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The suffering of reading is less than twenty years, but the suffering of life is a lifetime.
The so-called "eat bitterly, only to be a good person." "A person always has to suffer for a while, so that he will not suffer for a lifetime."
People born in the countryside and born in the 70s and 80s of the last century are people who have "suffered". From a young age, he had to follow his parents to do farm work and housework, which was equivalent to half a "laborer".
Reading has become the only way to change your destiny, and it is also the fastest way out. At that time, if children in rural schools could be admitted to secondary school, it meant "jumping out of the farm and eating the national grain." ”
The policy of allocating packages for secondary school students has inspired a large number of rural children who are interested in changing their destiny, and they must create conditions to study without conditions.
Many people read while doing farm work; reading while doing housework; reading while doing odd jobs.
After returning to the "new house", he lit a candle, lay down in the pile of torn bedding on the corner wheat straw, and immediately began to read the novel. There was silence all around, and people were already falling asleep. A cool evening breeze blew in through the open windows, swaying with bean-grain candlelight.
This is a scene depiction of Sun Shaoan's reading in "Ordinary World", which is always fresh in people's minds.
This is the collective memory of how many post-70s and post-80s, in a difficult environment, reading fills the lack of material life, soothes the fatigue of physical labor, makes people jump out of the immediate forced, depressed and helpless, lights up the passion of life, sees another world, and desperately goes closer.
At that time, the secondary school students, although they did not have a high education, but the learning ability was very strong, in the development and change of the times, they could always stand at the head of the tide, do a line, fine a line, invincible.
After many years, when I returned to my hometown, the people who read and those who did not read were already people from two different worlds. Although the feelings are still there, the differences in cultural levels and the differences in the circles, even if they are reunited for a long time, after the warm greetings, it is endless embarrassment and unspeakable emotion.
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People who read are more likely to meet their favorite lovers.
In "Ordinary World", because he likes to read, Sun Shaoan and Tian Xiaoxia gradually come together. Their families were very different, but they were impressed by the common language.
Sun Shaoan is a laborer, Tian Xiaoxia became a reporter in the provincial city after graduating from university, but she still likes Sun Shaoping, because she has experienced so much suffering, the quality of Sun Shaoping has not changed, which is the power that comes from books.
A person who reads, there is always a special temperament in his words and deeds, even if he has suffered and tortured, he still has a good heart, kindness and sincerity, humility but self-confidence, like a light jasmine, with its own fragrance and elegance.
And what kind of person you are, you will attract what kind of people.
In the fairy tale of the prince falling in love with the princess, the prince must be smart and brave, and the princess must be beautiful and kind, not just a match of identity.
If you want to meet the lover you want, it is better to make yourself a good person, a person worthy of being loved.
The heroine of "Jane Eyre", the cold door woman Jane Ai, lives in an environment where her parents are both dead and she is sent to the fence. But she did not despair and self-destruct, but insisted on learning in adversity, drawing strength from books, and finally became a tutor with rich knowledge, which led to a love story derived from the later encounter with the aristocratic manor owner Rochester at Thornfield Manor.
If you have a high vision, and the people around you can't become your "good match", you may wish to decisively temporarily close the floodgates of emotions, what you need is to calm down and read, and thus achieve your own advancement. When you reach a new and higher platform, naturally, you will also meet the same excellent people.
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Reading never starts at the latest.
"Three days of farewell, when the eyes are impressed."
Lü Meng, a famous general of the Three Kingdoms, was originally born in the army, had no culture, and was in an important position because of his outstanding military achievements, so Sun Quan repeatedly advised him to study more to increase his insight. At first, Lü Meng always refused on the pretext of busy official duties, but was refuted by Sun Quan.
Lü Meng then heeded the advice and began to read some history books and military books. Later, Lu Su came to visit, and after the two had a conversation, Lü Meng's words were very insightful, which surprised him quite a bit, and he secretly admired it in his heart, and the two also got closer to each other, and later they also became friends.
Amun, who knows shame and courage, tells us that reading never starts too late, not afraid of slow, afraid of "standing", as long as you start reading, life will enter a new journey.
This tells people that in the workplace, people who read books and people who don't have books have completely different ways out. People who read books accumulate over time, make up for deficiencies, accumulate insights, and gradually change from "laymen" to "experts". And thus met many like-minded people, thus getting the admiration of colleagues, the appreciation of leaders, the road to promotion has become a natural success.
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Conclusion:
There is a saying that there is a beautiful jade in the book, a golden house in the book, and a thousand bells in the book. When I was a child, I couldn't help but understand the meaning of this sentence, and I didn't know how "Yan Ruyu", "Golden House" and "Thousand Bells Millet" came from the book.
Until I changed my fate through reading, improved my status, and met a good person, I understood that it turned out that reading gave people wisdom, knowledge produced value, and thus shaped a person's new values, transcending the world, and gaining spiritual support.
Author: Like the wind is light as a cloud.
Your happiness, my blessings.
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