There is a saying: "Life is ordinary, but we can create extraordinary life." ”
I remember the first time I read "Ordinary World", I felt that Lu Yao favored the protagonist in his work.
Sun Shao'an's family was particularly poor, and he couldn't even open the pot, so he dropped out of junior high school. Every day he was busy with work and dealing with all kinds of chores at home.
Compared with those who have a good birth, he has neither a family nor a background, and is an ordinary rural person. Although he has nothing, he is still liked by women.
There is a saying: "Life is ordinary, but we can create extraordinary life." ”
I remember the first time I read "Ordinary World", I felt that Lu Yao favored the protagonist in his work.
Sun Shao'an's family was particularly poor, and he couldn't even open the pot, so he dropped out of junior high school. Every day he was busy with work and dealing with all kinds of chores at home.
Compared with those who have a good birth, he has neither a family nor a background, and is an ordinary rural person. Although he has nothing, he is still liked by women.
Runye grew up with him and became a teacher after graduation. Sun Shang'an dropped out of school early and worked as a farmer at home.
There is a big gap between the two people in terms of identity and family background, but this does not prevent Runye from liking Sun Shaoan and wanting to marry him.
He Xiulian's requirements for finding a partner are very high, and many people can't look at it. But once I saw Sun Shaoan, I wanted to marry him. After he arrived at Sun Shao'an's house, he followed him and took care of his family.
What is sun shaoan worthy of girls' liking?
The first time He Xiulian saw Sun Shao'an, she recognized him in her heart. Maybe it's like his true temperament and simplicity.
Runye may appreciate the kind of temperament in him more, although he dropped out of school very early, he has ideas and brains.
For the women of that era, the most attractive thing about a man may not be that he has a noble birth and a lot of wealth, but that in that ordinary world, a person can have a true disposition, which may be the most attractive charm of a man.
There are many people who have inferiority because they were not born well and have low academic qualifications, and feel that they are inferior to others everywhere.
Although Sun Shao'an was poor and not highly educated, he had his own opinions, and he was never defeated by the difficulties in life, but became more and more courageous.
For such an opinionated and thoughtful person, he is not willing to be an ordinary life, to be an ordinary farmer like everyone else, so he has been trying to seek change.
Even as a farmer, he wants to be an extraordinary farmer.
Perhaps he has a precious charm and integrity in him that attracts these two women to like.
After reading "Ordinary World" and watching the love between Sun Shaoan and Runye, I realized that men like a woman and want to marry women, sometimes differently.
Maybe Sun Shao'an's not marrying Tian Runye is the best way to love her.
A man loves a woman, in order to give her happiness, does not suffer with himself, chooses to sacrifice his love.
Regarding the matter of marriage, Runye's first thought was Sun Shao'an, who had liked it for a long time, and he wrote a note to Sun Shao'an: "I am willing to be with you for a lifetime."
Sun Shaoan liked Ruiye, but he was still very touched when he saw this note. He wants to be with Runye, but he is also a very calm person, and the gap between the two makes him choose to give up this relationship after calming down.
He didn't want the woman he loved to marry him, only to suffer hardships, and part of the reason was that he felt inferior.
Sun Shaoan decided to end this relationship and put Runye in his heart from then on, becoming his best memory.
The most painful thing in love is that the person you love says to you, "I'm sorry, I love you, but I can't marry you." ”
Sun Shaoan's calmness and rationality in dealing with love are both angry and admirable.
Angry, he just gave up his happiness and pushed the woman who loved him away from his side.
What he admired was that he sacrificed his love only to make his beloved's life better.
He believes: "Not marrying you is the best way for me to love you." ”
In order to completely break this relationship and let Runye die for himself, Sun Shaoan resolutely went on a blind date and fell in love with He Xiulian at a glance, a hard-working and capable person.
After He Xiulian married Sun Shao'an, she did not live a comfortable life and has been working hard for this family. He eventually fell ill and died of overwork.
It was hard to survive, and the two of them would soon have a better life, but they fell ill. "Ordinary World" does not write the ending of Sun Shaoan, but I think he feels guilty about Xiulian. Marrying her didn't make her live a good life.
In love, there is a lot of helplessness, maybe the person you love does not love you; the person who loves you does not love.
Maybe two people walk together by mistake, making up for each other and making up for each other.
It will also allow two people to consume that relationship in the trivialities of life.
Maybe two people will have feelings in their daily bits and pieces together.
In any case, we should cherish the person who has always been with us. People who give silently.
In the long life, in addition to parents, children, and ultimately accompany themselves will always be the person who loves you.
Reading "Ordinary World", the family affection, love, and life experience of each person have a deep touch on themselves.
Life is ordinary, but we can create extraordinary lives.