When people are old, some roads must be faced alone, trekked alone; no matter how long the road is, no matter how dark the night is, they have to go on silently and naturally alone.
Some people tell you that it is difficult to say a word, and some people do not leave you quietly; life no longer knows the cold and warm, and no longer meets. It seems like a long life, but it is between opening your eyes and closing your eyes.
In fact, there is nothing worth worrying about in life except life and death; many things are unclear and unclear. As long as everyone is worthy of their conscience, it is right to go down the road.
01: People are old, their ability is limited, and retreating to the second line is the avenue
In the second half of life, life is going downhill, everyone is getting old, and it is more necessary to serve the old; you can no longer think of yourself as a strong young man. It is necessary to adjust yourself appropriately according to your physical condition, rather than blindly dismantling it.
As people get older, storing health is key and the wisest choice.
Our life is only one-way, no round trip. Keeping yourself healthy is a virtue, and keeping your family healthy is your responsibility.
The second half of life is to fight for health, whether you are in the second line; or a formal retirement life, the second half of life is completely dependent on everyone's wisdom to win the final life.
The second half of life is a short and long interval of life; because age has tended to live in old age, the various functions of the body have begun to decay, and diseases have begun to induce; this is a double test for the spirit and body of the elderly.
Many elderly people also know how to take a back seat, make themselves happier, and reposition their way of life.
After taking a back seat, there will be a lot of time to figure out what your hobbies are as soon as possible; let yourself use your residual heat in your lifetime.
Elderly people with poor health should cultivate an optimistic attitude and actively participate in fitness and wellness activities.
The elderly who are physically strong can exert their residual heat and continue to start a business and do a career. Or travel, photography. Or do something meaningful to contribute to society.
People with literary skills can learn to write and publish some meaningful headlines with their own opinions.
There are also some elderly people who have special hobbies in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, and can play their talents in this regard.
People with business wisdom, in this materialistic society, can keep themselves from idleness; let money make money, increase their own joy of life, why not.
02: The downhill road of life means that wealth is reduced, and it is necessary to cover the wallet for the elderly
But all the words related to "old people" reveal some fatigue and helplessness.
That is to say: we have walked through the peak of life, and then go forward, it is a downward road. It also means that the elderly are getting worse, their wealth is decreasing, and they need more money for the rest of their lives; it also means that you need to go down naturally in the second half of your life.
Life is like climbing a high mountain, before the age of eighteen, you stand at the foot of the mountain, looking at the big mountain in front of you, Xu Hu is thinking and learning. Because there is no strength to climb yet.
After the age of eighteen, some people looked at this big mountain, looked away, and chose to quit.
Some people decide to climb the peak, take the first step at the foot of the mountain, and start a long walk,
Some people run at the foot of the mountain at the beginning, and the result is that they can't eat hot tofu in a hurry, and they have no strength in the middle of the mountain, so they can only choose to go down the mountain in advance.
And those who walk slowly, although they have reached the middle of the mountainside, but the sky has unpredictable wind and clouds, and suddenly encounters wind and rain.
At this point, there are two choices ahead: forward or backward.
One type of person chooses to continue climbing to the top of the mountain, and the other chooses to retreat and run down; the result is that the person who climbs up goes a long way, and the person who runs down ends up encountering a flash flood caused by wind and rain, which instantly engulfs the person.
When people reach middle age, it is like a person in the middle of the mountainside, sometimes the wind and rain come, the road ahead is vast, only by insisting on moving forward can we safely survive the difficult period.
Before retirement, like a person who climbs fearlessly upwards, he will eventually succeed; when he reaches the top, he will always see the dawn, and then he needs to rest for a while. Enjoy the picturesque scenery of the country.
However, it is the downhill road of life that requires you to go down slowly and naturally. You can't always stand on the top of the mountain, because "there is no cold at the top." "It takes one step at a time to go down.
Downhill is downhill, not to mention impatient, too fast easy to fall. People's energy is limited and they need to serve the elderly properly; the best way to live is to live well in the present.
May the rest of your life, you and I have a strong heart, let go of what should be put down, and forget what should be forgotten.
With beauty in your heart, you can sing and walk all the way.
03: The feelings are simple, the human heart is not tired,
Life is too short, time is too long. Calm down and think about it carefully; in fact, it is really not easy for people to live.
Every day there will be things you don't expect, there are happy things, there are things that meet angry things. There are helplessness in life, and there are also sad things. Sometimes it's really crying and laughing, because the explanation is not clear....
For example, a few headlines written in the past few days, some people read it and think that it is accurate to them; in fact, it is not the meaning of this, it is written about some normal phenomena in society; the purpose of writing is to have more reading and number of fans.
But some people read it and sit down on the number, thinking that it was written for them; they resented it and had the idea of revenge. Whether I'm right or not, it's a challenge to life.
Because, my certification is to write about life and social dynamics. I don't think there's anything inappropriate about writing about these things.
Life is a process of tempering, and this saying is not false at all. Without these it would never be ripe.
In fact, the feelings are simple, and the human heart is not tired. Not for the approval of others, but to be worthy of one's own conscience.
Life is a tour, do not care about the destination; care about the scenery along the way and the mood of seeing the scenery.
Life is a bumpy road, even if you keep falling, you must stand up every time and stick to your dreams.
If someone annoys you, there is no need to retaliate; because iq difference is the farthest distance in the world. If someone else does a very bad thing and you do it, it is equivalent to pulling yourself down to the same level.
When you see something that you can't live with, please keep a calm mood; don't get angry, but don't remember that the most cruel way to deal with a person is not to teach him a lesson, but to forget the resentment from your memory, and to value peace.
The rest of your life is not long, love yourself!
04, Conclusion:
Spiritual abundance, quiet is a kind of cultivation.
The best state of life is rich quietness, quiet because of getting rid of the temptation of vanity and profit from the outside world,
Richness is due to possession of treasures of the inner spiritual world.
People who like to be quiet often like to be alone; because being alone is not disturbed by the environment and is not swayed by others.
Quietness is a kind of cultivation, not impetuous, not fluctuating, not considering whether the aura on the head is brilliant, quietly not ostentatious, not arguing with people about length.
When lonely, I can hear the chirping of cicadas in the corners of the wall; see the beauty blooming, smell the fragrance of green; enjoy this rare time, let people be quiet and leisurely.
At such times, no one disturbs or makes noise; instead, being alone is the best medicine for reflection.
When you are alone you will hear sounds that you would normally not hear, the sound of your heart touching.
Let that good time lead us into a quiet world.