smash the field", can such a person be admitted to the Chinese opera?
The result surprised everyone present, he actually stood out among tens of thousands of people and successfully entered the Chinese opera.
This means that he and his girlfriend no longer just see each other once a week, but don't see each other for a long time.
Before leaving, he told Fan Xiaochun to take care of himself and wait until he became famous before he came back to marry her home.
The lovers said goodbye reluctantly at the station, and Fan Xiaochun even followed the train for a while after the train started.
Du Yuan looked at his girlfriend in front of him, and both sides were already crying and red-eyed.
From falling in love to getting married and having children
After Du Yuan came to the Chinese opera, he felt unprecedented pressure.
He himself was lucky to come in, and he never learned any talent from childhood to adulthood, not even the most basic singing.
And the other students here are all talented and talented, and they must have good looks and talents.
At that time, he often felt inferior, but fortunately, his teachers always encouraged him not to give up easily.
In order to shorten the distance with his classmates, he used all his time to study, eager to become a talented person one day.
During his college years, his girlfriend took the initiative to take care of Du Yuan's family.
He was very touched by this and studied acting even harder in school.
During his time at school, he was invited by the director to go to filming.
Although it is only a small supporting role, it is very good for him as long as he has the opportunity to be photographed.
He sent the first money he earned from filming to his girlfriend intact and asked her to take good care of herself.
But Fan Xiaochun saved part of the money, and the other part was used to take care of Du Yuan's aunt and uncle.
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, Du Yuan has graduated from college and officially entered the show business circle.
And the first thing he did after graduation was to marry Fan Xiaochun, who had worked hard for himself, back home.
They had a wedding in their hometown and have been a real family ever since.
After marriage, Du Yuan continued to go out to shoot dramas, while his wife Fan Xiaochun stayed at home to do Xiannei help.
In her free time, she reads some entertainment news in magazines, and whenever she sees other people's gossip, she always feels insecure in her heart.
In order to prevent her husband from empathizing, she began to learn to wear makeup like a woman in a magazine, which made Du Yuan feel very cute.
They gave birth to a daughter a few years after their marriage, who seemed to have inherited her father and had a high yearning for art.
Now their daughter has grown up, become a director, and has a certain reputation in the show business circle.
She often said that whenever she shoots a love short film, she does not have to think about the subject matter, and directly refers to the love of her parents.
Du Yuan has been in the show business for decades, from an obscure small role to a well-known old drama bone.
In addition to his own efforts, he is also indispensable to the silent support of his wife behind him.
Now he and his wife Fan Xiaochun have been married for 40 years, and there has never been any scandal during this period.
Whenever there is a New Year's festival, he will also carefully prepare gifts for his wife to make her happy.
From the acquaintance at the age of 4 to the green plum bamboo horse, and then to the marriage and children after growing up, they are still in love for decades.
Their love may be the ideal love, I wish them to be happy and sweet forever, and I also wish that everyone here can also find their own love.